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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add...i wouldn't request that.

Why doesn't he just hire a hooker?...

You're the cheap option, you should be telling him to fuck off.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol."

My request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol."

you obviously don't 'get' the role play thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand this fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol.

My request "

Oh right. Gotcha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol.

My request "

Role play with lovers can be such fun.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol."

That would have been a BDSM scenario though, right

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Just so I completely understand, he is a high class escort hiring you for five hours?

Do you know him and do you trust him?

It just sounds quite unusual to me and raises a few red flags in my imagination.

Im adding to the thread in the interest of keeping you safe. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol.

you obviously don't 'get' the role play thing "

I'm not knocking it.

I'm just saying:

ME: Let's meet

HER: Sure

ME: I want you to be a hooker

HER: What the F...**Punch**

{looks in mirror}

ME: Wow, My left eye looks awesome and bruised..I'm gonna tell my next meet I'm an MMA fighter and she should be the ring girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman I know if I requested that would have knocked me out. lol.

My request

Role play with lovers can be such fun. "

I am presuming you know this guy well but reading other peoples comments now not sure. Pleaee tell me you're not doing this with someone you don't know really well?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Just so I completely understand, he is a high class escort hiring you for five hours?

Do you know him and do you trust him?

It just sounds quite unusual to me and raises a few red flags in my imagination.

Im adding to the thread in the interest of keeping you safe. X"

I've lost the thread I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It just sounds quite unusual to me and raises a few red flags in my imagination.

Im adding to the thread in the interest of keeping you safe. X"

^^ THIS

But in this instance it's HER requesting it.

But that was my immediate train of thought aswell.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

Hi everyone, yes I know him

It was my suggestion.

But he's more experienced than me, so I wanted suggestions to make it authentic really.

He's booked me for 5 hour's which is quite a chunk of time to stay in character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here expecting orcs, elves and tips on how to use a wizards staff...

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I came here expecting orcs, elves and tips on how to use a wizards staff...

"

Roll 6+ on a d8 to continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Roll 6+ on a d8 to continue."

Do I get a bonus for my race, class and profession?

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I came here expecting orcs, elves and tips on how to use a wizards staff...

Roll 6+ on a d8 to continue."

Do I get to dress in tan leathers n ride a dragon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do I get to dress in tan leathers n ride a dragon"

Jeesh anyone knows that fantasy chicks only wear chainmaille bikinis and thigh high boots, unless you're a bar wench or rogue in which case it's black leathers...

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"

Do I get to dress in tan leathers n ride a dragon

Jeesh anyone knows that fantasy chicks only wear chainmaille bikinis and thigh high boots, unless you're a bar wench or rogue in which case it's black leathers...

"

Red Sonia???

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless"

he should also be picking your underwear the outfit your wearing colour and style of your make up

he should in all honest be engaging you already like this i have more but not in a public forum as it arms fuck wits with to much information xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Red Sonia???"

Is an exception to the rule, same as Kitiara.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, yes I know him

It was my suggestion.

But he's more experienced than me, so I wanted suggestions to make it authentic really.

He's booked me for 5 hour's which is quite a chunk of time to stay in character "

Maybe start with negotiations when you get there re the service you are providing, get him to give you ideas of what he would like and you can direct it a little if there is something you really won't do. Include massage. In my very limited experience of rokeplay, time goes quickly if enjoying it. Have a think about a persona that isn't too different to your own so you it feels more natural? Have fun, sounds exciting!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"

Red Sonia???

Is an exception to the rule, same as Kitiara. "

Careful, your nerd is showing!

;-)

I think turning up in tan leather would probably do it for the chap "ordering" you!

(dragon probably optional, especially in a hotel)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five hours is way too long to act!!

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless

he should also be picking your underwear the outfit your wearing colour and style of your make up

he should in all honest be engaging you already like this i have more but not in a public forum as it arms fuck wits with to much information xx"

Yes, I'm on this actually getting fake lashes done and new underwear n knee boots

It's what happens inside

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Hi everyone, yes I know him

It was my suggestion.

