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Are men who take strap ons bi-curious?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been musing with a friend on here about the subject of strap ons and if a man wants it/takes it from his wife/partner does this signify that he is bi-sexual or bi-curious?

My friend's point of view is that "if he wants a replica penis inside him then he is curious how it feels."

My own view is that he is mainly submissive to his wife and his bi-curiosity is there but secondary to this. This is what I think but my friend says: "does he enjoy the replica penis inside him? I imagine the dominant wife will 'take no prisoners' with said replica penis so he will have an idea of how it feels."

What do the Fabbers say? Anyone got any real-life experience of taking or being used by a strap on? Replies in the forum only please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean if men enjoy anal with a women their really gay

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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Don't think it indicates any level of bi-ness whatsoever unless the man in question actually has a curiousity about doing similar with another man.

Is just another aspect of the man's sexuality otherwise nothing to do with being bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's like saying lesbians shouldn't use dildos, because dildos are shaped like cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think hes curious as to how it feels to be stimulated anally. The shape of the strap on is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?"

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole"

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where. "

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me "

But that doesn't mean anyone that would let that happen when playing with a woman (and has no interest in playing with a man) is any less straight than you does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me "

But what does that have to do with your sexuality? Its just something you dont want to try.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Not really I'd say it more of a case of trying it out and seeing how it goes more than anything xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't knock it until you've tried it Liam.

Respecting your preferences though, if it's not for you then it's not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me

But that doesn't mean anyone that would let that happen when playing with a woman (and has no interest in playing with a man) is any less straight than you does it?"

Im not sure but if you like that have fun

The only person i know who openly says he likes things up his bum is gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me

But what does that have to do with your sexuality? Its just something you dont want to try. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being gay isn't about having things up your bottom, it's about being attracted to men.

Give it a try, it's a lot of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fucked men with a strap on and none of them have liked to admit they have done it. They have all said they are straight. What makes me laugh is the term 'orally bi'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have fucked men with a strap on and none of them have liked to admit they have done it. They have all said they are straight. What makes me laugh is the term 'orally bi' "

Fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your feisty replies so far... I am enjoying reading them and my friend may well offer her opinion too since she was the person who raised it with me... it's good to be on the receiving end (no pun intended!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's like saying lesbians shouldn't use dildos, because dildos are shaped like cocks. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this and in my opinion it more about the women been in control than the fact it's a cock but it is a toughy I have doubts myself but I just don't find a man attractive where as a women with or with out a strap on I do

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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Im not sure but if you like that have fun

The only person i know who openly says he likes things up his bum is gay"

Strikes me you've lead a sheltered life then or not met men who are open about their sexual preferences - as there are plenty of straight men who like exactly that, whether it be a finger inserted just a little bit, or full on strap-on or butt plug play.

If it's not for you then that's of course absolutely fine but anal play can give incredibly intense orgasms and definitely does not define a persons sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have done this and in my opinion it more about the women been in control than the fact it's a cock but it is a toughy I have doubts myself but I just don't find a man attractive where as a women with or with out a strap on I do "

Excellent contribution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being gay isn't about having things up your bottom, it's about being attracted to men.

Give it a try, it's a lot of fun! "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Im not sure but if you like that have fun

The only person i know who openly says he likes things up his bum is gay

Strikes me you've lead a sheltered life then or not met men who are open about their sexual preferences - as there are plenty of straight men who like exactly that, whether it be a finger inserted just a little bit, or full on strap-on or butt plug play.

If it's not for you then that's of course absolutely fine but anal play can give incredibly intense orgasms and definitely does not define a persons sexuality."

Ok mate thanks for evaluating my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would generally view them as probably straight but with a bit of a sub side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves getting her strapon on and taking on a persona she doesnt normally have or aspire to.. But she said she feels different in that situation.. Coupled with the fact she wants to hear my many many tales of guys taking me doggiestyle in the same postition it excites her no end.and i on the other hand take great great pleasure not only in the sex part of it but also the feeling of closeness and also equality in that im trusting her as she trusts me when we enter eachothers bums..to make a long story short.. Its brought us closer together in many ways.. If she wants me to dress up as cd she can ride my little butt and feel my fake boobies and she gets off on riding a female even though shes straight and not bi at all..if any of that makes sense lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would generally view them as probably straight but with a bit of a sub side. "

