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Can you write a good ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, here's the deal.

I asked for someone's help to write my profile for me a while ago. (No succes)

So I need a wingman/woman, to write that 'well thought out, personalised, cleverly constructed message that's stands out and shows off your personality' Ice breaker.

I'm not being lazy, I like to think of this as delegating a job to someone in a better position to sell me, rather than sell myself.

Apply within.

*it would help if I can borrow one of your face pics to send if you more handsome than me. Thanks in advance.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"Okay, here's the deal.

I asked for someone's help to write my profile for me a while ago. (No succes)

So I need a wingman/woman, to write that 'well thought out, personalised, cleverly constructed message that's stands out and shows off your personality' Ice breaker.

I'm not being lazy, I like to think of this as delegating a job to someone in a better position to sell me, rather than sell myself.

Apply within.

*it would help if I can borrow one of your face pics to send if you more handsome than me. Thanks in advance. "

You could open by asking the question, "how heavy is a polar bear?

Heavy enough to break the ice"...

That one usually get a good response,

Loud groans or the sound of tumble blowing past..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pickaxe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no good with that imaginative ice-breaker but I can help with an abuse, scathing and expletive-ridden response if you get a polite 'thanks but no thanks' reply in return.

Reasonable rates too, PM me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no good with that imaginative ice-breaker but I can help with an abuse, scathing and expletive-ridden response if you get a polite 'thanks but no thanks' reply in return.

Reasonable rates too, PM me "

I'll pm

You my target, someone from the forum.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

So if I wrote you a good Ice breaker and you got a response what then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally crash n burn with ice breakers..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So if I wrote you a good Ice breaker and you got a response what then? "

You do y sound enthusiastic. Not a good candidate. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your struggling to write your own ice breaker, how will you cope on a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your struggling to write your own ice breaker, how will you cope on a social "

He'll take someone along to do the work for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your struggling to write your own ice breaker, how will you cope on a social

He'll take someone along to do the work for him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need an icebreaker, you need to be genuine.

You need to let the ladies (or men) feel like the message is mean't for them, that you haven't tried your luck with half the site before the hat threw out their name.

You need to make sure that you don't mention other meets you have/had (why do folk do this?) as it makes you sound like a muppet, not like an "in demand" fab member.

Just be yourself. Don't use people in a negative way like so many people on here do.

That would make you stand out on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fair points here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your struggling to write your own ice breaker, how will you cope on a social "

This is thinking ahead. Possible choice right here. Wingman material in the making.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your struggling to write your own ice breaker, how will you cope on a social

He'll take someone along to do the work for him "

Like Cyrano de Bergerac. great idea.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

A good thick hull is a must

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is going as well as I thought.

It's every man for himself here isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile should be your own if someone else puts in the work for you then rightly so they should get the spoils that come from it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A profile should be your own if someone else puts in the work for you then rightly so they should get the spoils that come from it.

"

That's a Selfish wingman.

Bottom of the pile for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello I'm the Daddy.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

So someone writes you an ice breaker and you borrow their pic. You get a meet and turn up looking nothing like who they are expecting. What do you do/say then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chubby penguins............……………

I'm just trying to break the ice!!!!

Boom the ice is broken

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

So you want someone to write a profile and messages, using their imagination and personality?

It would be better to go the whole hog and for them to use their pics and for them to go on the meet too, save any of your effort completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, I'm certain there's no universally succesful ice-breaker message. They always look cut n paste. The trick is to personalise every one you send. When we message someone, we first read the profile, look at the pics and interests, and then construct something that reflects what we know about them. And we try to give them a flavour of ourselves.

You have to accept that most will fail, but at least when you get deleted and blocked, you'll have the satisfaction of knowing you tried your best

Charlie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your profile says you've been on 9 weeks and had 5 meets!

Looks like you don't have any trouble breaking the ice.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Okay, here's the deal.

I asked for someone's help to write my profile for me a while ago. (No succes)

So I need a wingman/woman, to write that 'well thought out, personalised, cleverly constructed message that's stands out and shows off your personality' Ice breaker.

I'm not being lazy, I like to think of this as delegating a job to someone in a better position to sell me, rather than sell myself.

Apply within.

*it would help if I can borrow one of your face pics to send if you more handsome than me. Thanks in advance. "

Hope it wasn't me that failed you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am like a fat penguin and walking on thin ice lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I walked up to a gorgeous man once and said 'We danced in the rain on the South Bank, do you remember?'

Hehe, I don't think I'll ever beat that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit on my face n peddal my ears it's worked twice there other time I had a slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd re write your profile for you but I'm afraid it wouldn't be an improvement, yours is better than mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wrote your profile? I want to meet him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd re write your profile for you but I'm afraid it wouldn't be an improvement, yours is better than mine lol"

Can I borrow a pic or two then? Send by mail if you like?

*you can't blame me for trying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who wrote your profile? I want to meet him "

It was my Ghost Writer, Flirty McFlirty. He's on fab somewhere.

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