FabSwingers.com forum: always the same (for me)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So there i was for year's being a kind and loving lady. Never did me any good to tell the truth.especially when married (twice in my case) so i did the other thing, hardened up. No nonsense dee. That didnt work at all. Oh no got told 'i had changed" woudnt let men into my life just to let them walk all over me as my two ex husband's did. I did change recently when i let a guy i met into my life. I was kind loving (back to how i was) guess what he did one yeah. Didnt like that at all. Lol. Never saw him again.learned my lesson big style that nothing works for me whatever i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear just keep trucking you'll find the right one eventually

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's life. You dust yourself off pick up the pieces and move on. It's all you can do....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Is this from a Fab meet, the last one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"......learned my lesson big style that nothing works for me whatever i do.

Self fulfilling prophecy.

Dust yourself off and change what you believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His lost! Don't take any notice,he was not good enough for you! Keep being who you are! X

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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you've only changed from one extreme to the other. there's probably other things you could do but i think you should just be yourself and wait for a person who likes that and doesn't abuse your kindness.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"you've only changed from one extreme to the other. there's probably other things you could do but i think you should just be yourself and wait for a person who likes that and doesn't abuse your kindness."

Yes, are either of those extremes really you? To be honest being really nice isn't a bad thing, but you have to balance it with realism and good judgement.,.

Trouble is it's hard to tell when someone is genuine or just taking advantage.

So we all have to expect knocks. The real skill is taking them and hanging on for the real ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to be kind and loving without being a doormat, just as you can be harder and less open without coming across as a cold-hearted bitch.

This is essentially a site for NSA sex, so if a guy wants a one-off instead of regular meets with ribbons and bells on, then it's not altogether surprising.

Do you expect all the men you meet to want more?

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