That more or less conforms to my own view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" yeah chatted to a girl who said she was 'Very bi' shed only kissed a couple of girls ha ha "

Hmmm, I don't think that would convince the trading standards council, Miss Needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have fucked men with a strap on and none of them have liked to admit they have done it. They have all said they are straight. What makes me laugh is the term 'orally bi'

Fab straight"

my last post was meant to quote this ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a physical sensation...end of. Whatever else you associate with it defines it further...if that's your thing. It doesn't make you bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does that mean if men enjoy anal with a women their really gay "

My oh my, I have just seen your photos, Lola... i hope your window cleaner didn't see you dressed like that all strapped and ready to go... or maybe he would have liked it and gave you a discount!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are men who take strap-ons bi curious?"....

No, they're probably pretty happy though..

I find it strange that some straight guys think that it feels good for the woman to receive anal yet don't consider that it would feel equally good for them too..

Physiologically, there's no difference between your arse and hers..

Try it, the sensation of being submissive to a woman who knows how to use a strap on properly is amazing...

Just start small...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My missus has been trying to persuade me to take a strap on, but am not convinced !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My missus has been trying to persuade me to take a strap on, but am not convinced !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you say it twice to try and convince yourself, Mr Filth!?

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me "

12 months ago I was on exactly the same page as you. MissK told me she had a fantasy of doing me with a strap on and much as I quietly shuddered at the thought I indulged her a few times. It didn't start well but I now actually enjoy it. Turns out you have to try new things a few times..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a Fab contribution, Mr K... does it have any bisexual connotations for you? What makes you enjoy it if you don't mind me asking...

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me

But that doesn't mean anyone that would let that happen when playing with a woman (and has no interest in playing with a man) is any less straight than you does it?

Im not sure but if you like that have fun

The only person i know who openly says he likes things up his bum is gay"

Not the best logic really. Understand where you're coming from. I've got a gay friend who goes very in depth about his second life, he's what they call a "top" so he loved cock and lads etc but nothing goes near his ass. He's 100% gay though.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"What a Fab contribution, Mr K... does it have any bisexual connotations for you? What makes you enjoy it if you don't mind me asking... "

Well, I have no burning desire to be bummed by a bloke, nor to bum one.

However it did make me change my status from straight to bi-curious only in so far as we've then gone on to have conversations about giving or receiving oral and while I have the same thoughts about it as I did about the strap on, I'm now curious to know what would happen in a play situation on that front.

I can't dismiss it given the strap-on situation and it's made me "curious" to know what oral would be like.

Something may happen to make me find out and I may change my status back to straight vowing never to do it again but it's made me not dismiss things without having a go.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sexual orientation is determined by the level of interest that an individual has in other genders - and not specific sexual behaviour. The Ops proposal is like the old argument that lesbians using dildos just needed the right man and his cock for penetration.

Men who don't understand men who want to be penetrated are probably just not the right people to appreciate what it's all about and I think it's men like them who hold their genders' openness and liberation back.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Sexual orientation is determined by the level of interest that an individual has in other genders - and not specific sexual behaviour. The Ops proposal is like the old argument that lesbians using dildos just needed the right man and his cock for penetration.

Men who don't understand men who want to be penetrated are probably just not the right people to appreciate what it's all about and I think it's men like them who hold their genders' openness and liberation back. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There a reason there a g spot up there, to be played with and i agree unless ur attracted to men does not make u gay or bi if you take it up the bum. That like saying or bi people are cheaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a Fab contribution, Mr K... does it have any bisexual connotations for you? What makes you enjoy it if you don't mind me asking...

Well, I have no burning desire to be bummed by a bloke, nor to bum one.

However it did make me change my status from straight to bi-curious only in so far as we've then gone on to have conversations about giving or receiving oral and while I have the same thoughts about it as I did about the strap on, I'm now curious to know what would happen in a play situation on that front.

I can't dismiss it given the strap-on situation and it's made me "curious" to know what oral would be like.

Something may happen to make me find out and I may change my status back to straight vowing never to do it again but it's made me not dismiss things without having a go."

That's a good way to look at things. Slippery slope then though.

Once you go cock you something something something that rhymes with cock

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


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I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me

But what does that have to do with your sexuality? Its just something you dont want to try. "

Exactly, that's not a "straight bloke" response. That's a "I don't want something up my arse bloke" response.

