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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finally succumbed to upgrading membership to find out whos been looking at my profile. Of last 100 less than 10% are females or couples. Is that roughly the sexual split on this site? Tricky for the cream to rise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally succumbed to upgrading membership to find out whos been looking at my profile. Of last 100 less than 10% are females or couples. Is that roughly the sexual split on this site? Tricky for the cream to rise! "

I think you may be a little generous on that 10% there

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Finally succumbed to upgrading membership to find out whos been looking at my profile. Of last 100 less than 10% are females or couples. Is that roughly the sexual split on this site? Tricky for the cream to rise!

I think you may be a little generous on that 10% there "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say."

Am aware that looking does not mean interested.

Am just asking if the 90/10 split is about right for this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say.

Am aware that looking does not mean interested.

Am just asking if the 90/10 split is about right for this site? "

In all seriousness, you are probably looking at something closer to 99.9 recurring against. But don't let that put you off or deter you. Someone will likely put a post on about how hard it is (no pun intended) for fellas on here at any moment anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say.

Am aware that looking does not mean interested.

Am just asking if the 90/10 split is about right for this site? "

Probably not as bad as that due to the stealth browsing but certainly men in the majority.

However, if you are the cream then you will still rise to the top however big the 'bottle' is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally succumbed to upgrading membership to find out whos been looking at my profile. Of last 100 less than 10% are females or couples. Is that roughly the sexual split on this site? Tricky for the cream to rise! "

I've literally stopped looking at who looked at me. I don't actually see the point of the feature.

Anyone? It's more pointless than the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say.

Am aware that looking does not mean interested.

Am just asking if the 90/10 split is about right for this site? "

Yes seems not far out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally succumbed to upgrading membership to find out whos been looking at my profile. Of last 100 less than 10% are females or couples. Is that roughly the sexual split on this site? Tricky for the cream to rise!

I've literally stopped looking at who looked at me. I don't actually see the point of the feature.

Anyone? It's more pointless than the wink. "

Agreed. It means nowt as people look for a variety of reasons! And if they were interested they'd show it in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is saturated with men lol.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say.

Am aware that looking does not mean interested.

Am just asking if the 90/10 split is about right for this site? "

In the interests of your statistics just had a count up and 28 single female and couples profiles feature in my last 100 Looked At Me's - not sure what that proves other than in my case the split is abou 28% vs 72% as of this minute, ask again tomorrow and it may well be different. Which just goes to prove the Who's Looked At Me feature is largely worthless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally succumbed to upgrading membership to find out whos been looking at my profile. Of last 100 less than 10% are females or couples. Is that roughly the sexual split on this site? Tricky for the cream to rise! "
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Ha time for a facepalm me thinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All sites like this are always saturated with men. I suppose its because that even in these "enlightened times", its still more acceptable for men to on the sexual prowl than for women. Albeit womens needs are just as great as mens in my experience. Hopefully things will become equal in the future as a swinging site where there is a 50/50 split would be an amazing place!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP it varies somewhat in different areas but the ratio 10:1 is actually quite generous. I have done searches in my own area and within a 5 mile radius there is more like 100+ men to every woman.

The looked at me feature is pretty pointless to be honest. I view in stealth mode these days because I got fed up of guys messaging me just because I looked at them .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I looked at you loads of times OP you just didn't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose its possible Im being looked at by 1000s of stealthy ladies. Who then dont reply to my messages.

I feel really positive now......

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I suppose its possible Im being looked at by 1000s of stealthy ladies. Who then dont reply to my messages.

I feel really positive now...... "

If you send them a message that is

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"The site is saturated with men lol."

More for us women to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is saturated with men lol.

More for us women to choose from "

As you sing ... Its Raining Men Hallelujah

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"The site is saturated with men lol.

More for us women to choose from "

Mmmmmmmm xxx. Although I'm very satisfied with the cream that has already risen yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 100 looks? You are lucky...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've had 100 looks? You are lucky...! "

that's probably since he joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "Who's Looked At Me" is never a true reflection of who has actually looked at you as a lot of people (especially women and couples) look in stealth mode so it won't show on the list.

Is also worth bearing in mind that just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they're interested beyond having a nose at what you have to say."
xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but what your all forgetting is in that 90%of men around 30% are just dreamers n chatters 30% time wasters n fantasist 30% down right fucking weird and 10%genuine n decent and pretty much the same on the 10%of fem n couples maybe a tad more serious players but ruff the same and thats with out ing out all the ...my wife says its ok to play on my own or she's taking a Brea but I am free types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I looked at you loads of times OP you just didn't know "

Not sure if I should give newbies the heads up on this, but by the time they figure it out... the damage is already done

We all been there so...

If you create a profile for the first time you can't wait to check out the features. It's soo exciting, your clicking away, checking out profiles...

Then you come across a profile and think oh hello... not realising if you keep checking it out several times in a day/week the profile your looking at will know you either want to do something nice or your a tad creepy

I always send those newbies a witty message, which they don't expect

Eventually newbies figure out the art of the

People are in ninja mode and there have been many debates about what is the point of that and is the 'looked at me page' worth it...

This next bit will be slightly coded because those that know, know and those that don't know yet can figure it out just like the rest of us had to

Here it goes:

Most people who have mastered the skill of the (the advanced ninjas) know being a site supporter has it's advantages because you can still maximise the 'looked at me page' by temporarily clicking on a few options to allow someone a small window. A tiny glimpse if you like of when you want to be seen looking before the inner takes over again!

Confused?

Yeah me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men are blocked I notice the amount of couples and women who look at me and wonder why they looked.

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