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Best way to make a lady squirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no best way

Some women can do it some can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put her in a water pistol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feed her some out of date food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman can and does squirt there are ways to make it happen op my sub will testify to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men think finger blasting is the way. It really isn't for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to the woman in question perhaps first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squeeze her...or maybe please her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feed her some out of date food "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


""

a wink is a start maybe for some..

there is no magic formula that works for all women..

it if its going to happen depends on many things..

not really sure why some men have become fixated with it as the holy grail..

is it porn..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all ladies can easily squirt or gush. It all depends on the technique used. I can't achieve this by oral or sex. Only through use of vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You supply the woman, and I will show you.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There is no best way

Some women can do it some can't "

and some don't want to

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Talk to the woman in question perhaps first? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no best way

Some women can do it some can't

and some don't want to "

Agree with last remark

I am not keen on this with someone I have not known for long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all ladies can easily squirt or gush. It all depends on the technique used. I can't achieve this by oral or sex. Only through use of vibrator"

I don't easily squirt/gush. And I'm rather relieved it doesn't happen easily.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"There is no best way

Some women can do it some can't

and some don't want to "

This totally,as long as we all have fun I couldn't Care less.

Miss

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick my dick in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ergh squirting! I blame porn, why would I want to piss the bed?! Last thing I want to do post coitus is change the sheets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no best way

Some women can do it some can't "

Can you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men think finger blasting is the way. It really isn't for me."

So how for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men think finger blasting is the way. It really isn't for me.

So how for u"

I'd rather not squirt. It's overrated in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha"

some folk actively like that.

hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha

some folk actively like that.

hello "

Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse phenomenon to ever hit the porn sites.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

My play partner squirts through fisting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love love love squirting! The feeling is amazing. What's annoying is I sometimes have to tell guys how to do it

I love a guy that knows exactly what he's doing and makes me squirt over and over....mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love love love squirting! The feeling is amazing. What's annoying is I sometimes have to tell guys how to do it

I love a guy that knows exactly what he's doing and makes me squirt over and over....mmmm"

Btw if you look on porn sites there are tutorials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two fingers deep in the pussy and rather than go in and out go up and down..works on me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ways are:

a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.

b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.

c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.

everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha

some folk actively like that.

hello

Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too "

Me me me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My play partner squirts through fisting..."

I believe squirting and gushing is as much psychological as physical, if you hit the right combo you will achieve this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha

some folk actively like that.

hello

Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too

Me me me!!"

Well now that's interesting darlin and really not so far away either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worse phenomenon to ever hit the porn sites. "

it works for some people, i've known ladies who enjoy it as much as guys.

i get that some people treat it as a 'thing' or whatever but there's space for it as much as any other kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love love love squirting! The feeling is amazing. What's annoying is I sometimes have to tell guys how to do it

I love a guy that knows exactly what he's doing and makes me squirt over and over....mmmm"

It is rather sexy my sub loves this very much too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my ways are:

a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.

b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.

c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.

everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.

"

Absolutely overthinking is often the enemy preventing this from being achieved regardless of technique sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha

some folk actively like that.

hello

Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too

Me me me!!"

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies from woman to woman and session to session. what makes her squirt one time won't the next....

Squirting shouldn't be the aim or target. We're not playing Tekken.

It's not something that I aim for in itself but I love it when it hastens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stimulate the mind then try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stimulate the mind then try "

I think a lot of it is mind and relaxing. And the guy not being obsessed about making someone do it.

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By *ryrotMan
over a year ago

shag pile

Don't stop till she does if she dident well it's a good long fuck mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha"

... ^^^ This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never squirted

I have no problem getting incredibly wet (is there such a thing as too wet?) but I honestly don't think I can squirt. . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""

And I thought you were going to tell me your secret!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never squirted

I have no problem getting incredibly wet (is there such a thing as too wet?) but I honestly don't think I can squirt. . X "

I wouldn't worry it's overrated

At times it can be very embarrassing

Then the idiots who know you squirt and go hell for leather with their fingers trying to make you squirt

Honestly your not missing much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my ways are:

a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.

This

b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.

c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.

everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no best way

Some women can do it some can't

Can you ?"

It depends who I'm with.

I don't do it all the time either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wonderful thing, it's not a bad dirty thing to avoid and there's no shame in either enjoying being made to gush or squirt or wanting to do that for your meet, however as is often the case a few make a big issue of it spoiling it for others, if it font happen there is no failure on either part, some people just can't achieve it sadly sexual hang ups exist but belittling a desire or preference to make another feel better is just as bad as making someone feel bad for not gushing etc!