I know plenty of straight blokes that like their missus to slip a finger in there.

It's a bit like saying I won't eat vegetables, because I'm not a vegetarian.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight"

Utter piffle. Your gspot (prostate) is up your arse. Liking anything up there has zero, nada, zilch to do with sexuality.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"We would generally view them as probably straight but with a bit of a sub side. "

Sorry, totally disagree. Yes some chaps who enjoy being bummed by a lady are sub but there are those who simply enjoy the sensation. And the orgasms are far more intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole"

Do you feel the same about blow jobs then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would generally view them as probably straight but with a bit of a sub side.

Sorry, totally disagree. Yes some chaps who enjoy being bummed by a lady are sub but there are those who simply enjoy the sensation. And the orgasms are far more intense "

Still waiting for the orgasm bit. Maybe just haven't found the right one

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"We would generally view them as probably straight but with a bit of a sub side.

Sorry, totally disagree. Yes some chaps who enjoy being bummed by a lady are sub but there are those who simply enjoy the sensation. And the orgasms are far more intense

Still waiting for the orgasm bit. Maybe just haven't found the right one "

Maybe you need to go up a size, width wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would generally view them as probably straight but with a bit of a sub side.

Sorry, totally disagree. Yes some chaps who enjoy being bummed by a lady are sub but there are those who simply enjoy the sensation. And the orgasms are far more intense

Still waiting for the orgasm bit. Maybe just haven't found the right one

Maybe you need to go up a size, width wise"

That may be it - thanks

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Having things up your bum is gay. Wanting to put your winkie up a ladies bum is gay and getting oral of a woman is gay because dudes like totally have mouths too. Oh and whacking yourself off. Totes gay.

Get a grip.

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds

Its best with a real cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2am and about to crash out, thanks for everyone who replied even though we don't all agree it seems... more input welcome from the night owls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this mean gay men who don't like anal are actually straight

Going off some of the replies in this post, that would seem the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean gay men who don't like anal are actually straight

Going off some of the replies in this post, that would seem the case."

I think this has put tge icing on the cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As regular 'peggers' and in a sub/domme dynamic I would say simply it's a submissive act (and yes you can actually cum) it's just abit naughty and a exchange of power and nothing to do with fancying men..... I could make him suck dick though hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to be forced to do that hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ain't got a pulse it doesn't mean that your bi!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Surely if a man has sex with a woman, this is by definition heterosexual "straight" sex. It doesn't matter what the act is.

End of story !

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality is based on what gender you are attracted to, not what shapes you like to have stuck up your bum!

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

Nicky uses her strapon on me when we are having our dom and sub play. I take the strapon as part of my sub side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this mean gay women who enjoy a strapon are straight curious?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I have fucked men with a strap on and none of them have liked to admit they have done it. They have all said they are straight. What makes me laugh is the term 'orally bi' "

Why is that funny ?

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

A woman on fab (who's now a friend) convinced me to allow her to shove various toys up there once though. I was dubious. It was amazing though - I've said it before, but the intensity of the sensation was amazing. I think I could have launched it into onto next door's roof at the end .

I'm convinced that if it was the law that all blokes had to try it once and knock one out while it was up there, demand would go through the roof, much like my.... (oh, you get the picture).

For me, it doesn't follow that I walk around fancying guys, I never have. Nor do I dream about Geoff the trucker approximating the sensation by shoving his wang up there in a layby on the A6.

I guess there's grey areas with this though and maybe we should just embrace them.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

As someone said we are physiologicaly similar, the first time I experienced a woman just circling her wet finger over the outside whilst she was giving me oral I only felt pleasure..

That was some 20 years before I experienced any bi play..

Can honestly say I never felt a desire to explore with a man in that time..

Just about pleasure, oh and labels and all they infer..

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By *ddyfortyMan
over a year ago

rushden

wouldn't say your gay for wanting to try anal. i would say your curious about what it feels like to be on the recieving end of being fucked. am i right? i could be wrong. i've only been with men when having anal play and i enjoy it. but i am curious about what it feels like to be on the recieving end when a woman does it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it each to their own

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"2am and about to crash out, thanks for everyone who replied even though we don't all agree it seems... more input welcome from the night owls."

