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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your profile pic is a silhouette.. Strange as it is I for one like to have something to look at and chat too.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Stick with real life then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm. .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your in a major majority here ,no face pic avatar ..ladies are the power on here ,for them it's the holy grail ..so few to choose from so many

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton


"Stick with real life then "
your not wrong love it being different and you know it's better then text chat

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Because Fab takes effort and one line plus 2 cock pics does not = effort.

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Yes your so right and I think many ppl on here love with a giult where they can lie without real gestures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

"

In real life do you wear a black balaclava over your face and introduce yourself by showing your genitals?

If not i think we may have found the reason

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Point taken with respect but ain't it about respecting each other ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken with respect but ain't it about respecting each other .."

You can respect others without having to meet them. I'm not really sure what point you are making?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are willing to make the effort OP, have a look around the forums and see what others have done with their profiles to make themselves standout.

There are a lot of fellas in this fab pond. Be yourself but make it so others can see and read something of you other than a silhouette, a couple cock pics and a sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often do I respect a man in a balaclava as he's usually just stole the neighbors tv!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Point taken with respect but ain't it about respecting each other .."

No, it's about interacting with people you find attractive that you may want to meet and have sex with.

Not stroking the egos of random, invisible men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken with respect but ain't it about respecting each other .."

I respect every man I have sex with, from here. Honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The basic points people are making are:

There are dozens of guys for every woman on here.

Most other guys have decent pics and a profile that says more about them, other than an inability to accommodate.

Ladies have a full choice ipof guys on here.

.

Ask yourself ... if you were a woman who had a choice of dozens or even hundreds of profiles....would you consider yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Born to be alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

"

Would you approach a woman in a bar and say nothing else but what you currently have written on your profile?....

P.S Before you have a dig at mine, I do and WOULD make inappropriate jokes...

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

So true born to be alive not like you invest in a bank and the bank steals your saving lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you just have to put the time and effort in. Alot of the time your messages to people probs not even read or seen could you imagine how many messages some of the ladies get per day. I have only managed to speak properly with 1 lady but distance is an issue there. Alot of the time my messages dont get read or deleted i just take the hint and move on to browsing.

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

No I agree but people to like you is easier in different counties then here people if they like you give their cell numbers if they like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

"

stop yawning,

pop into your kitchen and find some coffee. Inhale and take a big sniff.

Think about why you're on fabs,

what you're looking for.

Whatever you're asking someone from fabs to do, try asking "people in real life" as you say, to do the same.

See, how you go.

It still takes time !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

In real life do you wear a black balaclava over your face and introduce yourself by showing your genitals?

If not i think we may have found the reason"

possibly the best answer on a forum, I've read

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"If you are willing to make the effort OP, have a look around the forums and see what others have done with their profiles to make themselves standout.

There are a lot of fellas in this fab pond. Be yourself but make it so others can see and read something of you other than a silhouette, a couple cock pics and a sentence. "

I like cock pics...speaking of, where are yours?

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Because Fab takes effort and one line plus 2 cock pics does not = effort."

Round of applause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I agree but people to like you is easier in different counties then here people if they like you give their cell numbers if they like you"

'Cell numbers' ? I presume you mean mobile phone numbers. We give them out to people we like on here, not just to anyone who asks.

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

It's better banter in reality with witty and smart remarks some people love witty comments and a least in the real your genuine..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's better banter in reality with witty and smart remarks some people love witty comments and a least in the real your genuine.."

Perhaps stick to genuine people in real life then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im learning just to take this site as it comes im not really to fussed if i meet some one from here it would be nice but not a drama if i dont. I just like talk to the odd 1 or 2 people and reading some of the post that people put. Of if that bad for me i just go to local town n meet people and go from there. Like i said fab is more of a giggle for me at present as im still quite new to it and still working kinks out in my profile. All the comment i have had have helped with this and been editing it over time. I only have 1 pic visible the rest are friends only, as if people cant take me on face value and for who i am and take the time to get to know me, then i dont believe they are worth my time like i probs ent worth there not everyone fits the bill for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are willing to make the effort OP, have a look around the forums and see what others have done with their profiles to make themselves standout.

There are a lot of fellas in this fab pond. Be yourself but make it so others can see and read something of you other than a silhouette, a couple cock pics and a sentence.

I like cock pics...speaking of, where are yours? "

Unless you are willing to make a private viewing appointment, it ain't going to be on show

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By *hatts OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Yes I will thanks I think buying a coffee or a drink and asking someone for a dinner date is alot better then pretending what you are or

not on a chat or meet site is quicker and better again thank for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

In real life do you wear a black balaclava over your face and introduce yourself by showing your genitals?

If not i think we may have found the reason"

Love this response. You have made me smile. Thanks

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"If you are willing to make the effort OP, have a look around the forums and see what others have done with their profiles to make themselves standout.

There are a lot of fellas in this fab pond. Be yourself but make it so others can see and read something of you other than a silhouette, a couple cock pics and a sentence.

I like cock pics...speaking of, where are yours?

Unless you are willing to make a private viewing appointment, it ain't going to be on show "

Let's fix a slot then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I find it lot easier to find people in really life then on here ..sad

In real life do you wear a black balaclava over your face and introduce yourself by showing your genitals?

If not i think we may have found the reason"

Fantastic analogy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me or is there a total disconnect betwren the ops posts and the rest of the posts in the thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, other than the minimalist profile, in all honesty there are comparatively not very many single women on swingers websites anyway.

Mrs

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Is it just me or is there a total disconnect betwren the ops posts and the rest of the posts in the thread?

"

I was thinking the same way.

To see the OP's responses, I thought "is he answering a Post elsewhere on here or even another site altogether?"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It's better banter in reality with witty and smart remarks some people love witty comments and a least in the real your genuine.."

Why are you using fab, if your sex life out in public land is so good? If your success is so high in the flesh, perhaps you'll be phenomenal in swinging clubs. Let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there a total disconnect betwren the ops posts and the rest of the posts in the thread?

I was thinking the same way.

To see the OP's responses, I thought "is he answering a Post elsewhere on here or even another site altogether?""

I can't make head or tail of what the OP is trying to say in some of his posts either.

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