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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want an unattractive filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being so tight if it bothers you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the real world. You can't be attracted to everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe age filter and stick to younger men, who are less likely to be not what you're looking for. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe all the good looking muscular gay men are out shagging all the other good looking muscular gay men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yh might just pay but am quite stingy haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha they should invent that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple, block everyone from messaging you and search for the 'beautiful' people yourself.

Job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, but there's no "fugly" filter, and no "stupid" one either, for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

So you're hoping for a filter that understands your type?

This is as daft as your last thread I read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but there's no "fugly" filter, and no "stupid" one either, for that matter."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

filter out men from messaging you and use the search function, put all the work in yourself. once you find someone you like the look of and message or wink them, thus allowing them to message you back. more work for you but it will save any unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

Replace the word "men" with "women" in this thread and the op gets roasted...but as per fab...its ok to call men fat and ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple, block everyone from messaging you and search for the 'beautiful' people yourself.

Job done"

just seen this....but this o.p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alright clearly think your funny when u Anit and sorry I'm not desperate and won't meet below a standard like some people hence y I asked if it was possible without manually blocking individuals xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alright clearly think your funny when u Anit and sorry I'm not desperate and won't meet below a standard like some people hence y I asked if it was possible without manually blocking individuals xxxx"

and you've been given the answer if you care to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alright clearly think your funny when u Anit and sorry I'm not desperate and won't meet below a standard like some people hence y I asked if it was possible without manually blocking individuals xxxx"

How is what I said, trying to be funny. It's a simple strategy that works for those seeking something specific. Look for it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it is a fast food culture lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did read clearly else I wouldn't of replied that comment was aimed at people who were being sarcastic when but clearly some people think they own the forums sorry xxxx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type

Replace the word "men" with "women" in this thread and the op gets roasted...but as per fab...its ok to call men fat and ugly"

^^^ This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you think with that attitude that these hot young men are going to want to meet you.

Perhaps getting to know people on the forums might get you more meets, but don't act like your the best thing since sliced bread. And certainly insulting a lot of men on here isn't going to win you any friends.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I did read clearly else I wouldn't of replied that comment was aimed at people who were being sarcastic when but clearly some people think they own the forums sorry xxxx "

Try using the 'quote and reply' when your answering someone

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

Block everyone, take your balls in your hand & you do the messaging

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type

Replace the word "men" with "women" in this thread and the op gets roasted...but as per fab...its ok to call men fat and ugly"

no

no it isn't

it's rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not insulting anyone I simply said they Anit my type and everyone has a type it's people like u who annoy me u obviously can't read or sleep with anything xxxx one or the other not that I care anyway

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

man up your starting to sound like the girls in these parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You want an unattractive filter?"

Sounds convenient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

It could be the people you find attractive do not think you are attractive, and therefore don't contact you?

Or it could be that they are sitting back waiting to be contacted.

In either case, you won't get to meet them unless you do some work. They may actually like you after a chat whatever their initial reason for not contacting you.

I guess this applies to everyone on here, whatever they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the real world. You can't be attracted to everyone! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not insulting anyone I simply said they Anit my type and everyone has a type it's people like u who annoy me u obviously can't read or sleep with anything xxxx one or the other not that I care anyway "

Reply and quote button dude, we're not mind readers to know whose comment you're responding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not insulting anyone I simply said they Anit my type and everyone has a type it's people like u who annoy me u obviously can't read or sleep with anything xxxx one or the other not that I care anyway "

Pay the measly £5 and use what filters there are available and search for men yourself.

Simple.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin


"Not insulting anyone I simply said they Anit my type and everyone has a type it's people like u who annoy me u obviously can't read or sleep with anything xxxx one or the other not that I care anyway "

Ain't or aren't. Anit isnt a word, is there a way to filter out people who can't spell?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Maybe the 'attractive' men don't message because they're put off by green arrow history, petulant statuses, text speak, spelling mistakes, lack of punctuation and grammatical errors ?

Just saying ....