Thank you my friend for bringing my question to the forum and even though I was convinced that if a man is happy to accept a strap on up his bum I thought it meant he was gay because traditionally that is what most of us associate with gays but it's the bit when a man says 'I want to experience strap on but I'm not bi' like they are convincing me they are straight, why? I see the sub part of it too.....oh I'm more confused now LOL.

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus

I love being fucked by a strapon and having my arse played with, but by women only. Men do nothing for me and I'm totally straight.

Think it's utter bollocks it makes you bi curious if your a man who likes anal play.

I think the big difference is who is shoving a dildo up your arse! getting pegged by a woman doesn't make a man bi but a man letting another man play with his ass is a different story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OL LPG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole"

I don't like things in my arse and I'm definitely not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being fucked by a strapon and having my arse played with, but by women only. Men do nothing for me and I'm totally straight.

Think it's utter bollocks it makes you bi curious if your a man who likes anal play.

I think the big difference is who is shoving a dildo up your arse! getting pegged by a woman doesn't make a man bi but a man letting another man play with his ass is a different story! "

well said .im exactly same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too "

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same "

Sexy isnt only about how you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

Sexy isnt only about how you look. "

Its a turn on for you but i wouldnt say it makes the person more sexy... thats like saying, two identical twins but one is more sexy because she has a butt plug in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

Sexy isnt only about how you look.

Its a turn on for you but i wouldnt say it makes the person more sexy... thats like saying, two identical twins but one is more sexy because she has a butt plug in"

Not at all. His willingness to experiment and experience new sensations is a turn on.

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where. "

Exactly right, it's no different to getting a blow job.....it's all about the sensation.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

Sexy isnt only about how you look.

Its a turn on for you but i wouldnt say it makes the person more sexy... thats like saying, two identical twins but one is more sexy because she has a butt plug in

Not at all. His willingness to experiment and experience new sensations is a turn on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

Sexy isnt only about how you look.

Its a turn on for you but i wouldnt say it makes the person more sexy... thats like saying, two identical twins but one is more sexy because she has a butt plug in

Not at all. His willingness to experiment and experience new sensations is a turn on. "

I already accepted it's a turn in for you ^^

But still don't see how it makes someone more 'sexy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

Sexy isnt only about how you look.

Its a turn on for you but i wouldnt say it makes the person more sexy... thats like saying, two identical twins but one is more sexy because she has a butt plug in

Not at all. His willingness to experiment and experience new sensations is a turn on.

I already accepted it's a turn in for you ^^

But still don't see how it makes someone more 'sexy'"

Its a turn on for me because I see it as a sexy thing for someone to be therefore in my opinion he is a sexy guy.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think that's just something people can do or don't, doesn't define your sexuality

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow (for now)

Love a woman with a strap on, whether in male mode or Jane mode.

I'm bi, I'm greedy!

But I don't think taking a good pegging as a guy makes you gay or bi. It just makes you sexually adventurous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if the replies would be different if you asked none members of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if the replies would be different if you asked none members of fab"

I'd put money on it that if you asked this down the pub with your mates (not specifically you) but in general.

I reckon the answer would be oh yer thats well gay!

I also reckon that at least 50% of the same blokes have had their mrs rogering them up their hairy arses

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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"I wonder if the replies would be different if you asked none members of fab

I'd put money on it that if you asked this down the pub with your mates (not specifically you) but in general.

I reckon the answer would be oh yer thats well gay!

I also reckon that at least 50% of the same blokes have had their mrs rogering them up their hairy arses"

Oh so this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if the replies would be different if you asked none members of fab

I'd put money on it that if you asked this down the pub with your mates (not specifically you) but in general.

I reckon the answer would be oh yer thats well gay!

I also reckon that at least 50% of the same blokes have had their mrs rogering them up their hairy arses"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I've been the one to suggest it either, the men I've done this with are the ones asking!

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"Men who take a strap on are not only straight but very sexy too

How does it make them more sexy? They still look the same

Sexy isnt only about how you look.

Its a turn on for you but i wouldnt say it makes the person more sexy... thats like saying, two identical twins but one is more sexy because she has a butt plug in

Not at all. His willingness to experiment and experience new sensations is a turn on.

