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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who has ever lost interest in wanting to go to a town or city due to certain memories?

I for one have lost interest in going to Blackpool and doubt if I'll ever go there again. The reason is because I have memories that are still sort of raw on my mind as I spent most of my time there with someone who used to be my best friend who I have not spoken to since Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Southport is nicer anyhow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Southport is nicer anyhow "

I'm sure it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dundee.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Particular cafes or pubs but not a whole town.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I won't go to Paris anymore. I remember what it was like before it became a shit hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like anywhere outside of London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't like anywhere outside of London.

"

My favourite part of London is the M4 westbound carriageway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it's better to face those memories and create new ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bittersweet memories of Blackpool too..

unfortunately I still have to go there as that's where my dad lives

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I had my first meet with a lady from Blackpool who ran a B&B in '93. Me and an ex bought a copy of Rendezvous and 2 months later we spent a long weekend up there

Been on a few stag nights up there as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cardiff I hate cardiff or any big town .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

London. Too busy for me.

My one memory is walking down Oxford Street on a Saturday and it felt like the rest of the World was walking towards me!!

And yet, strangely, i love New York and felt at home there ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't ever go to one particular seaside town in the UK ever again because it holds bad memories for me. My mum died whilst on holiday there with me and my children. As you can imagine it was horrific, the sudden heart attack, the paramedics fighting to save her life, the police, seemingly the whole caravan site gawping, the pitying looks from the Haven holiday staff, being on my own waiting for hubby to get there as I'd gone with just my mum and kids. Not being allowed to leave for nearly two days whilst the police spoke to me and the postmortem carried out, and the absolute worst of explaining to the kids what happened, my youngest was 3, still wanting to go and see Rory the tiger.

Luckily its a place I can avoid, not like a large city where you may need to go for work or an aiport etc.

Oo sorry for the long post, seems I'm still quite anxious about it even though it was 16 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't ever go to one particular seaside town in the UK ever again because it holds bad memories for me. My mum died whilst on holiday there with me and my children. As you can imagine it was horrific, the sudden heart attack, the paramedics fighting to save her life, the police, seemingly the whole caravan site gawping, the pitying looks from the Haven holiday staff, being on my own waiting for hubby to get there as I'd gone with just my mum and kids. Not being allowed to leave for nearly two days whilst the police spoke to me and the postmortem carried out, and the absolute worst of explaining to the kids what happened, my youngest was 3, still wanting to go and see Rory the tiger.

Luckily its a place I can avoid, not like a large city where you may need to go for work or an aiport etc.

Oo sorry for the long post, seems I'm still quite anxious about it even though it was 16 years ago.

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Big hugs to you lovely, that sounds truly awful x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Pretty silly and limiting thing to do really.

I had a friend who used to say ..... Oh we can't go there... I used to go there with him.....

I'd say here then ......

She'd say .... Oh we stayed there in a caravan.....

In the end I left her to enjoy her wallowing ....

If you wallow you won't move on.

Soon there'll be nowhere left to go.

Besides...... the mind can evoke memories without being in a certain place.

It's just self punishment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Birmingham. Worked and lived there years ago and after a bad experience with buying a flat there I really never ever want to go back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has ever lost interest in wanting to go to a town or city due to certain memories?

I for one have lost interest in going to Blackpool and doubt if I'll ever go there again. The reason is because I have memories that are still sort of raw on my mind as I spent most of my time there with someone who used to be my best friend who I have not spoken to since Christmas."
plus it's a dump. So you're better off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turkey !! I was on holiday with family and a local man grabbed me .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No. Pretty silly and limiting thing to do really.

I had a friend who used to say ..... Oh we can't go there... I used to go there with him.....

I'd say here then ......

She'd say .... Oh we stayed there in a caravan.....

In the end I left her to enjoy her wallowing ....

If you wallow you won't move on.

Soon there'll be nowhere left to go.

Besides...... the mind can evoke memories without being in a certain place.

It's just self punishment."

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unheard of op. I've a friend who won't visit Nottingham because of their ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not unheard of op. I've a friend who won't visit Nottingham because of their ex. "

When I split up with my ex, I had to go past his house, twice a day everyday as it was on my bus route, on the way to work. That was horrendous!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Not unheard of op. I've a friend who won't visit Nottingham because of their ex.

When I split up with my ex, I had to go past his house, twice a day everyday as it was on my bus route, on the way to work. That was horrendous! "

That sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Earth

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The Earth "

I KNEW you were a Martian!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

London. It's ... Just.a.shit.hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Earth

I KNEW you were a Martian!"

And you are from Venus

Where have you been havent seen you for a few days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time we went to Blackpool our house got broken into, so, never going again, it's a bad Omen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bradford

Because I remember it being a grim shithole

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The Earth

I KNEW you were a Martian!

And you are from Venus

Where have you been havent seen you for a few days? "

Working, Lurking, Perving , Swerving.

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

Every time I go to London it reminds me why I left.

Mum still lives there and eldest will be off to uni there so the story isn't over yet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are places I won't go back to but its nothing to do with memories. Its more to do with the fact they're dumps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Earth

I KNEW you were a Martian!

And you are from Venus

Where have you been havent seen you for a few days?

Working, Lurking, Perving , Swerving."

Baking too I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blackpool lovely on the front for a walk and a,cheeky visit to infusions I am away weds night there again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have bittersweet memories of Blackpool too..

unfortunately I still have to go there as that's where my dad lives "

Shame you aint in blackpool weds night

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