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By *obert Richards OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.

How many people on here have actually done it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say it sounds great, but unsure how many women would agree to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure you warn him before you enter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it anally on pretty much every meet. Never bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.

How many people on here have actually done it? "

All seems to be a pain in the arse tbh

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have on a first meet but not bareback. I try soooooo hard not to say those words to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback anal is fucking shit.

You knew it was coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback anal is fucking shit.

You knew it was coming "

as long as its not the shit that's coming

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I'd don't say many women will do it first time out taking a big risk if they do xx

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.

How many people on here have actually done it? "

I often fuck arses but even my strap on covers up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback anal is fucking shit.

You knew it was coming

as long as its not the shit that's coming "

Just don't push back too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wipe the cock on the sheet after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh i Cba

PTU XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wipe the cock on the sheet after "

I you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wipe the cock on the sheet after

I you"

Ty. I you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No

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By *obert Richards OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too... "

Haha yes I am expecting so sort of backlash x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Take some HIV cream to rub on afterwards, better safe than sorry.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too... "

I'd be outraged if he wiped a pooh-ie willy on the curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too... "

Haha!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too...

I'd be outraged if he wiped a pooh-ie willy on the curtains "

Absolutely!!

Soft furnishings are a no no...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both. "

So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too...

I'd be outraged if he wiped a pooh-ie willy on the curtains "

Spunky willy ok though

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.

So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.

"

Ohhhh here we go....

Knew I shouldn't have posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get browned off with the whole idea.??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.

How many people on here have actually done it? "

Why would someone want the most unsafe form of sex there is on a swingers site?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.

So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.

Ohhhh here we go....

Knew I shouldn't have posted."

Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?

MrB

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.

So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.

Ohhhh here we go....

Knew I shouldn't have posted.

Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?

MrB"

So immediately condescending and angry, real nice.

It's none of your business what I do or don't do.

I am merely being honest to the question that has been asked.

I don't want or need your approval for my actions.

I take my risks at my own discretion as we all do

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.

So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.

Ohhhh here we go....

Knew I shouldn't have posted.

Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?

MrB

So immediately condescending and angry, real nice.

It's none of your business what I do or don't do.

I am merely being honest to the question that has been asked.

I don't want or need your approval for my actions.

I take my risks at my own discretion as we all do "

I'm not angry at all. I am extremely surprised you seem ignorant of the risks involved.

There is also the issue of it not just involving you. In the case of HIV both yourself and the meet are potentially then going to pass the infection to other partners. All will then be wanting hugely expensive retrovirals and ongoing lifetime treatment and care.

So, you might think it's fine, and rile against anyone questioning your actions, but safe sex is an absolute basic common sense. BB anal with a stranger is plainly ridiculous. IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of lots of guys and women on here and other sites who do sex including anal with no protection on meets.

They don't admit it though for obvious reasons.

Only person you can trust is yourself!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.

Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.

So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.

Ohhhh here we go....

Knew I shouldn't have posted.

Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?

MrB

So immediately condescending and angry, real nice.

It's none of your business what I do or don't do.

I am merely being honest to the question that has been asked.

I don't want or need your approval for my actions.

I take my risks at my own discretion as we all do

I'm not angry at all. I am extremely surprised you seem ignorant of the risks involved.

There is also the issue of it not just involving you. In the case of HIV both yourself and the meet are potentially then going to pass the infection to other partners. All will then be wanting hugely expensive retrovirals and ongoing lifetime treatment and care.

So, you might think it's fine, and rile against anyone questioning your actions, but safe sex is an absolute basic common sense. BB anal with a stranger is plainly ridiculous. IMO.

"

I have already said they are not strangers I make a choice Based on previous conversations/personal circumstances and limit my risk in that manner.

So I am not ignorant and you may not be angry but you are being very aggressive based on assumptions you have made from a very small post I made on a forum.

I am regularly tested and in a club with true randoms I would never receive bareback anal.

I'm sure you take risks too... You are on a swinging site after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it anally on pretty much every meet. Never bareback. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm outraged!!

There you go

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

I have already said they are not strangers I make a choice Based on previous conversations/personal circumstances and limit my risk in that manner.

So I am not ignorant and you may not be angry but you are being very aggressive based on assumptions you have made from a very small post I made on a forum.

I am regularly tested and in a club with true randoms I would never receive bareback anal.

I'm sure you take risks too... You are on a swinging site after all "

I'm not being angry or aggressive, I don't know why you keep saying that.

You say you are informed and mention that you are regularly tested, you should know the limitations of testing for HIV and its incubation time before being detectable in an STI test. At worst it can be 3 months for detection, so in a worst case scenario depending on the infection and test dates, you could have a 6 month period without knowing.

This is a discussion forum. You have made a statement and I'm just commenting on how I believe it to be dangerous for you and others. Like I said, this isn't just about you, you aren't taking risks BASE jumping, it involves your partners and other people in swinging.

If you don't want to hear it here, look at THT etc for information.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"

I have already said they are not strangers I make a choice Based on previous conversations/personal circumstances and limit my risk in that manner.

So I am not ignorant and you may not be angry but you are being very aggressive based on assumptions you have made from a very small post I made on a forum.

I am regularly tested and in a club with true randoms I would never receive bareback anal.

I'm sure you take risks too... You are on a swinging site after all

I'm not being angry or aggressive, I don't know why you keep saying that.

You say you are informed and mention that you are regularly tested, you should know the limitations of testing for HIV and its incubation time before being detectable in an STI test. At worst it can be 3 months for detection, so in a worst case scenario depending on the infection and test dates, you could have a 6 month period without knowing.

This is a discussion forum. You have made a statement and I'm just commenting on how I believe it to be dangerous for you and others. Like I said, this isn't just about you, you aren't taking risks BASE jumping, it involves your partners and other people in swinging.

If you don't want to hear it here, look at THT etc for information."

Your are assuming because of my choices I know nothing about the risks.

You are wrong and I will leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm outraged!!

There you go "

I am not, but I am wrapping up, just in case I meet one of the unlucky risk takers

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

*Stamps feet in fury whilst being righteously indignant*...I'm appalled at such behaviour. Appalled I say!

Has anyone mentioned Russian Roulette yet?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I'm outraged!!

There you go "

I'm outraged no one has put their bum on the end of my willy for a while..I'm getting withdrawal symptoms.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm outraged!!

There you go

I'm outraged no one has put their bum on the end of my willy for a while..I'm getting withdrawal symptoms.

S"

Only if it's wrapped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Stamps feet in fury whilst being righteously indignant*...I'm appalled at such behaviour. Appalled I say!

Has anyone mentioned Russian Roulette yet? "

Or no Glove no Love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have but glove on incase they havent douched

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.

How many people on here have actually done it? "

No we haven't and no, we wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...

Wtf are the forums coming too... "

Normally has been restored I see.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"*Stamps feet in fury whilst being righteously indignant*...I'm appalled at such behaviour. Appalled I say!

Has anyone mentioned Russian Roulette yet? "

No, but I'm calling BINGO

I now have a full house, Bareback, Russian roulette and Anal. And it's only Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.

How many people on here have actually done it? "

I think it's a ridiculous idea.

But not the daftest thing you've posted.

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