I already accepted it's a turn in for you ^^

But still don't see how it makes someone more 'sexy'

Its a turn on for me because I see it as a sexy thing for someone to be therefore in my opinion he is a sexy guy. "

It's like someones personality can make them sexy, in this case it's because someone's sexually adventurous

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

There are loads of nerve endings found in and around the anus,it doesn't make you gay if you like a woman to fuck you with a strap on,

Never had it done but would like to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So let's see... you're in a club,just got out of the hot tub, floor's wet, you accidentally fall onto a guys cock and it accidentally smashed up your backside, you try and get up but you fall back down onto the cock....And it keeps happening for a few minutes until the guy accidentally cums inside your backside....Would that make you bi???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So let's see... you're in a club,just got out of the hot tub, floor's wet, you accidentally fall onto a guys cock and it accidentally smashed up your backside, you try and get up but you fall back down onto the cock....And it keeps happening for a few minutes until the guy accidentally cums inside your backside....Would that make you bi??? "

Reminds me of the time I fell on the toilet brush after shower

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

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over a year ago


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!"

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth "

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman"."

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it "

Ask your dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

Ask your dad. "

Oh clem you silly sausage, i usually like your posts but you're trying too hard here mate.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

Ask your dad.

Oh clem you silly sausage, i usually like your posts but you're trying too hard here mate. "

I dont have to try with this one. It doesn't matter that he's being fucked by a woman. He's being penetrated by a phallus, like a woman. He's imagining what it's like to be a woman being fucked. These are not the thoughts of a straight man.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

By the way. Gay men fancy, fall in love with, And have relationships with men. It doesn't matter if they're top middle or bottom! That can't be said for all bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

Ask your dad.

Oh clem you silly sausage, i usually like your posts but you're trying too hard here mate.

I dont have to try with this one. It doesn't matter that he's being fucked by a woman. He's being penetrated by a phallus, like a woman. He's imagining what it's like to be a woman being fucked. These are not the thoughts of a straight man."

Listen up straight men of fab!

If you enjoy eating a banana.....I've got news for you

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

Ask your dad.

Oh clem you silly sausage, i usually like your posts but you're trying too hard here mate.

I dont have to try with this one. It doesn't matter that he's being fucked by a woman. He's being penetrated by a phallus, like a woman. He's imagining what it's like to be a woman being fucked. These are not the thoughts of a straight man.

Listen up straight men of fab!

If you enjoy eating a banana.....I've got news for you "

What is this news? Are you thinking that straight men eating a banana have the same emotional response as a man being anally penetrated by a rubber phallus?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Male cyclists who don't use saddles are bike curious

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole"

Are you serious?

Bless... that's sort of cute. Backward but cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man that gets a boner for another dude is bi, or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man that gets a boner for another dude is bi, or gay."

Correct

A strap on is not a dude though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think hes curious as to how it feels to be stimulated anally. The shape of the strap on is irrelevant. "

Well not totally irrelevant, wouldnt work so well if it was dinner plate shaped

Though I suspect that if he has a strap on up his arse whilst engaged in a 69 with another man, it may be time to consider changing to bi-curious

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i would say no .. he might just like getting fucked by a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

Are you serious?

Bless... that's sort of cute. Backward but cute. "

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?

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By *edsNewCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

Are you serious?

Bless... that's sort of cute. Backward but cute.

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?"

- because it's fun.. Mr. - straight male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said the answers from men on here would be totally different to the real world answers

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By *edsNewCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've been musing with a friend on here about the subject of strap ons and if a man wants it/takes it from his wife/partner does this signify that he is bi-sexual or bi-curious?

My friend's point of view is that "if he wants a replica penis inside him then he is curious how it feels."

My own view is that he is mainly submissive to his wife and his bi-curiosity is there but secondary to this. This is what I think but my friend says: "does he enjoy the replica penis inside him? I imagine the dominant wife will 'take no prisoners' with said replica penis so he will have an idea of how it feels."

What do the Fabbers say? Anyone got any real-life experience of taking or being used by a strap on? Replies in the forum only please."

Mr very much enjoys having Mrs use him.. And in short I disagree with your friend and favour your view, I'm not bi, and consider myself straight. I don't have, nor want sex with another man, but Mrs with a strap on harness, an array of toys, a shit load of lube and latex gloves, go for it..!!