In the meantime, you do realise don't you, that regrettably, even site supporters don't benefit from a magic filter which ensures only the hottest fitties automatically drop in your lap ... what with 'attractiveness' being a completely subjective concept and all.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Try speaking the magic words.

'Not for me thanks x'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not insulting anyone I simply said they Anit my type and everyone has a type it's people like u who annoy me u obviously can't read or sleep with anything xxxx one or the other not that I care anyway "

Oh dear, I can read very well thank you. As for sleeping with anything well I also have my preferences. Only I don't insult those who I don't like. I've been insulted by better than you. Man up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Replace the word "men" with "women" in this thread and the op gets roasted...but as per fab...its ok to call men fat and ugly"

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Try speaking the magic words.

'Not for me thanks x'"

Nah that would be too easy.

Maybe there could be a nationwide ban on people with beer bellies using computers. I'm gonna start one of those petition things.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Try speaking the magic words.

'Not for me thanks x'

Nah that would be too easy.

Maybe there could be a nationwide ban on people with beer bellies using computers. I'm gonna start one of those petition things. "

But I would lose my job!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Maybe the 'attractive' men don't message because they're put off by green arrow history, petulant statuses, text speak, spelling mistakes, lack of punctuation and grammatical errors ?

Just saying ....

In the meantime, you do realise don't you, that regrettably, even site supporters don't benefit from a magic filter which ensures only the hottest fitties automatically drop in your lap ... what with 'attractiveness' being a completely subjective concept and all."

Unless you pay for Platinum membership in which case they are delivered by helicopter to your house

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about stating what you think is attractive on you're profile ? I.e muscles and the kind of look you are atracted too?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Try speaking the magic words.

'Not for me thanks x'

Nah that would be too easy.

Maybe there could be a nationwide ban on people with beer bellies using computers. I'm gonna start one of those petition things. "

I'm safe,......I don't use a computer

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/02/17 16:47:02]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you were given advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feels like I am at school on the forum with a bunch of grown adults crying for likes and views very sad I asked a simply question not 4 your opinion on my preference xxx

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Maybe the 'attractive' men don't message because they're put off by green arrow history, petulant statuses, text speak, spelling mistakes, lack of punctuation and grammatical errors ?

Just saying ....

In the meantime, you do realise don't you, that regrettably, even site supporters don't benefit from a magic filter which ensures only the hottest fitties automatically drop in your lap ... what with 'attractiveness' being a completely subjective concept and all.

Unless you pay for Platinum membership in which case they are delivered by helicopter to your house

S"

Really ?? .... that does sound terribly convenient, I'll have to look into that. Thanks for the heads up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about stating what you think is attractive on you're profile ? I.e muscles and the kind of look you are atracted too? "

Sounds far too radical to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feels like I am at school on the forum with a bunch of grown adults crying for likes and views very sad I asked a simply question not 4 your opinion on my preference xxx "

I gave you advice.

Simply pay up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's aimed at the sarcastic people not everyone xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's aimed at the sarcastic people not everyone xxxx"

you're saying I'm not sarcastic?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Feels like I am at school on the forum with a bunch of grown adults crying for likes and views very sad I asked a simply question not 4 your opinion on my preference xxx "

Who, exactly, has been crying for likes and views ?

You own your preferences of course and people have explained how best to achieve those. I don't see what the problem is ....

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Feels like I am at school on the forum with a bunch of grown adults crying for likes and views very sad I asked a simply question not 4 your opinion on my preference xxx "

Ah but that's the "magic" of the forums, you don't necessarily get what you ask for.

It's pretty much up to everyone what they post, not you unfortunately. Don't let it put you off though, just try and deal with it a little more graciously...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy"

The above quote was aimed at u aswell for your sarcastic comments hope u got the views u were after

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Why don't you just try fabguys..

Lots more men for you to insult.

