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By *irty Rascal OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Are our expectations too high or low?

9 times out of 10, if a guy meets a woman's expectations, she probably wouldn't meet his in reality.

Do men lower their standards on here or are women's too high, thanks to large men to women ratio?

Or is it the other way round at times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 times out of 10 people pull statistics out of their ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are our expectations too high or low?

9 times out of 10, if a guy meets a woman's expectations, she probably wouldn't meet his in reality.

Do men lower their standards on here or are women's too high, thanks to large men to women ratio?

Or is it the other way round at times?

"

I don't know what your expectations are so I can't comment

I'm having a fab time so I guess my expectations must be about right xx

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

7 out of 10 statistics are made up.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Mine have never been lowered, I know my own self worth, and I have never felt like I have been punching above my own weight either but then I have my own standards

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i don't really have any standards as such. i want to be respected (hard when your privates are on show i know) and not be lied to or fucked about.

and then all the other stuff i ask for on my profile also.

probably our standards are too high but that's because we're not desperate and we value ourselves.

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By *irty Rascal OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester


"7 out of 10 statistics are made up."

I thought it was 69%

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By *irty Rascal OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"9 times out of 10 people pull statistics out of their ass "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

I guess you just reduced the percentage of women you're lowering your standards to meet with that post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused.....

But I think we already knew that

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over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"Are our expectations too high or low?

9 times out of 10, if a guy meets a woman's expectations, she probably wouldn't meet his in reality.

Do men lower their standards on here or are women's too high, thanks to large men to women ratio?

Or is it the other way round at times?

"

All of our meetings have been with very good looking women but then we are a couple.

For single men it is probably different. There are far more single men on here or any other dating site than women. Women therefore have the pick of the bunch.

Whether you as a man lower your standards or not depends on the individual.

We wouldn't meet someone we considered unattractive simply because we weren't getting much response from women we do find attractive. What would be the point of forcing yourself to have sex with someone just for the sake of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or no

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By *irty Rascal OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Are our expectations too high or low?

9 times out of 10, if a guy meets a woman's expectations, she probably wouldn't meet his in reality.

Do men lower their standards on here or are women's too high, thanks to large men to women ratio?

Or is it the other way round at times?

I don't know what your expectations are so I can't comment

I'm having a fab time so I guess my expectations must be about right xx"

I'm a realist, not most peoples ideal guy and respect that.

As someone at the top end of the fit scale, you're not really gonna be below any guys expectations x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your question is "Would I meet someone I considered unattractive?"

Then no.

I'm not going to arrogantly say I'm gods gift myself, because I'm likely not.

But I DO know what I want and what I don't want. I know that in my own head.

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By *irty Rascal OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Oh dear

I guess you just reduced the percentage of women you're lowering your standards to meet with that post.

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As someone already at the bottom end of most women's expectations, it's hardly gonna make much of a difference , but even with my limited traits on offer, I haven't done too badly on here with meets at both ends of the scale.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nothing matters but your own conduct and whether you're satisfied. Comparing ourselves to others is the root of too much malcontent in our society already. Let Sydney university do some statistical analysis if they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are our expectations too high or low?

9 times out of 10, if a guy meets a woman's expectations, she probably wouldn't meet his in reality.

Do men lower their standards on here or are women's too high, thanks to large men to women ratio?

Or is it the other way round at times?

I don't know what your expectations are so I can't comment

I'm having a fab time so I guess my expectations must be about right xx

I'm a realist, not most peoples ideal guy and respect that.

As someone at the top end of the fit scale, you're not really gonna be below any guys expectations x"

Thank you that's very kind but I'm not everyone's bus of tea x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Haven't lowered my expectations or standards at all, either with this solo profile or as part of the couples one. Would be pretty disrespectful to people I meet if I did, let alone showing a lack of self-respect.

I'd rather not meet anyone than play any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta love a bus of tea! xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Gotta love a bus of tea! xx"

I did wonder...I mean I love a cuppa as much as the next man..but not sure I could go a whole bus of the stuff!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta love a bus of tea! xx

I did wonder...I mean I love a cuppa as much as the next man..but not sure I could go a whole bus of the stuff!!"

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused by the question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused by the question... "

Phew, thought it was just me there

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