But he's more experienced than me, so I wanted suggestions to make it authentic really.

He's booked me for 5 hour's which is quite a chunk of time to stay in character

Maybe start with negotiations when you get there re the service you are providing, get him to give you ideas of what he would like and you can direct it a little if there is something you really won't do. Include massage. In my very limited experience of rokeplay, time goes quickly if enjoying it. Have a think about a persona that isn't too different to your own so you it feels more natural? Have fun, sounds exciting! "

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

I've also emailed a new client guideline, saying most clients benefit from adult themed TV on in the background and the condom options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

"

You sure you know this guy?...and are sure you requested this?..

This doesn't sound to me like you've met him before..

And this sounds more him than you. Just reading the thread.

I might be wrong.

Be careful. And fucking tell someone you trust where you are ffs.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

You sure you know this guy?...and are sure you requested this?..

This doesn't sound to me like you've met him before..

And this sounds more him than you. Just reading the thread.

I might be wrong.

Be careful. And fucking tell someone you trust where you are ffs. "

He emailed his wants in the first contact as if I was the Madame, and they were my girls

We use email as it's not our normal form of contact.

I've meet him a few times. It is the first time at his place which makes it more suitable for the role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

You sure you know this guy?...and are sure you requested this?..

This doesn't sound to me like you've met him before..

And this sounds more him than you. Just reading the thread.

I might be wrong.

Be careful. And fucking tell someone you trust where you are ffs. "

Dont know if i read this wrong but i read it as they're already kind of in character? So her first contact email is setting the scene? So she could well know him already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

You sure you know this guy?...and are sure you requested this?..

This doesn't sound to me like you've met him before..

And this sounds more him than you. Just reading the thread.

I might be wrong.

Be careful. And fucking tell someone you trust where you are ffs.

He emailed his wants in the first contact as if I was the Madame, and they were my girls

We use email as it's not our normal form of contact.

I've meet him a few times. It is the first time at his place which makes it more suitable for the role play"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he paying you?

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Is he paying you?"

No oddly that doesn't do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

I've also emailed a new client guideline, saying most clients benefit from adult themed TV on in the background and the condom options

"

The discussions when you arrive confirm expectations on both sides and act as a mental warm up. So going through the "this is what was agreed" is part of the role. Gets you both in the headspace.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"

I know what he want sexually, as he emailed his needs in the first contact asking if we had a girl open to anal ect

Obviously I said yes lol

I'm so excited

I've also emailed a new client guideline, saying most clients benefit from adult themed TV on in the background and the condom options

The discussions when you arrive confirm expectations on both sides and act as a mental warm up. So going through the "this is what was agreed" is part of the role. Gets you both in the headspace. "

Thanks good tip. Any more?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless

he should also be picking your underwear the outfit your wearing colour and style of your make up

he should in all honest be engaging you already like this i have more but not in a public forum as it arms fuck wits with to much information xx

Yes, I'm on this actually getting fake lashes done and new underwear n knee boots

It's what happens inside"

you should have to be worrying about that he should be saying what he wants from you

after all that's why you want the experience you want to do not think

he should be sending you a full play scenario that even covers how your to approach him and what he wants you to do in the room .

is he participating because the scenario has fired his imagination or just going along for the ride .

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless

he should also be picking your underwear the outfit your wearing colour and style of your make up

he should in all honest be engaging you already like this i have more but not in a public forum as it arms fuck wits with to much information xx

Yes, I'm on this actually getting fake lashes done and new underwear n knee boots

It's what happens inside

you should have to be worrying about that he should be saying what he wants from you

after all that's why you want the experience you want to do not think

he should be sending you a full play scenario that even covers how your to approach him and what he wants you to do in the room .

is he participating because the scenario has fired his imagination or just going along for the ride . "

Along for the ride, so basically now I don't know what to do to perfect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thanks good tip. Any more?"