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By *edsNewCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"Like i said the answers from men on here would be totally different to the real world answers"

Very true, I'd certainly never admit to holding my ankles up, high and wide above my head while Mrs hammers my arse with 9 out bigger.. Not in the real world, colleagues, friends, can't see them being as open minded as some of us on here..

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?"

well maybe cos his g-spot is up there ..having something up your bum doesn't make u bi

having sex with a man makes u bi...or gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?

well maybe cos his g-spot is up there ..having something up your bum doesn't make u bi

having sex with a man makes u bi...or gay "

So i've been told 10 times already.. still not going to change my opinion

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole"

Mate, you should let a woman stimulate your prostate, and enjoy the most amazing orgasms you didn't know existed

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?

well maybe cos his g-spot is up there ..having something up your bum doesn't make u bi

having sex with a man makes u bi...or gay

So i've been told 10 times already.. still not going to change my opinion"

Which about sums everything up rather neatly!!

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By *edsNewCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?"

Errr.. Erogenous zones..? And if you Google pegging, you'll find it's a whole lot more popular than you'd think..!

Plus, if you have ever experienced the orgasm that derives from that as well as, then I bet you'd change your tune..!

I'm not selling it.. Personally I enjoy it, I've always instigated things in the bedroom, now I thoroughly enjoy having the shoe on the other foot so to speak, but everyone's different, they don't have to be labelled, especially wrongly..!

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'd love someone to play with my bum but most women don't think it's very manly or just cant be arsed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?

well maybe cos his g-spot is up there ..having something up your bum doesn't make u bi

having sex with a man makes u bi...or gay

So i've been told 10 times already.. still not going to change my opinion

Which about sums everything up rather neatly!! "

You dont need to keep replying to my posts, i've ignored you a fair few times already.. irrelevant

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By *edsNewCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

Mate, you should let a woman stimulate your prostate, and enjoy the most amazing orgasms you didn't know existed "

All say I.. Trust me, a couple of years back I was saying the same thing, now check our pics, look at the beast she's wielding, makes me horny just looking at her posing..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

There IS a difference between being digitally anally stimulated inside the rectum by a woman to archive sexual pleasure and being fucked in the ass with a strap on cock like a woman. This, imho makes a man bi- curious at the very least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There IS a difference between being digitally anally stimulated inside the rectum by a woman to archive sexual pleasure and being fucked in the ass with a strap on cock like a woman. This, imho makes a man bi- curious at the very least. "

Yeah but real macho men just need a sock...

Personally I don't enjoy anal from either end of the deal, digital or analogue.

Men who enjoy anything except football a so gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock-like object in the arse feels a lot different, and much better, than a finger. Ask any man who has had a prostate exam.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?

well maybe cos his g-spot is up there ..having something up your bum doesn't make u bi

having sex with a man makes u bi...or gay

So i've been told 10 times already.. still not going to change my opinion

Which about sums everything up rather neatly!!

You dont need to keep replying to my posts, i've ignored you a fair few times already.. irrelevant"

Not irrelevant at all - you stated that being told 10 times already that a man liking something up his bum doesn't make him bi or gay, doesn't change your opinion that they are - which does sum everything up rather neatly i.e. despite overwhelming suggestion and indeed evidence to the contrary you continue to doggedly believe something that has absolutely no basis in fact whatsoever.

It's not even a matter of opinion, there's absolutely no facts to back up your somewhat misguided belief.

All of which is highly relevant I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?

well maybe cos his g-spot is up there ..having something up your bum doesn't make u bi

having sex with a man makes u bi...or gay

So i've been told 10 times already.. still not going to change my opinion

Which about sums everything up rather neatly!!

You dont need to keep replying to my posts, i've ignored you a fair few times already.. irrelevant

Not irrelevant at all - you stated that being told 10 times already that a man liking something up his bum doesn't make him bi or gay, doesn't change your opinion that they are - which does sum everything up rather neatly i.e. despite overwhelming suggestion and indeed evidence to the contrary you continue to doggedly believe something that has absolutely no basis in fact whatsoever.

It's not even a matter of opinion, there's absolutely no facts to back up your somewhat misguided belief.

All of which is highly relevant I'd say."

So because you get bummed by a woman with a strap on and say you're straight.. i should believe you and change my opinion ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could argue yes and no on that,no because a strap on is a man made plastic item,not an organic,live human tissue thing like a penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I to believe that liking something big in your bum is what makes you bi curious?