Oh I don't know if it has a forum though so you could air your disappointments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not insulting anyone I simply said they Anit my type and everyone has a type it's people like u who annoy me u obviously can't read or sleep with anything xxxx one or the other not that I care anyway

Oh dear, I can read very well thank you. As for sleeping with anything well I also have my preferences. Only I don't insult those who I don't like. I've been insulted by better than you. Man up "
you shouldn't need to justify yourself x

Op did you really think that there was going to be a filter for this...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy

The above quote was aimed at u aswell for your sarcastic comments hope u got the views u were after "

Rest assured, we'll be getting more than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You want an unattractive filter?"

Haha.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Try speaking the magic words.

'Not for me thanks x'

Nah that would be too easy.

Maybe there could be a nationwide ban on people with beer bellies using computers. I'm gonna start one of those petition things.

But I would lose my job!"

Me too!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Feels like I am at school on the forum with a bunch of grown adults crying for likes and views very sad I asked a simply question not 4 your opinion on my preference xxx "

I'd ignore all the advice anyway mate, everyone knows most blokes don't read profiles anyway so its pointless putting you only want muscles..most of them appear not to look at whether your straight/Bi or gay, what chance have you got of them spotting something else, I mean c'mon people get real here!

S

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Feels like I am at school on the forum with a bunch of grown adults crying for likes and views very sad I asked a simply question not 4 your opinion on my preference xxx "

that the spirit fight back now go message the men you like its the same message I've said to the girls posting a moan exactly the same as yours in the past .

take control and reap the rewards trust me your be thanking me in a month or so .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

there is nowt wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"filter out men from messaging you and use the search function, put all the work in yourself. once you find someone you like the look of and message or wink them, thus allowing them to message you back. more work for you but it will save any unwanted messages "

Nah. That will open another thread, 40 messages sent and only one reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy

The above quote was aimed at u aswell for your sarcastic comments hope u got the views u were after

Rest assured, we'll be getting more than you. "
haha that's obvious when u really aren't fussy no offence but looked at verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. "

Your*

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I had shit day in work but this thread has cheered me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered.

Your* "

I bow to your superiority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy

The above quote was aimed at u aswell for your sarcastic comments hope u got the views u were after

Rest assured, we'll be getting more than you. haha that's obvious when u really aren't fussy no offence but looked at verifications"

Now you show a lack of ability to read as well.

Keep digging luv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered.

Your*

I bow to your superiority "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway OP

regarding the thread title..

welcome to my world

and not really bad odds for so many men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy

The above quote was aimed at u aswell for your sarcastic comments hope u got the views u were after

Rest assured, we'll be getting more than you. haha that's obvious when u really aren't fussy no offence but looked at verifications"

Oh the folly of youth. My friend, insulting innocent decent people they've met is very uncouth and very unbecoming of you.

I wish you luck in your search and I'm quite sure this thread has taken a regretful turn for the worse in a way you hadn't intended but firing insults at all and sundry isn't going to entice the hotties into your bed.

Good luck in your search, you've had some sound advice in this thread, I hope in the cold light of day you take some of it in as it might help you to find what you're after from the site!

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you're question has been answered. You just don't like the answers so have started chucking the teddies out and spitting your dummy

The above quote was aimed at u aswell for your sarcastic comments hope u got the views u were after

Rest assured, we'll be getting more than you. haha that's obvious when u really aren't fussy no offence but looked at verifications

Oh the folly of youth. My friend, insulting innocent decent people they've met is very uncouth and very unbecoming of you.

I wish you luck in your search and I'm quite sure this thread has taken a regretful turn for the worse in a way you hadn't intended but firing insults at all and sundry isn't going to entice the hotties into your bed.

Good luck in your search, you've had some sound advice in this thread, I hope in the cold light of day you take some of it in as it might help you to find what you're after from the site!

Happy Fabbing "

Good to have you back Dan.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Y is it so hard to find good looking muscular men on here most men seem to have a beer belly or r overweight massively which is a massive turn off for me is Thier anyway off stoping these people from messaging me with out being a site supporter as now I'm having to individual block men who aren't my type"

Yes. Use your filter to block men and only mail the people you think are attractive.

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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