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I made it! I'm happier than I've been in such a long time. I have amazing friends. I'm still struggling financially and I still don't care!!
I can smile, I can sit in my house and not worry what mood the person coming through my front door will be in.
I can have friends round
I can make new friends
I can sit in silence and ponder if I like and not be bellowed at "what the fuck is wrong with your face, put a fucking smile on it"
I don't have to worry if my son is getting bullied whilst I'm at work
I don't have his mess to tidy
I don't have to worry about getting poked in the chest for not agreeing with him
I can cry at a romantic film without being called a pussy and told to wake up and live in the real world.
I'm not praying the next time I "do something wrong" he kills me and puts me out of my misery.
Please please people, if this rings home with any of you, you don't have to take it.
You're better than that.
You're stronger than you ever imagined you could be.
Love yourself, you're allowed to.
I feel like braveheart .......
"FREEDOM"
Peace xx
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"ME! I mentioned the other week it was almost a year since I split with my ex and began to enjoy life again, well, today is the day
I made it! I'm happier than I've been in such a long time. I have amazing friends. I'm still struggling financially and I still don't care!!
I can smile, I can sit in my house and not worry what mood the person coming through my front door will be in.
I can have friends round
I can make new friends
I can sit in silence and ponder if I like and not be bellowed at "what the fuck is wrong with your face, put a fucking smile on it"
I don't have to worry if my son is getting bullied whilst I'm at work
I don't have his mess to tidy
I don't have to worry about getting poked in the chest for not agreeing with him
I can cry at a romantic film without being called a pussy and told to wake up and live in the real world.
I'm not praying the next time I "do something wrong" he kills me and puts me out of my misery.
Please please people, if this rings home with any of you, you don't have to take it.
You're better than that.
You're stronger than you ever imagined you could be.
Love yourself, you're allowed to.
I feel like braveheart .......
"FREEDOM"
Peace xx
"Oh wow, well done you. I could have written a lot of that myself, my ex was more psychologically abusive but no less damaging. It does feel good to be free from that worry though. I'm coming up to two years and though things are tough financially I'm happier than I've been for a lot of years. Enjoy the rest of your life x  | |||
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" Oh wow, well done you. I could have written a lot of that myself, my ex was more psychologically abusive but no less damaging. It does feel good to be free from that worry though. I'm coming up to two years and though things are tough financially I'm happier than I've been for a lot of years. Enjoy the rest of your life x "And bravo to you.  Nobody deserves to be put through it.
Mine was mainly psychological,but I had the odd physical thrown in for good measure....just to keep me in my place. He had convinced me I needed him, that I would lose everything without him. I would never manage to keep the house on my own and within 3 months I'd be evicted. Well, here I am a year on
I'm so proud of anyone that finally does it. Those of us that have been there know just how hard it is.... but the relief....I'd never felt anything like it. Cried for 2 days solid once I'd finally got him out. Not because I was sad, but because the relief was that intense. | |||
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"ME! I mentioned the other week it was almost a year since I split with my ex and began to enjoy life again, well, today is the day
I made it! I'm happier than I've been in such a long time. I have amazing friends. I'm still struggling financially and I still don't care!!
I can smile, I can sit in my house and not worry what mood the person coming through my front door will be in.
I can have friends round
I can make new friends
I can sit in silence and ponder if I like and not be bellowed at "what the fuck is wrong with your face, put a fucking smile on it"
I don't have to worry if my son is getting bullied whilst I'm at work
I don't have his mess to tidy
I don't have to worry about getting poked in the chest for not agreeing with him
I can cry at a romantic film without being called a pussy and told to wake up and live in the real world.
I'm not praying the next time I "do something wrong" he kills me and puts me out of my misery.
Please please people, if this rings home with any of you, you don't have to take it.
You're better than that.
You're stronger than you ever imagined you could be.
Love yourself, you're allowed to.
I feel like braveheart .......
"FREEDOM"
Peace xx
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" Oh wow, well done you. I could have written a lot of that myself, my ex was more psychologically abusive but no less damaging. It does feel good to be free from that worry though. I'm coming up to two years and though things are tough financially I'm happier than I've been for a lot of years. Enjoy the rest of your life x
And bravo to you. Nobody deserves to be put through it.
Mine was mainly psychological,but I had the odd physical thrown in for good measure....just to keep me in my place. He had convinced me I needed him, that I would lose everything without him. I would never manage to keep the house on my own and within 3 months I'd be evicted. Well, here I am a year on
I'm so proud of anyone that finally does it. Those of us that have been there know just how hard it is.... but the relief....I'd never felt anything like it. Cried for 2 days solid once I'd finally got him out. Not because I was sad, but because the relief was that intense. "I was a mess for the first week, then I slowly realised what he put me through. He didn't like that I lost weight and became more attractive to other men, and was constantly worried I'd leave him. Yet he was the one screwing around behind my back. And though the kids miss him things are less strained now. Yes we should be proud of ourselves as we're stronger than we give ourselves credit for x | |||
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