Think of filler activities in case you need them. Like offering a massage, scrub down in the shower (at start if he isn't clean, midway so can have soapy fun and change setting slightly and striptease clothes off), Erotic food eating n drinking so you both stay hydrated n fed. Erm...that's it. I am out of ideas other than conversation.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"

Thanks good tip. Any more?

Think of filler activities in case you need them. Like offering a massage, scrub down in the shower (at start if he isn't clean, midway so can have soapy fun and change setting slightly and striptease clothes off), Erotic food eating n drinking so you both stay hydrated n fed. Erm...that's it. I am out of ideas other than conversation. "

We are having a shower scene and a massage, I've also said it company policy all clients refrain from self help 48 hours before

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless

he should also be picking your underwear the outfit your wearing colour and style of your make up

he should in all honest be engaging you already like this i have more but not in a public forum as it arms fuck wits with to much information xx

Yes, I'm on this actually getting fake lashes done and new underwear n knee boots

It's what happens inside

you should have to be worrying about that he should be saying what he wants from you

after all that's why you want the experience you want to do not think

he should be sending you a full play scenario that even covers how your to approach him and what he wants you to do in the room .

is he participating because the scenario has fired his imagination or just going along for the ride .

Along for the ride, so basically now I don't know what to do to perfect it"

you shouldn't need to make it perfect for him its your fantasy its a lady of the night scenario its down to him to set the tone you to go along .

i understand your fantasy better than you think you wish to inhabit a role where you can be totally free of sexual guilt and do things your wouldn't normally do because when your you you lack the confidence to do them

but a Trixie lady of the night you have no choice but to do them.

its his role to lead yours to do if he's not delivering just pick another who understands the rules of the game or your fantasy and is willing to put the effort in to make it interesting engaging and a turn on .

or it will turn into a wet squid and useless ruining your fantasy for you

dear god why would a guy get involved if he was not willing to put the effort in or if didn't have the skill set needed to play the game successfully and deliver .

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Soooo

I've arranged a meet, purely on the role play.

High class escort, he's contacted me via email asking for a 'friend' who would meet his specific needs ect. We've confirmed I do have a girl suitable lol

He's booked me for 5 hours, how do I make this absolutely brilliant.

I've ordered a slinky dress, a wig, some toys

But how do we get on from the initial introductions.

I've said as the client, he has to determine if he wants kissing as this is completely optional

... Please tips or advice to make this seemless

he should also be picking your underwear the outfit your wearing colour and style of your make up

he should in all honest be engaging you already like this i have more but not in a public forum as it arms fuck wits with to much information xx

Yes, I'm on this actually getting fake lashes done and new underwear n knee boots

It's what happens inside

you should have to be worrying about that he should be saying what he wants from you

after all that's why you want the experience you want to do not think

he should be sending you a full play scenario that even covers how your to approach him and what he wants you to do in the room .

is he participating because the scenario has fired his imagination or just going along for the ride .

Along for the ride, so basically now I don't know what to do to perfect it

you shouldn't need to make it perfect for him its your fantasy its a lady of the night scenario its down to him to set the tone you to go along .

i understand your fantasy better than you think you wish to inhabit a role where you can be totally free of sexual guilt and do things your wouldn't normally do because when your you you lack the confidence to do them

but a Trixie lady of the night you have no choice but to do them.

its his role to lead yours to do if he's not delivering just pick another who understands the rules of the game or your fantasy and is willing to put the effort in to make it interesting engaging and a turn on .

or it will turn into a wet squid and useless ruining your fantasy for you

dear god why would a guy get involved if he was not willing to put the effort in or if didn't have the skill set needed to play the game successfully and deliver ."

I don't think so, he's never suggested anything I wouldn't do vice versa infact, maybe I'm just offering him freedom a free pass if you will and I love to dress up

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