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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all joined the site for our own specific reasons but who finds they they log on to fab and head straight to the forums instead of their inbox? Would you say that interacting with likeminded people and realising "you are not alone" reduces the urgent need for a meet?

I haven't really worded that very well (multitasking) but I think you can get the gist of my question?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this. Most of the men I fancy are hanging around the forums

Shame they're all miles away.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go to the forums after dealing with my messages... Message... I just go to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both for me.....

Just got to duck out to read a new message. Back soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages?

I always arrive at the forums. Is there an outside, is that that cold place I never want to return to?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"We all joined the site for our own specific reasons but who finds they they log on to fab and head straight to the forums instead of their inbox? Would you say that interacting with likeminded people and realising "you are not alone" reduces the urgent need for a meet?

I haven't really worded that very well (multitasking) but I think you can get the gist of my question?! "

Yep that's me. I've left before and come back just for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little ritual when I log on. Messages first, updates, friends list (see if anyone is on), hot list then on to the forums. Then I just hang around in the shadows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm back......was just a silly woman asking if I would be free to meet some time in March. Told her I was busy on forums and I'd let her know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the forum and on the back of that get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to go to the forums after dealing with my messages... Message... I just go to the forums. "

- this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I puns that when we first joined we were a little giddy with the whole thing and were checking who was online and who had replied to our messages but that quickly wore off.

Messages are easy to spot because of the yellow box at the top of the screen but haven't looked at the winks or who's looked at me page for days. I just go straight to the forums. Not really sure what that says about us ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im finding the forums more fun. Messages are all a bit samey. There's only so many times I can answer "how are you" before I lose the will to live!

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"We all joined the site for our own specific reasons but who finds they they log on to fab and head straight to the forums instead of their inbox? Would you say that interacting with likeminded people and realising "you are not alone" reduces the urgent need for a meet?

I haven't really worded that very well (multitasking) but I think you can get the gist of my question?! "

Understand completely, I'm probably addictive to coming onto the forums, reading or posting, much more than most of the messages on here

But then i am definitely a social swinger and really do enjoy meeting others that are like minded, play of any sort is a bonus in my books

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im finding the forums more fun. Messages are all a bit samey. There's only so many times I can answer "how are you" before I lose the will to live! "

Fewer cock pics too

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Messages if any status and forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding the forums more fun. Messages are all a bit samey. There's only so many times I can answer "how are you" before I lose the will to live!

Fewer cock pics too "

Praise the lord!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums for sure.

But I can give it up.

Anytime I want.

Honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically the only reason I come on fab really, less so recently as I've been a bit worried about posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these messages you speak of??

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm a fence sitter I have no routine when coming on fab but as I rarely get any messages I never have to rush to answer them. I'm only a recent forum user so not here all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums as I haven't had any shenanigans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums as I haven't had any shenanigans "

Yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums as I haven't had any shenanigans

Yet... "

Here 4 weeks already and no shenanigans

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"What are these messages you speak of??"

I don't get many I am interested in. Well, I do if I post a photo or a status but otherwise it's the odd one. So I don't tend to check them. Forums mainly for me unless I am discussing a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to mix it up.

I may look at the hotpics first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to mix it up.

I may look at the hotpics first "

Fab needs rebels like you

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

..... id miss the forums .... I delete most of my messages as they are usually very silly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums as I haven't had any shenanigans

Yet...

Here 4 weeks already and no shenanigans "

4 weeks? Feel like I've been shenanganless for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically the only reason I come on fab really, less so recently as I've been a bit worried about posting. "

Why have you been worried about posting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to mix it up.

I may look at the hotpics first

Fab needs rebels like you "

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I do this. Most of the men I fancy are hanging around the forums

Shame they're all miles away..... "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding the forums more fun. Messages are all a bit samey. There's only so many times I can answer "how are you" before I lose the will to live! "

Mine are anything but. Or so I'm told...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I browse the forums while I'm waiting for my message replies.

I'm here for the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to hot pics first for a perve then head for the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically the only reason I come on fab really, less so recently as I've been a bit worried about posting. "

Why are you worried?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the forums to be ignored then sod off to perve, then forget to log out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the depth n quality of conversations in the forums - especially the kiss snog avoid threads - they make a change from PMs like "can I fuck you now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are my favourite part of this site

That being said, I quite the women on this site too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically the only reason I come on fab really, less so recently as I've been a bit worried about posting.

Why are you worried? "

Ah I don't wanna moan. Just worry about people jumping me for saying something or just being generally dickish. Nothing really, just tend to not post to avoid it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Varies depending on my mood but it's never long before I head to the forums which are after all the in place to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not subjected to the volume of messages, that some of the ladies receive, so it's not a problem. Some great banter, and threads occur occasionally on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums make me laugh. The forums put me off ever having sex again.

Win Win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically the only reason I come on fab really, less so recently as I've been a bit worried about posting.

Why are you worried?

Ah I don't wanna moan. Just worry about people jumping me for saying something or just being generally dickish. Nothing really, just tend to not post to avoid it. "

Just ignore them. Strangers on t'internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alone most of the time. The Forum is my friend. Sometimes I can't be bothered with messages as they can be a bit boring... "hey, what you up to", "where would you like my cum", "I'd fucking ruin you".

Mostly people are nice in the Forums and it makes me smile, more than the messages do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm alone most of the time. The Forum is my friend. Sometimes I can't be bothered with messages as they can be a bit boring... "hey, what you up to", "where would you like my cum", "I'd fucking ruin you".

Mostly people are nice in the Forums and it makes me smile, more than the messages do.

"

This exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to the forums to be ignored then sod off to perve, then forget to log out. "

Who are you again?

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"I go to the forums to be ignored then sod off to perve, then forget to log out. "

Lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm back......was just a silly woman asking if I would be free to meet some time in March. Told her I was busy on forums and I'd let her know...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to the forums to be ignored then sod off to perve, then forget to log out.

Who are you again? "

*looks at her feet*

''hello, someone there?"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Yep, most of the time I'm online, I spend in the forums, as it's practically the only interaction I get from this site these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shenanigans a plenty, loads of pm's to go through usually and love the forum hehee

As to which I goto first it all depends on my reason for logging on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to give my mailbox a quick glance to see if there's messages from those I'm in conversations with, disregarding any new messages whether they're suitable or unsuitable for the timebeing.

Then I pop into the forums, sometimes merely lurking, but posting more often than not. This takes a various amount of time.

Then I pop back to my messages to check the ones I skimmed over the first time.

Just to confuse things further I can look through the updates pages at any given time too...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I check my messages first, but then usually check the forums before I answer them....

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I have a little ritual when I log on. Messages first, updates, friends list (see if anyone is on), hot list then on to the forums. Then I just hang around in the shadows "

This is me. I check messages but if I have been busy and see that message have come through I will want to read them first

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