It is what it is and if it happens and with the right person it's sexy horny great if it doesn't never mind, to dismiss it as not a good experience is misguided as there's plenty who appreciate it and are still ok if it don't happen too

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"my ways are:

a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.

b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.

c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.

everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.

"

a and c both work well for me. The feeling is amazing, it's a different kind of orgasm to me. Just means we get through lots of towels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for."

For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that those who boast that they can do it, usually can't.

One person has made me do it, but it's not the end of my world if it doesn't happen again.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.

For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!? "

That's right. There is nothing wrong with squirting at all. My point is that for some men it has become a goal or indicator of their performance.

My comment about relaxing and enjoying what they had gone for, means just that. If they all want a squirting session great, if they just want orgasmic sex, the squirting doesn't need to be thrown in as an arbitrary target.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get near me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.

For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!?

That's right. There is nothing wrong with squirting at all. My point is that for some men it has become a goal or indicator of their performance.

My comment about relaxing and enjoying what they had gone for, means just that. If they all want a squirting session great, if they just want orgasmic sex, the squirting doesn't need to be thrown in as an arbitrary target.

MrB"

Exactly this! I want someone to enjoy having fun with me, not having a mental tick list of all the things they think they "should" be able to do me. It takes all the fun away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.

For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!?

That's right. There is nothing wrong with squirting at all. My point is that for some men it has become a goal or indicator of their performance.

My comment about relaxing and enjoying what they had gone for, means just that. If they all want a squirting session great, if they just want orgasmic sex, the squirting doesn't need to be thrown in as an arbitrary target.

MrB"

Indeed relaxing is important for many sexual encounters and I agree it's only ok with fellow kink enthusiasts else just have fun and don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that the squirting debate has now replaced the clitoral V oral orgasm debate that was prevelant a few years ago!

Back then many ladies were led to feel inadequate if an orgasm could only be achieved by clitoral stimulation rather than through penetrative sex

It's not a competition at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that the squirting debate has now replaced the clitoral V oral orgasm debate that was prevelant a few years ago!

Back then many ladies were led to feel inadequate if an orgasm could only be achieved by clitoral stimulation rather than through penetrative sex

It's not a competition at the end of the day"

Sorry I meant to say clitoral V vaginal orgasm .Oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put her in a water pistol? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that the squirting debate has now replaced the clitoral V oral orgasm debate that was prevelant a few years ago!

Back then many ladies were led to feel inadequate if an orgasm could only be achieved by clitoral stimulation rather than through penetrative sex

It's not a competition at the end of the day

Sorry I meant to say clitoral V vaginal orgasm .Oops!"

Hehe the two would work together well clitoral and oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way is not to bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scarlett very rarely squirts but when she does ......... wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Best way to make a lady squirt'

Why do you have to?

Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.

As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put her in a water pistol? "

I stand by this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tickle her till she scweams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill up a water pistol and ask her to pull the trigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Best way to make a lady squirt'

Why do you have to?

Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.

As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters

"

I want a guy to make me squirt. I love it so that's part how I have a good time

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford


"'Best way to make a lady squirt'

Why do you have to?

Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.

As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters

I want a guy to make me squirt. I love it so that's part how I have a good time "

i will try my best

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha

some folk actively like that.

hello "
hello lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Best way to make a lady squirt'

Why do you have to?

Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.

As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters

I want a guy to make me squirt. I love it so that's part how I have a good time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't take much to make me squirt

And I Fucking love it!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally do it every time in reverse cowgirl while rubbing my clit, but its a lot to do with how turned on I am at the time , effort in = wet puddle . I find it ambarrasing sometimes though as it feels like you've pissed the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take much to make me squirt

And I Fucking love it!

Ruby"

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women though there are different triggers to this so sometimes a nudge in the right direction is ok??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""

Open your wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but is it wee wee?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I never have .....

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

it is a very hot feeling but I early do. and nothing is worse than a guy desperately trying to make me. great sex doesn't have to include it!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"but is it wee wee?

"

Of course,just lot's of people want to deny it isn't

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Hate it when guys says I will make you squirt lots mmmn me thinks not I don't squirt on depend c.f. got yo hit the spot but be horny too so the work up is good

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By *heekychMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

I have a hunch that you Copy and pasted that from a 'how to make her squirt' instruction manual....????

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