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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shall i surprise the wife with a threesome (straight mmf)? Is it a good idea? Here's the story....

We've been together for over 10 years. Twice we have had a threesome with my best friend.

She enjoyed it even though it was definitely all my idea. But he's been married for years so no longer an option. We have discussed doing it with another one of my friends on multiple occasions (mostly when wrecked off our faces lol) and all 3 of us have been up for it, but it just never quite happened despite coming close. (She was touching his cock through his jeans once when she was sat between us on the couch, other friends were in the room but couldn't see, she was just kinda holding her hand there against it while talking to the rest in the room as tho nothing happening... so hot).

Anyway...... When speaking to wife about the whole threesome thing, she says she gets turned on by it, but is worried it won't be kept private and our other friends would find out (which happened from the last two times with my other friend. Not that it caused a problem, just a bit embarrassing for her).

So, I suggested this website and she agreed (by the way.. we're onlyinterested in mmf straight, i mean, i would do mff, but she's not too comfortable and I'm cool with that). Anyway, we made the profile but 6 months later.. we still haven't done anything.

The problem is, we struggle to talk about it unless we are smashed on a wild bender. She's up for it then, but of course she wants fun there and then, and that's difficult at 4am unable to drive etc etc. And at that point, she just wants sex with me there and then, and I don't feel comfortable saying "hey, lets jump on fab." it doesn't feel like the right time.

I did wonder about setting up a surprise 3sum. Have a guy sneak in when door unlocked and just join us whilst having sex. Has anyone done this and if so can you tell me about it? Also, i may be interested to here from guys (north west based) who'd like to do this

The threesome thing seems to be getting discussed less and less these days. What do you all recommend as I don't want this fantasy to fade away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly wouldn't suggest you act on it at 4am when you're 'smashed' as you put it. You need to discuss it properly when sober. If you're finding you can't and it's taking you both being d*unk to talk about it then I'd suggest it's not something you should pursue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope she gets her fill

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If it's something you'd like to do, then plan it properly, or take her to a club, I certainly wouldn't involve a friend.

A stranger who doesn't know you or any of you friends isn't going to "Blab" to anyone who matters to you.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have little inuendo's etc when sober, little looks winks etc. Its still there in the air... we both just a bit shy with it i suppose. Can't say we're hardened swingers by any shout so its not that easy to get going properly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's something you'd like to do, then plan it properly, or take her to a club, I certainly wouldn't involve a friend.

A stranger who doesn't know you or any of you friends isn't going to "Blab"

Cal"

Agreed, just whenever its happened in the past its been spare of the moment. Not sure how to get her into the 'planning' mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope she gets her fill "

Maybe i just need to show her ur pics to get her in the mood lol

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