FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest 'sex' problem...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...the 'sex' we find that have most meet problems are males.

1) Normally cancel on the day or the day before.

2) Can't seem to answer simple questions.

3) Come up with with answers or statements irrelevant to the chat.

4) State they're in a certain location but it's nowhere near the distance they're currently at per the site.

We find that the those that struggle, are male. What's the matter guys??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been let down by men twice due to thier work, but also had to cancel a meet myself when my daughter was ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that the those that struggle, are male. What's the matter guys??"

Well since you asked..I find 99% of couples to be a complete pain in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the 'sex' we find that have most meet problems are males.

1) Normally cancel on the day or the day before.

2) Can't seem to answer simple questions.

3) Come up with with answers or statements irrelevant to the chat.

4) State they're in a certain location but it's nowhere near the distance they're currently at per the site.

We find that the those that struggle, are male. What's the matter guys??"

have you chatted to these 'guys' previously, just to make sure they are real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been invited by any couples so I'll not comment but some of the so called single females have not showed ,then text or phone the following night asking to rearrange...it's not just the guys although the sheer volume of men will take a while for single/couples to siphon through to the genuine ...just my take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met quite a few (lot) of men from here, and all showed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have all been able to hold a conversation and answer any questions competently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples are let downs but o well.there loss I wouldn't arrange to meet a couple again without camming with them both

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've never had a problem with timewasters so far. Or men. And I have met the odd one here or there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they are in a different location to that on their profiles because they don't have their location on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles guys are generally not the problem.

Couples basically want us to be perfect and jump through an infinite number of hoops.

The latter is where you're going to run into problems with most single males, unless they are desperate to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that couples are the hardest ones to make progress with. But when you do find the right couple, it's more than worth it.

I've never had any problems with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the 'sex' we find that have most meet problems are males.

1) Normally cancel on the day or the day before.

2) Can't seem to answer simple questions.

3) Come up with with answers or statements irrelevant to the chat.

4) State they're in a certain location but it's nowhere near the distance they're currently at per the site.

We find that the those that struggle, are male. What's the matter guys??"

1) If it's a common problem you have, maybe look at the common denominator.

2 & 3) Maybe it's an attempt to chat and to not just converse on your terms?

4) Maybe they just haven't changed their postcodes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that couples are the hardest ones to make progress with. But when you do find the right couple, it's more than worth it.

^ so much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes they are in a different location to that on their profiles because they don't have their location on. "

Mines off but I.always say im in Birmingham south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it makes me laugh that it's always the single guys that get it in the neck for no shows and timewasting...

I've never had a man do a no show off here but I have been given the runaround by a few couples...which is why I won't even chat with couples now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...the 'sex' we find that have most meet problems are males.

1) Normally cancel on the day or the day before.

2) Can't seem to answer simple questions.

3) Come up with with answers or statements irrelevant to the chat.

4) State they're in a certain location but it's nowhere near the distance they're currently at per the site.

We find that the those that struggle, are male. What's the matter guys??

1) If it's a common problem you have, maybe look at the common denominator.

2 & 3) Maybe it's an attempt to chat and to not just converse on your terms?

4) Maybe they just haven't changed their postcodes?"

1) Many excuses.

2 & 3) Communnication works both ways, both parties ask questions, both parties 'normally' answer them, we find blokes struggle. On both terms.

4) You're chatting away, talking about meeting etc.. and then they're suddenly umpteen miles away. Bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the 'sex' we find that have most meet problems are males.

1) Normally cancel on the day or the day before.

2) Can't seem to answer simple questions.

3) Come up with with answers or statements irrelevant to the chat.

4) State they're in a certain location but it's nowhere near the distance they're currently at per the site.

We find that the those that struggle, are male. What's the matter guys??

1) If it's a common problem you have, maybe look at the common denominator.

2 & 3) Maybe it's an attempt to chat and to not just converse on your terms?

4) Maybe they just haven't changed their postcodes?

1) Many excuses.

2 & 3) Communnication works both ways, both parties ask questions, both parties 'normally' answer them, we find blokes struggle. On both terms.

4) You're chatting away, talking about meeting etc.. and then they're suddenly umpteen miles away. Bizarre."

So move on to the next profile or be more picky.

I find couples more of a struggle than single men personally, but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single guys and never had too much of a problem (other than what you'd expect )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So move on to the next profile or be more picky.

I find couples more of a struggle than single men personally, but that's just me."

Could you explain on how to be more picky?

If for example, the Mrs wants to meet a guy that night and guys say they can accommodate and their status update states they want to meet that night, just wondered what we should do to be picky?

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