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By *imjoe9965 OP Man
over a year ago

wexford

Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might find that they get so many messages that some don't get seen

Or had so many messages that they get deleted without reading

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Or if you send out gereric messages, you think you didn't read my profile why bother

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The sender didnt tead their profile or meet their preferences ...

Miss

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

They get so many ... Maybe hundreds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?"

Because they are all princesses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or hasn't read the FAQ's ....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?

Because they are all princesses

Excuse me, I'm a Goddess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy?

Indifferent?

Busy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?

Because they are all princesses

Excuse me, I'm a Goddess

Queen here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Why is is that men whinge in the forums about not getting responses to their messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is is that men whinge in the forums about not getting responses to their messages?

Because they are twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't be arsed really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lazy?

Indifferent?

Busy? "

Or just ignorant

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?"

All sorts of reasons:

Inundation

Real life taking priority

Offensive/demanding/entitled/creepy messages

Those that don't match my profile

Those that are clearly generic cut and paste jobs which could (and probably have) be sent to anyone

Those consisting of just one or two words

Those where the sender has no photos, or revolting photos

Those where the sender has a lazy/illiterate/offensive profile

Those where I've noticed the sender being a twat in the forums

and ....

... because I don't want to, and don't have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?

Because they are all princesses

Or have learnt the hard way that by replying with a thanks but no thanks leads to abuse or a continuing string of unwanted messages....

For example my profile is clear that I'm only interested in locally based people, I would say about at least 80% of my daily messages come from people who don't meet that, so why should I answer all of those messages to say thanks but no thanks when all they had to do was to read the first couple of lines of my profile? Strangely enough I have a life outside of Fabs and prefer to reply to e mails where the sender at least meets the most important requirement for me.

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By *imjoe9965 OP Man
over a year ago

wexford

Men answer, what does that say?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?

Because they are all princesses

Or have learnt the hard way that by replying with a thanks but no thanks leads to abuse or a continuing string of unwanted messages....

exactly this, 80-90% of messages are from people who have clearly not read my profile. Why should I bother replying when they can't be bothered to read?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Men answer, what does that say?"

It says they are part of the forum, have experience with women on here and are also allowed to post on a public forum.

Any more questions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men answer, what does that say?"

How many messages do you have to process every day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men answer, what does that say?

How many messages do you have to process every day?"

Probably a lot more then you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont answer them just to wind men up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men answer, what does that say?

How many messages do you have to process every day?"

1 usually saying ive got a timeout again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men answer, what does that say?

How many messages do you have to process every day?

Probably a lot more then you

No doubt. I like getting messages. Then again, I don't get that many so really don't struggle to keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?"

because we can...check the FAQs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that women ignore messages or just don't bother answering?

because we can...check the FAQs "

But there must be some sort of law, right?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Anything else would involve actually engaging. If I'm not interested why would I reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not obliged to reply just because you write to us.

Just like we are not obliged to interact with anyone we don't want to. Thats a basic human right.

However if someone is polite and has read my profile I'll reply politely even if it's to say no thank you.

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