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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So...you have a magic session under the duvet and both are lying there getting ya breath back.....

Do ya cuddle ? chat or what...

I met a guy once , who once he had cum...suddenly wanted no physical contact at all....

i hated it and didnt see him again...it was like..noooo dont touch me type of thing...

Real off putting and i felt very hurt and insulted by it....

so what do YOU do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a nice cuddle ya can't beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So...you have a magic session under the duvet and both are lying there getting ya breath back.....

Do ya cuddle ? chat or what...

I met a guy once , who once he had cum...suddenly wanted no physical contact at all....

i hated it and didnt see him again...it was like..noooo dont touch me type of thing...

Real off putting and i felt very hurt and insulted by it....

so what do YOU do ?

the laying back talking, nibbling and stroking afterwards is all part of the experience

very few bi guys comfy with it tho - think once the sack is empty the 'catholic guilt' kicks in and they wanna be offski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was seeing a guy a few weeks ago and he did that, made me feel horrible and when I said to him he didnt see the problem, hence me being single again lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always wondered why if im honest...aint men strange eh

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Have a chat, laugh, drink then maybe a little touching and kissing and... here we go again!

Mistress x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

For me the snuggle cuddle is the completion

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 20/06/11 20:55:14]

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Depends who with...

kev, snuggle then sleep,we have to wait till the brats are safely asleep

Meets,chat,touch,laugh...relax

Sir...float in his arms.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

full body wipe with anti bacterials..

strip the bed..

write the verification I want them to post about me..

hand bus fare/s to party/ies and wish them well.

ps... ask for their mobile and ensure contact details erased...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"full body wipe with anti bacterials..

strip the bed..

write the verification I want them to post about me..

hand bus fare/s to party/ies and wish them well.

ps... ask for their mobile and ensure contact details erased...

didn't realise I'd get bus fare?! count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not comfortable with the whole cuddle thing after, id rather leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"full body wipe with anti bacterials..

strip the bed..

write the verification I want them to post about me..

hand bus fare/s to party/ies and wish them well.

ps... ask for their mobile and ensure contact details erased...

.... Oi! you forgot the bacon butty.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"full body wipe with anti bacterials..

strip the bed..

write the verification I want them to post about me..

hand bus fare/s to party/ies and wish them well.

ps... ask for their mobile and ensure contact details erased...

does that include airfare

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"full body wipe with anti bacterials..

strip the bed..

write the verification I want them to post about me..

hand bus fare/s to party/ies and wish them well.

ps... ask for their mobile and ensure contact details erased...

.... Oi! you forgot the bacon butty.

those were the golden days.. recession.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps....... contact the FBI, MI5 and Interpol for one with stalker tendancies.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ps....... contact the FBI, MI5 and Interpol for one with stalker tendancies........."

..... flattens back against the wall and pulls up raincoat collar.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

suppose it depends on the type of meet lol...remember,,,,,sometimes if its couples...Im just there to fuck, I'm not required to give passion and might end up gettin in trouble from the male half lol

Personally I like overnight meets and thankfully I have had meets where i can have some passionate kissing cuddling and some wakeup sex.

On a 1on1 meet I tend to think if you are staying over and she wants a little bit more than the pumpNgo type thing, of course I'd like all the touchy feely stuff to be throughout the nite and a wee kiss fondlegropeshag before u go lol, but I's say its that kind of catch22 thing...do I text her on the way home...wait till Im home etc etc etc,however Im soon looking for something else anyway and happy carrying on being a happyweeslut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a lovely cuddle, then fall asleep all entwined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who its with.. if its a playmate.. we talk.. get dressed and say bye.. Would feel really odd if a playmate wanted to cuddle up afterwards...

If its Master, I cuddle in and we normally start over again..

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to cuddle and kiss for as long as possible.

then start all over again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are having a threesome then I lie in between the two guys and we all talk and laugh. If its a couple then I cuddle up with my OH and the other couple do the same and we talk and laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genetically programmed to dump my seed and go look for another one. Cuddling? Pah. I'm off for a ciggie, anyone coming?