What if it's a cucumber?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I to believe that liking something big in your bum is what makes you bi curious?

What if it's a cucumber? "

I think that makes you a vegetarian...

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What, it's no more silly than thinking that enjoying sex with a member of the opposite sex makes you bi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I to believe that liking something big in your bum is what makes you bi curious?

What if it's a cucumber?

I think that makes you a vegetarian...

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What, it's no more silly than thinking that enjoying sex with a member of the opposite sex makes you bi..."

I think people fixate on the fact a strap on is like a cock, and cocks belong to men. When I wear a strap on I don't turn into a man.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"So because you get bummed by a woman with a strap on and say you're straight.. i should believe you and change my opinion ... "

Not at all...but the fact that many straight men who enjoy anal play ("bummed" is such a playground word) wouldn't ever consider any form of play with another man should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me

But that doesn't mean anyone that would let that happen when playing with a woman (and has no interest in playing with a man) is any less straight than you does it?

Im not sure but if you like that have fun

The only person i know who openly says he likes things up his bum is gay"

You don't have a wide circle of friends then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bi-curious man wants a sexual - or other - relationship with another man.

Nothing to do with a male and female enjoying anal stimulation, regardless of how the sex toy is shaped, or how deep it is inserted. To say this is bi-curious is ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bisexual

b??'s?k???l/

adjective

1.

sexually attracted to both men and women."

When im fucking him im still a girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""bisexual

b??'s?k???l/

adjective

1.

sexually attracted to both men and women."

When im fucking him im still a girl."

With that, she's pursuaded me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me "

Sounds like someone has had a play with there ass, loved it and is scared to go back there as he's in Denial!!

Coming from a man that loves ass play!! Just saying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A bi-curious man wants a sexual - or other - relationship with another man.

Nothing to do with a male and female enjoying anal stimulation, regardless of how the sex toy is shaped, or how deep it is inserted. To say this is bi-curious is ridiculous. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously?

It means that you'll be looking for scatter cushions in no time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously?

It means that you'll be looking for scatter cushions in no time!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously?

It means that you'll be looking for scatter cushions in no time!"

Are they good for biting them?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If anything, this thread shows how scared men are to admit when they're bi-curious! For fuck sake, it's not like you have to register it with HMRC!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If anything, this thread shows how scared men are to admit when they're bi-curious! For fuck sake, it's not like you have to register it with HMRC! "

You don't? I thought you got a lower tax code if you did!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

Are you serious?

Bless... that's sort of cute. Backward but cute.

Yes i'm serious... why would a straight man want to get fucked up the arse?"

Sexual activities are wide and varied. People are turned on by all sorts of things. If you like being fucked by a girl with a strapon it doesn't mean you want to do it with a man. It just means you like being fucked up the ass. It doesn't make you gay.

At the risk of sounding utterly patronising... you know about the g spot right?

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything, this thread shows how scared men are to admit when they're bi-curious! For fuck sake, it's not like you have to register it with HMRC!

You don't? I thought you got a lower tax code if you did!!"

I should have known that

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves. "

I'm amazed how many women know, or think they know, how men feel and think.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves. "

By the way (Lilac), we knew it was you from your profile name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So wait

What does this mean for a lesbian couple who use a strap on together?

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves.

By the way (Lilac), we knew it was you from your profile name. "

I (Lilac) like a dick, thought I was logged on to my couples account so thought I'd distinguish who was typing. It turns out I (Lilac) didn't need to. Doh

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves.

By the way (Lilac), we knew it was you from your profile name.

I (Lilac) like a dick, thought I was logged on to my couples account so thought I'd distinguish who was typing. It turns out I (Lilac) didn't need to. Doh"

I (Clem) though this may have been the case. But cheap shots are pretty much mandatory around here!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So wait

What does this mean for a lesbian couple who use a strap on together? "

I know some lesbians won't use any type of phallus for sexual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves.

I'm amazed how many women know, or think they know, how men feel and think. "

I ask them

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves.

I'm amazed how many women know, or think they know, how men feel and think.

I ask them "

How do know so many men who don't just tell you what you want to hear? Are these the same men who remain straight even when fucking transvestites....

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

A man's g-spot is near his prostate

JG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they push back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just reading this thread. Don't know if I'm saddened or shocked.

