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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work? "

Agree, it becomes a scripted conversation and soon runs dry.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work? "

I think people don't like to "spill"everything only because deep down we like our privacy.i dunno just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any listed but still ppl messaging me saying : I heard that you like having your cock sucked while driving a ford Ka

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work?

Agree, it becomes a scripted conversation and soon runs dry. "

Exactly. I've had some brilliant mails this week from people that have responded well to my shit profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People message with one line profiles....eg fun male looking for fun women. I politely ask them to write a more expressive profile, so I can judge if we possibly seek the same 'fun'.

Ask me anything you want, is the reply. Then it becomes as OP says, just agrees with everything you say. Or the odd one will write a profile, which amazingly reflects mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any listed but still ppl messaging me saying : I heard that you like having your cock sucked while driving a ford Ka "

And do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any listed but still ppl messaging me saying : I heard that you like having your cock sucked while driving a ford Ka

And do you? "

Drives a Ford KA

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People read your profile?

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

Yep it's why ours is pretty crap (my excuse). If hubby did it it would be war and peace. People just say what they think you want to hear. If I said I liked subs, then changed it to dominant the next week,a lot of the same people would message spouting bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than the majority of one's I get.... "Wife wants a fuck, send face pic"... OK yea I'll get right on it for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People read your profile? "

I'm showing off. 20,009 mails this week. 3 read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your stall out and be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set your stall out and be honest. "

No.

Fucking lie.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I get a bit of this but tbh it usually gets me the kind of guy I want as once a few scripted lines have been spouted it will be obvious if its a line or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work? "

If you try to be everything to everyone, you end up being nothing to nobody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work? "

Do you mean that you think the mail you get from guys are scripted and telling you what they think you want to hear ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the Op was just being playful when she said she had that many mails. Personal comments about profiles are not permitted, unless advice was sought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work?

Do you mean that you think the mail you get from guys are scripted and telling you what they think you want to hear ? "

The majority of the time, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people match their mails to whatever I say in my profile.

I know everyone says they want people to read their profile and match what they are looking for, but most will just agree with whatever you say.

Does revealing all your interests on your profile ever really work?

If you try to be everything to everyone, you end up being nothing to nobody."

What he said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the Op was just being playful when she said she had that many mails. Personal comments about profiles are not permitted, unless advice was sought."

Yep I was just joking.

x

It was 20,008

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep it's why ours is pretty crap (my excuse). If hubby did it it would be war and peace. People just say what they think you want to hear. If I said I liked subs, then changed it to dominant the next week,a lot of the same people would message spouting bullshit "

Harsh that. People get slated for not reading the profile and for reading it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"People message with one line profiles....eg fun male looking for fun women. I politely ask them to write a more expressive profile, so I can judge if we possibly seek the same 'fun'.

Ask me anything you want, is the reply. Then it becomes as OP says, just agrees with everything you say. Or the odd one will write a profile, which amazingly reflects mine."

This is exactly what happens to me when I make the same suggestion, I just say sorry 'I don't do the spanish inquistion'

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