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

"im not comfortable with the whole cuddle thing after, id rather leave"

No cuddles and no Oral? We know what you're doing wrong - you need to take the space suit off

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

depends on the person I am shagging!!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Once found myself laying inbetween two guys on hotel bed watching Corrie lol

Mistress x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

", but I's say its that kind of catch22 thing...do I text her on the way home...carry on being a happyweeslut lol

Just say thanks and take the money on the side lol

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

"If its a couple then I cuddle up with my OH and the other couple do the same and we talk and laugh

We're the same, great part of the evening, just chilling out, having a laugh, and in a great mood

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"depends on the person I am shagging!!"

person ....you mean ...people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i likes ta do it feels a little odd ta just walk away xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Well i likes ta do it feels a little odd ta just walk away xx

Oh and you are so nice to cuddle up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to cuddle, kiss, chat, i think some people may worry that this will lead to more, nsa doesnt mean cold and distant once you have cum, only had one guy be like that and it wasnt a nice experience

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"So...you have a magic session under the duvet and both are lying there getting ya breath back.....

Do ya cuddle ? chat or what...

I met a guy once , who once he had cum...suddenly wanted no physical contact at all....

i hated it and didnt see him again...it was like..noooo dont touch me type of thing...

Real off putting and i felt very hurt and insulted by it....

so what do YOU do ?

reach for the oygen ,try to get out of bed and hit the floor with jelly legs ,,then haul myself to the kitchen to make cups of tea,and bacon ,egg and mushroom sanwiches..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once found myself laying inbetween two guys on hotel bed watching Corrie lol

Mistress x"

sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we are having a threesome then I lie in between the two guys and we all talk and laugh. If its a couple then I cuddle up with my OH and the other couple do the same and we talk and laugh

Snap

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

reach for the oygen ,try to get out of bed and hit the floor with jelly legs ,,then haul myself to the kitchen to make cups of tea,and bacon ,egg and mushroom sanwiches..

I didn't get egg

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

reach for the oygen ,try to get out of bed and hit the floor with jelly legs ,,then haul myself to the kitchen to make cups of tea,and bacon ,egg and mushroom sanwiches..

I didn't get egg

you said you didnt want egg ? i asked ya

i distinctly remember ,you didnt want toasted either,,,,,,huh...

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Before sex, you help each other get naked.

After sex you only dress yourself.

Moral of the story:

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No one helps you once your f**ked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends who uve done it with i guess.

cuddling is more something a couple would do after making love, not something i think u`d do after a casual encounter or between fuck buds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pee!

I don't cuddle after sex unless I'm in a relationship, bit weird for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lay there and wait for the shaking to stop!!!!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

reach for the oygen ,try to get out of bed and hit the floor with jelly legs ,,then haul myself to the kitchen to make cups of tea,and bacon ,egg and mushroom sanwiches..

I didn't get egg

you said you didnt want egg ? i asked ya

i distinctly remember ,you didnt want toasted either,,,,,,huh...

No, toasted is wrong and see I didn;t get an egg, did I say it wasn't offered, I said I didn't get an egg

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pee!

I don't cuddle after sex unless I'm in a relationship, bit weird for me!"

Why weird ? I knew the guy for quite a while and we were good friends..just didnt have the chance to take things further...

Your sharing intimate moments along with body fluids so why not relax and chill with a cuddle after ?

I find those that dont , quite cold and unfeeling,. but than thats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cook them something to eat, then hit the duvet again, never fails - cuddles can be misconstrued so i never go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pee!

I don't cuddle after sex unless I'm in a relationship, bit weird for me!

Why weird ? I knew the guy for quite a while and we were good friends..just didnt have the chance to take things further...

Your sharing intimate moments along with body fluids so why not relax and chill with a cuddle after ?

I find those that dont , quite cold and unfeeling,. but than thats me

Im with you on this one

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"If we are having a threesome then I lie in between the two guys and we all talk and laugh. If its a couple then I cuddle up with my OH and the other couple do the same and we talk and laugh

Have to say i love that in a threesome too,all snuggled between two men,

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i am genuinly surprised how many ppl seem to think that touching after is limited to those in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it's just me, but I can happily enjoy watching Tiger fucking women but to be honest I do get a twinge of jealousy sometimes if he cuddles with them too long.

I guess I'd rather cuddle with him than the swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am genuinly surprised how many ppl seem to think that touching after is limited to those in a relationship

Me too, I like to cuddle and stroke a girl afterwards, its relaxing -.-

I even offered a woman a nice relaxing massage after sex once, and she refused!

Not all of us are tactile mammals I guess.

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