I (Lilac) love giving anal play to a guy if they enjoy it. It doesn't change his heterosexuality because he enjoys stimulation given by a female with possibly a toy.

Why people feel the need to argue how another person perceives their own sexuality! Let people label themselves.

I'm amazed how many women know, or think they know, how men feel and think. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if they push back "

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

Ask your dad.

Oh clem you silly sausage, i usually like your posts but you're trying too hard here mate.

I dont have to try with this one. It doesn't matter that he's being fucked by a woman. He's being penetrated by a phallus, like a woman. He's imagining what it's like to be a woman being fucked. These are not the thoughts of a straight man."
Apparently you have to touch men to be bi now an not just be sexually aroused by them people forget about imagination. Seems very liberal on here though you won't get a balanced opinion. Not straight in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My male friend and I were previously having a discussion about dating (before I met Mr) and he said he had one piece of advice ... never trust a man who says he doesn't like having his bum hole licked .

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think this makes a guy bi or bi curious , he just wants stimulation up his arse further than my finger can reach .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" All of you go and ask the same question on Facebook. You won't get a real world answer from Fab!

There's a difference between a real work answer and a real world truth

No 100% straight man has ever thought to himself "i want to be fucked like a woman".

So how does a man engaging in sexual activity with a woman make him less than 100% straight

Surely you'll agree gay men who don't like anal are less gay than those who do?

Sounds a bit silly now doesn't it

Ask your dad.

Oh clem you silly sausage, i usually like your posts but you're trying too hard here mate.

I dont have to try with this one. It doesn't matter that he's being fucked by a woman. He's being penetrated by a phallus, like a woman. He's imagining what it's like to be a woman being fucked. These are not the thoughts of a straight man."

No, he is experiencing an amazing sensation that stimulates his prostate. It is shaped like a cock because it has to be. You couldn't really shove something square up there could you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"If a man puts things up his bum i wouldnt say hes straight

Why?

That isnt something a straight man would think of.. well im speaking from my own view on it... i would never let a women put anything near my arsehole

I know straight men who enjoy anal play, anal masturbation too. IMO, if it's a man and a woman who are having sex together then it's straight sex, regardless of what goes up where.

I understand what you are saying but for me as a straight guy i could not imagine letting that happen to me "
I've a friend who is straight but enjoys a butt plug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"There IS a difference between being digitally anally stimulated inside the rectum by a woman to archive sexual pleasure and being fucked in the ass with a strap on cock like a woman. This, imho makes a man bi- curious at the very least. "

I disagree. My ex partner loved me fucking him with a strap on, after I surprised him with it one night.

The thought of being naked with - or kissing - another man repulsed him. He was - and still isn't - the slightest bit curious about having a relationship with a man.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"There IS a difference between being digitally anally stimulated inside the rectum by a woman to archive sexual pleasure and being fucked in the ass with a strap on cock like a woman. This, imho makes a man bi- curious at the very least.

I disagree. My ex partner loved me fucking him with a strap on, after I surprised him with it one night.

The thought of being naked with - or kissing - another man repulsed him. He was - and still isn't - the slightest bit curious about having a relationship with a man."
Yeah so he tells you, people will piss in your pocket and tell you it's raining.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

There's a lot of confusion between enjoying a sensation and attraction going on.

Take away the element of wanting to/being curious about trying it.

You have no choice. A terrible, draconian rule was passed that said that every straight man had to have a toy once and cum with it in.

I guarantee you a huge proportion of them would find the sensation at the end amazing.

Does that mean they have some level of attraction to men? Does it follow they would then class themselves as bi/gay and go on to experiment with them?

I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There IS a difference between being digitally anally stimulated inside the rectum by a woman to archive sexual pleasure and being fucked in the ass with a strap on cock like a woman. This, imho makes a man bi- curious at the very least.

I disagree. My ex partner loved me fucking him with a strap on, after I surprised him with it one night.

The thought of being naked with - or kissing - another man repulsed him. He was - and still isn't - the slightest bit curious about having a relationship with a man. Yeah so he tells you, people will piss in your pocket and tell you it's raining. "

Sorry are you familiar with our relationship? He's now one of my best friends and has been for many years. Not everyone wants a penis up their ass, just like the thought of a woman going down on me repulses me also.

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