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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stil no luck in meeting anyone , need to change things on profile ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Stil no luck in meeting anyone , need to change things on profile ? "

It's probably your age hun, you're obviously in great shape -you could try re-writing and thinking about what you have to GIVE as opposed to what you WANT - competition is fierce amongst young men. Good luck

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Experiment with your profile and messages to others. But retain a profile that reflects you.

At present it largely only tells me you want to meet women, including those older than yourself, plus that you spend a lot of time in the gym. I think I've said those points in less words than you've used.

Meets probably don't need to know about gym time investment - though knowing and seeing that you are fit is probably enough. Unless they'll struggle to meet you because you're working out so much that it's a losing battle. (It's not at present as you're not getting meets).

So ask yourself why you're possibly including each bit of detail that you do. Is it going to help or hinder your chances? Aim to include things that are helpful to you and prospective partners.

If a profile only really says 'I want sex with women, including older women', then it probably isn't going to help a user gain a first impression with others that makes them really stand out from the many others here.

There are loads of forum posts that cover how to make a profile better. And also similarly that it's typical for most of you single guys to spend months before making much progress with meet success. Reading and accepting the advice from those could be really helpful. Balance here with all the other sex that you get out in the wider world, so you're not unduly reliant on just one route to satisfaction. Incorporate elements of what works for you in one context within the others, where appropriate.

Good luck!

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Stil no luck in meeting anyone , need to change things on profile ?

It's probably your age hun, you're obviously in great shape -you could try re-writing and thinking about what you have to GIVE as opposed to what you WANT - competition is fierce amongst young men. Good luck "

Nah sod that, stick to what you WANT as opposed to what you can GIVE

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I like your profile. I wouldn't contact you because there's no face pic. But that's very understandable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile feels a little bit agressive and really is only a list of what you WANT not what you can offer. Just like most of the other young guys. It really doesn't stand out from the crowd.

Whatever the truth is about you, I would suspect you were selfish and inexperienced.

You might be a lovely, sexy, fun, kinky boy, try getting your personality across a bit. I know this is a shallow, casual sex site not a dating site, but I'm still choosy about who I let into my body.

P.S I personally loathe when guys say they want to meet 'females'.

Again, it's very impersonal. Try women, girls, ladies etc.

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