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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thats another blow out. Please people why organise meets and then cancell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's not good - sorry to hear that!

Of course 'real life' can always get in the way of meets but if you're finding that it's becoming a recurring problem then do you need to review how rigorous your due diligence processes are?

I've been lucky in that all the people I've agreed to meet have always turned up but I can imagine the frustration of having plans cancelled at late notice!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Well thats another blow out. Please people why organise meets and then cancell. "

ok dear it is what is op try to remember its no reflection on you when others act like this towards you .

chin up I'm sure your only a couple of messages away from finding someone genuine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is disheartening but sometimes real life gets in the way. Xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I know how you feel OP. Out of 4 meets arranged so far, only one actually happened.

I think blaming the person left in the lurch is a bit disingenuous. If the search criteria and person hasn't changed but the number of successful meets bas declined then its probably the fault of the people not turning up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the chase is better then the catch lol.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Well thats another blow out. Please people why organise meets and then cancell. "

'Happy Days'

I didn't read your profile whatsoever. Just making a point that putting a code word as a message title stands out quite a lot. As soon as someone is able to chat they are able to win you around. Maybe take out some of the legal jargon as anything on the net isn't safe and you'd never know if it was being used or who distributed it. My point is, look harder at who you are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the chase is better then the catch lol."

Sadly....this can be too true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear. Its just a shame it happens far to frequently. I now cam with people before meeting them .. not only to ensure they are who they say they are but to get a vibe off them and then proceed to meeting. Might be worth a try but some people should really be 100% certain they want to meet and stop wasting other peoples time. Good luck for future meets OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well thats another blow out. Please people why organise meets and then cancell.

ok dear it is what is op try to remember its no reflection on you when others act like this towards you .

chin up I'm sure your only a couple of messages away from finding someone genuine xx"

Thanks will remember that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it just happens as life gets in the way. Had our meet for today cancel and while it's disappointing it's just one of those things. X

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