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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who actually responds to them?

I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

626

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I don't even bother with winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no winks today, would love to get one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a small enough number 0-1 that I can have a nose and see if it is someone I want to contact.

Certainly wouldn't be doing that if I had 100+ per day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get the point of them. I think Pete looks at them but I don't take much notice. If someone's really interested they'll just send us a message

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got no winks today, would love to get one!"

You're wish may just come true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who actually responds to them?

I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all."

Thank you, too kind

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Seriously I never look at my winks or friend requests unless someone tells me they've sent them. They are just a disappointment as it's always bloody blokes that have sent them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually only 1 a month. Those that have winked, I've messaged without response, so I tend to not bother with them now.

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By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

We have written we don't respond to winks on our profile so! We don't feel so guilty deleting them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only look at winks & friend requests when a thread like this reminds me that they exist.

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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago

durham

I delete them all as soon as I get them and the same with friend requests. Unless I've met previously i won't add them as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have s nose through every so often and see if anyone has a fit profile pic if they do ill wink back

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Be lucky to get any recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a small enough number 0-1 that I can have a nose and see if it is someone I want to contact.

Certainly wouldn't be doing that if I had 100+ per day"

I just don't know where you find the time to manage that many

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I delete them all as soon as I get them and the same with friend requests. Unless I've met previously i won't add them as a friend"

You should just leave them there. Can't be resent then

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think in the four months or so that I've had this profile I've had less than 10 winks in all and with one exception (whose profile made it clear that if they winked it meant they were open to being messaged if the recipient of the wink (i.e. me) was interested) I've not responded to any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days we get a few. I do try and respond to most of them, but some I just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lookedatme fab wink chatroom conversation meet

I use all the sites tools to get what I want..I rarely complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not know because i do not get any lol

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By *ymba 87Man
over a year ago

hunstanton

I have none mwhahaahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that said wank not wink... lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

3

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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago

durham


"I delete them all as soon as I get them and the same with friend requests. Unless I've met previously i won't add them as a friend

You should just leave them there. Can't be resent then "

I never knew that thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 15 since I've been on...

Guessing thats down to me winking most of them first and they're reciprocating, but still, its lovely to receive

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I delete them all as soon as I get them and the same with friend requests. Unless I've met previously i won't add them as a friend

You should just leave them there. Can't be resent then

I never knew that thanks"

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who actually responds to them?

I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all."

That's 626, sorry lovely couldn't resits. Giggles to oneself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do not know because i do not get any lol"

Never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shag them all. Isn't that what we're supposed to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to lovely winks tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete them"

never delete them...the feckers cant resend them again if you dont

same goes for friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to lovely winks tonight "

I had 40. I feel quite refreshed now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do not know because i do not get any lol

Never say never "

What a minx ya know ya get loads. For starters I sent one yesterday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two but they were from women 150 miles away so pretty pointless. However local winks from local people are gratefully received in the spirit in which they were intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete them

never delete them...the feckers cant resend them again if you dont

same goes for friend requests"

wrong..you can resend 1 month later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks may be more useful for couples. It's particularly useful if you get one from another couple (if you can spot them in amongst the scores from single men).

Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the short time we've been on here, there appears to be several ways to show an escalating level of interest. Fabbing pics seems to act like a soft wink, showing you like the look of them. Then, a wink shows you're more interested, because maybe you've read the profile and now like the sound of them. Obviously a friend request is stronger and would most effectively come after messaging and getting to know them, though some people refuse friend requests till after physically meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually rather like them.

It could simply be a show of appreciation or that people are shy and unsure of making first contact.

At the end of the day they are harmless and you only have to view them should you choose to.

Wink away and screw what people think. If they're that indifferent to them they'll just be ignored.

Take a chance, you never know where it may lead.

Peace out

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"I shag them all. Isn't that what we're supposed to do?"

Just sent you a wink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks may be more useful for couples. It's particularly useful if you get one from another couple (if you can spot them in amongst the scores from single men).

Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the short time we've been on here, there appears to be several ways to show an escalating level of interest. Fabbing pics seems to act like a soft wink, showing you like the look of them. Then, a wink shows you're more interested, because maybe you've read the profile and now like the sound of them. Obviously a friend request is stronger and would most effectively come after messaging and getting to know them, though some people refuse friend requests till after physically meeting."

I don't see the point of all the foreplay. If you see someone you fancy, send them a message, explain what you're looking for, attach a photo and see what happens. If they reply, great. If they just delete it, stalk the shit out of them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks may be more useful for couples. It's particularly useful if you get one from another couple (if you can spot them in amongst the scores from single men).

Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the short time we've been on here, there appears to be several ways to show an escalating level of interest. Fabbing pics seems to act like a soft wink, showing you like the look of them. Then, a wink shows you're more interested, because maybe you've read the profile and now like the sound of them. Obviously a friend request is stronger and would most effectively come after messaging and getting to know them, though some people refuse friend requests till after physically meeting.

I don't see the point of all the foreplay. If you see someone you fancy, send them a message, explain what you're looking for, attach a photo and see what happens. If they reply, great. If they just delete it, stalk the shit out of them!! "

Is that really how bad it is? You hear stories but your never sure of what to believe here, I guest it's easy being a single guy

Regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who actually responds to them?

I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all."

You've had 625 winks today or since you last checked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't get that many so look occasionally, if i see anyone i like i might message but that's about it, bit of a cursory check but i don't pay much mind to them otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hardly get any winks but then we have filtered our message settings on our profile to such an extent that unless you're a 29 year old professional ballerina, who was born in the last quarter of the year, has blonde hair, green eyes, a degree in English, can bake, volunteers for the Red Cross, is an organ doner, can play the piano and hates tomatoes .... you wink isn't getting through !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With pics as good as yours no wonder you have so many. Wowwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hardly get any winks but then we have filtered our message settings on our profile to such an extent that unless you're a 29 year old professional ballerina, who was born in the last quarter of the year, has blonde hair, green eyes, a degree in English, can bake, volunteers for the Red Cross, is an organ doner, can play the piano and hates tomatoes .... you wink isn't getting through ! "

?????????? lol love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even look at mine and if I were to bother I would bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even look at mine and if I were to bother I would bulk delete "

you gonna delete my wank! sakes......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at winks when we get chance and often wink back or send messages.

I like the wink feature but understand its not for everyone.

Eve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do....it would be rude not too

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Well..if I had over 100..yes I wouldn't...trouble is that I get none. Oh..no..hold on..I had 2.. (in 6 month ).

But I read in all your profile that you don't respond to winks...so..I seriously don't get why they're there for..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who actually responds to them?

I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all.

You've had 625 winks today or since you last checked? "

Well the op had a similar post up the other day saying she had 600 so I'm guessing it's an accumulation

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