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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What am I doing wrong in your eyes I just love chatting and meeting new people yet I never get a response be honest with me what's wrong with not messaging saying dam I going to smash you as iam not that kind of guy I like to get to know people first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea as I have no idea what kind of messages you do send..

all I know is that men outnumber women on here by a considerable amount so keep at it...

patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I normally send something along the lines of hi read your profile love your pictures really would to chat with you see how things go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe write a bit more about you and your interests / likes on your profile. There's not really any info there.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Maybe the name could be less suggestive, just a thought from a guy lol

And mr costa is taken btw

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

To be honest, the fact you are alluding to moving off site and using kik or snapchat rings alarm bells with me, there is no reason why you can't have more pics here.

Plus I would also expand on your profile as I don't do the Spanish inquisition but that is just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey my phone camera is broken so I can't add more photos yet but I have screen shots from Facebook and stuff won't let me upload that's only reason I say kik and snapchat

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If those are the kind of messages you send OP then you probably need to expand on them a little, tailor them to the person you're writing to, and I'd expand your profile a little too - as it stands it doesn't tell you a great deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys I wrote a little bit more about my self on my profile see if that helps loving all the help here tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey my phone camera is broken so I can't add more photos yet but I have screen shots from Facebook and stuff won't let me upload that's only reason I say kik and snapchat "

Dunno about you, but on my phone I can just save photos from my Facebook app & upload them on here without any issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried it says there screen shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have tried it says there screen shots "

that's why then...you need to TAKE A PIC and upload that instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your message isn't bulk deleted, a woman may just go straight to your profile. If she doesn't like what she sees, your message will probably be deleted unread. If she likes your profile she may read your message. At that point you need to make sure your message is a good one. If you get a reply then you can rejoice because you are like that one sperm in a 100 million for you will have reached your goal.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Thanks guys I wrote a little bit more about my self on my profile see if that helps loving all the help here tho "

To be honest you need a lot more - think of your profile as a shop window, now do you want one that's dull and noring and tells you nothing about what the shop sells, or one that lays out exactly what's on offer inside?

Do a forum search for "Profile Advice" and read some of the numerous threads for tips of the kind of thing to include.

Do you not have a normal camera or a webcam you could use to take pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dropped my phone and the camera won't open its just black but I just tried saving picture for Facebook instead of screen shot in them hopefully that mite work I don't have a camera at the moment but have pictures on a laptop maybe I should move them to my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy to Girl ratio on this site 100/1 theres the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dropped my phone and the camera won't open its just black but I just tried saving picture for Facebook instead of screen shot in them hopefully that mite work I don't have a camera at the moment but have pictures on a laptop maybe I should move them to my phone "

why cant you access fab on your laptop and upload them from there?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I dropped my phone and the camera won't open its just black but I just tried saving picture for Facebook instead of screen shot in them hopefully that mite work I don't have a camera at the moment but have pictures on a laptop maybe I should move them to my phone

why cant you access fab on your laptop and upload them from there?"

*face palm*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dropped my phone and the camera won't open its just black but I just tried saving picture for Facebook instead of screen shot in them hopefully that mite work I don't have a camera at the moment but have pictures on a laptop maybe I should move them to my phone

HAHAHA can't believe u didn't even think of that lol

why cant you access fab on your laptop and upload them from there?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unrelated, but love the African Grey pic

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dropped my phone and the camera won't open its just black but I just tried saving picture for Facebook instead of screen shot in them hopefully that mite work I don't have a camera at the moment but have pictures on a laptop maybe I should move them to my phone

HAHAHA can't believe u didn't even think of that lol

why cant you access fab on your laptop and upload them from there?"

you mean you didn't

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Smoking will put some people off.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Smoking will put some people off."

And non smiley pics, to me you look quite unfriendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unrelated, but love the African Grey pic

H x"

Hey yer had him all his life lol not a great picture of me but was more about showing him off haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smoking will put some people off.

And non smiley pics, to me you look quite unfriendly "

Thanks for advice I just had taking my own picture lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unrelated, but love the African Grey pic

H x

Hey yer had him all his life lol not a great picture of me but was more about showing him off haha"

We have one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be able to click on your own pics on Facebook and save them to your phone. You can upload them or send them as an email attachment. Your profile needs to be more upbeat too. And yes...ratio is stacked against you so do the very best profile you can .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unrelated, but love the African Grey pic

H x

Hey yer had him all his life lol not a great picture of me but was more about showing him off haha

We have one too "

there great animals I had mine 6 years got him when he was 4 months old he very friendly and really adores me such loving pets definitely recommend them to all

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Smoking will put some people off.

And non smiley pics, to me you look quite unfriendly "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Smoking will put some people off.

And non smiley pics, to me you look quite unfriendly

Thanks for advice I just had taking my own picture lol "

I know it's not easy

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