FabSwingers.com forum: A woman scorned

By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

On a similar site to this (AH), a minor disagreement took place in the chat room between a long term male user who is married and a fairly new female user...

It was the normal storm in a teacup that came and went and everyone moved on...

Following the disagreement, she started befriending his AH friends, pretended to be interested in him, eventually got enough information from his friends to be able to find him on his private social media.

She then took a screen shot of his AH profile and posted on his Facebook page for his wife, family and friends all to see.

Is it just me, or is that completely despicable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's completely unacceptable behaviour. What a complete bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that's despicable too

but why say everyone moved on when she clearly didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Thats so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be against revenge porn laws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not on at all... there's an unwritten rule that you don't discuss sites like these outside of here and don't rat people out.... I'd be annoyed if it happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dem bitches be cray cray!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely disgusting behaviour from her. I hope she gets her comeuppance.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's really, REALLY bad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No much gets to me but that is awful... wonder how she would feel should he had done that to her... what a complete bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Burn the witch

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Was she there to find him, if she was a new person?

Why did these friends give her so much information?

Bonkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is AH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a fucking bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what is AH"

Another swingers site I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

his friends are just as bad, sharing personal info like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to sort out his Facebook privacy settings too..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what is AH"

I could tell you but then id have to kill you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what is AH

I could tell you but then id have to kill you

Death by cake

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

Bunny boiler!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what is AH

I could tell you but then id have to kill you

Death by cake

carrot cake

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By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"what is AH

Another swingers site I think."

yep, a similar site that i used to be a member of...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone was asking me questions about someone on site i'd flag it up to the person they were asking about.

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Nasty nasty

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Nasty nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a cunt. Simples!

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By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"his friends are just as bad, sharing personal info like that."

he was a longterm user, been on it for years.

she by all accounts had been a member for a few weeks and was very chatty and pleasant, and was well liked.

The disagreement was long forgotten and nobody had any reason to think she was up to anything underhand..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"his friends are just as bad, sharing personal info like that.

he was a longterm user, been on it for years.

she by all accounts had been a member for a few weeks and was very chatty and pleasant, and was well liked.

The disagreement was long forgotten and nobody had any reason to think she was up to anything underhand.."

Perhaps 'she' was a regular long term user that set up a new account to bait him.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Was she already a Facebook friend of his?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's been cheating on his wife for years?? How on earth has she not twigged before now I don't know.

However yeah she definitely was seriously out of line exposing him like that. Her and hubby are both the C word. He clearly wasn't discrete enough. Now his wife will feel publicly humiliated as well as hurt. It's her I actually feel for.

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By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Was she already a Facebook friend of his? "

No, his facebook was his private life and completely separate.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

And now I remember why I don't do Facebook!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Was she already a Facebook friend of his?

No, his facebook was his private life and completely separate.

I only ask because I didn't know you could post on someone's Facebook page if you're not friends.

That's frightening....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was she already a Facebook friend of his?

No, his facebook was his private life and completely separate.

I only ask because I didn't know you could post on someone's Facebook page if you're not friends.

That's frightening...."

They can if you haven't adequately sorted the privacy settings. Everything should be set as just you or friends.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd keep information on a need to know basis, so that there's next to nothing to pass on. Though I think neighbours and people I know etc would be disappointed that my life's not outrageous enough.

As for anyone doing this, it's sickening

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"He's been cheating on his wife for years?? How on earth has she not twigged before now I don't know.

Aye, poor wifey

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Was she already a Facebook friend of his?

No, his facebook was his private life and completely separate.

I only ask because I didn't know you could post on someone's Facebook page if you're not friends.

That's frightening....

They can if you haven't adequately sorted the privacy settings. Everything should be set as just you or friends. "

Just checked...mine's ok. Phew....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His so called friends are just as much to blame as she is, but what goes around comes around.

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By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"He's been cheating on his wife for years?? How on earth has she not twigged before now I don't know.

I know the guy well from my time on the site, I am not going to make excuses for him but his personal situation wasn't black and white....

its not just his wife that will suffer but his kids and parents who all would have seen the post. How many of their friends would see the post too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's been cheating on his wife for years?? How on earth has she not twigged before now I don't know.

I know the guy well from my time on the site, I am not going to make excuses for him but his personal situation wasn't black and white....

its not just his wife that will suffer but his kids and parents who all would have seen the post. How many of their friends would see the post too... "

Sorry if I appear harsh but the black and white of it is, if he wasn't even on that site in the first place, then there wouldn't of been anything to expose him for. I'm afraid I just don't feel sorry for him. If he felt the need to cheat for years, then it sounds like his marriage needs counselling. Or maybe he just can't help himself. Who knows.

Still without a doubt that other woman was wrong to publicly humiliate him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually his poor wife I feel sorry for , heart breaking and humiliating for her , my heart goes out to her.

Terrible behaviour from him and the "lady" who outed him.

He knew the risks he was taking cheating on his wife , these things always come out in the end usually through the cheaters own arrogance and stupidity. No sympathy for him what's so ever. I hope his wife was brave enough to kick his ass to the kerb .Me I'd walk away and never look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a shitty thing to do, but it's a risk he ran i guess. nature of putting stuff on line is that it's accessible and there are some people out there who will exploit that.

if you don't want folk to know, don't put it out there.

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