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lets have a mass debate...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you see Fab as a swinging site or a sex site?

and is there a difference between one or the other?

please feel free to put your point across

(and don't forget, it's nice to be nice )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a mass debate. I think it depends in what situation you are in. I think couples will see it as a swinging site and other singles may see it as a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, I always thought swinging was about having sex with people other than your partner but with their consent.

Can you swing and not have sex involved at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's supposed to be a swingers site but not sure it is anymore.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's a sex site for me, I don't swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab as a sex site now I see it and use it as a swinging site.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is as swinging does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same same but different

I don't really "swing" but have done in the past. Now I just want straight forward hookups with attractive kinky girls. It's not really the best place for that anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swingers site for the swingers ,a sex site for the Ines getting lucky and it's a chat site ...I like it here chat rooms are a good laugh mostly some stunning people that are not up themselves

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

We use it as s swinging site.

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By *unkymancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This isn't about masturbation

((Sheepishly walks out... (with a boner)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first used it to sell my car then I discover that I could get laid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/02/17 14:37:09]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it can cater for all - true 'swingers' can find likeminded people as can those just seeking casual sex. The fact that all tastes are catered for means that the SITE has by definition become a casual sex site rather than just a pure swinging site.

But how people choose to use it is up to them.

For me personally it's a form of social media (forums and PMs), a way to meet for socials and a way to sometimes meet for casual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging means to be promiscuous or sexually liberated,so for us its swinging,we can call it what you want really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what it is hopefully somone can clear it up. But I know onobody i speak to on here actually wants to meet for sex there's that evidence for me. (I'm not complaining, these forums are fun)

And I thought swinging was to do with couples anyway, and I see more singles here than any other profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/02/17 14:42:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use it as a forum site, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know, I always thought swinging was about having sex with people other than your partner but with their consent.

Can you swing and not have sex involved at all?"

I suppose you could be a social swinger...

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Lmao...does it really matter....

Lets get it on....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just use it as a forum site, it is comedy gold "

we always love your contributions shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn't about masturbation

((Sheepishly walks out... (with a boner)"

you saw what I did there...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's supposed to be a swingers site but not sure it is anymore."

^^^ This! I've been here for over 7 years, but something has definitely changed in the last 2 in my area and it is not for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use it as a forum site, it is comedy gold

we always love your contributions shag "
Ty, it is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, this site is mainly used to remind myself that I'm so baby faced it hurts haha.

The life of a youngster eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets have a mass debate...pardon the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two overlap.

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

When I 1st join I saw it as a sex site really,somewhere to meet like minded ppl to have NSA sex when it suited me and to explore myself more sexually trying new stuff and not get judge for it, now I got my partner I see it more as a Swinging site to meet other couples wiv him and have fun both together.

At present I have no interest in meeting solo, Jst wiv him and seeing what fun we can have together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, this site is mainly used to remind myself that I'm so baby faced it hurts haha.

The life of a youngster eh? "

12?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging sex for us!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lets have a mass debate...pardon the pun "

I said that already...get your own pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lets have a mass debate...pardon the pun

I said that already...get your own pun "

Ooooop.....wrists suitably slapped OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, this site is mainly used to remind myself that I'm so baby faced it hurts haha.

The life of a youngster eh?

12? "

Ahem! 23 haha

I just keep the facial fluff at bay with a passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's a swinging site, but I can see for singles it's also a sex site. I don't think the two are mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined it as a swinging site but as a single girl im finding it hard to find friends rather than guys who want to fuck me.

I do appreciate I need to go to some socials and meet people though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined it as a swinging site but as a single girl im finding it hard to find friends rather than guys who want to fuck me.

I do appreciate I need to go to some socials and meet people though."

We're terrible aren't we? Faf?

As I single guy, I'm finding friends are hard to come by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what the definition of 'sex site' is. Swinging is sex.

'Sex site' often seems to imply people will fuck anyone that asks.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

It's definitely about sex. I've got that much.

I guess it's also swinging when I meet a couple.

But is it when I meet another single person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

do you see Fab as a swinging site or a sex site?

"

I'm not sure how I see it to be honest.

I'm looking for something specific and can't find it at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things for lots of people....

Swinging site for the swingers,

Sex site for others,

Chat site for some,

Wank site for the pic collectors...yada yada yada....

It is whatever you use it for.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

For me it's a sex site I guess. I'm not looking for a relationship, swinging or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I first used it to sell my car then I discover that I could get laid..."

Are you sure it wasn't your bike?

Don't ever sell that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of things for lots of people....

Swinging site for the swingers,

Sex site for others,

Chat site for some,

Wank site for the pic collectors...yada yada yada....

It is whatever you use it for."

This

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

sex site for me as well, except i don't fuck most guys i meet and only soft play with them.

i'm not a swinger. and i also wouldn't look for a relationship on here, i want something more mentally stimulating than a most guys offer me.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Sex site. If it was purely for couples I'd consider it a swinging site but with all the singleton's and group meets, I'm going with the sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it has the potential to be what you make it, for some it's one or the other, for others it's both and for certain users it's more and everything else in between.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"It's a sex site for me, I don't swing. "

^ Ditto, despite ma username

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Its whatever you want it to be.

At times its been a sex site,others somewhere to meet people on a social level,and now it tends to be just something to do to pass the time.

There's no right or wrong and thats why it just works for so many and keeps us here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We shall think on the question posed later after we've mass debated with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're a broad church here. People will use the site as they see fit. If we start applying definitions then we start limiting people.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Well, I can't see swinging without sex...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

A site to meet a for sex and friendship....but they have to float my boat in all different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of things for lots of people....

Swinging site for the swingers,

Sex site for others,

Chat site for some,

Wank site for the pic collectors...yada yada yada....

It is whatever you use it for.

This "

Nice banana pic

Now if only you were wearing your specs in it,I'd collect that pic to vigorously mass debate over repeatedly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its whatever you want it to be.

At times its been a sex site,others somewhere to meet people on a social level,and now it tends to be just something to do to pass the time.

There's no right or wrong and thats why it just works for so many and keeps us here"

Damn it this thread is interesting and I love a good debate!

However...

I got distracted by the *super* profile pic. Now I can't remember exactly what I wanted to say ffs

Don't you hate it when you can't post a thread with what you really want to say

I will try again next time because I have shared my own views on this topic a few times in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

do you see Fab as a swinging site or a sex site?

and is there a difference between one or the other?

please feel free to put your point across

(and don't forget, it's nice to be nice )"

Almost forgot about this!

I missed the debate as always and nobody will read this now, but let it remain in the archives collecting dust ffs.

I could express my opinions in several different ways for this, but I will keep it brief'ish...

I don't fall under any known categories or labels. I am independent and have my own rules. Only been on here for just over 2 years with no prior website experience of this nature.

So here it goes...

Fab was created by swingers for swingers. Swingers meaning couples sharing their partners for mutual pleasure.

Over the years Fab evolved just like everything does. There are more singles on here then couples. People tend to socialise more now rather then going straight into sexual activities.

Some people use Fab just for forum banter, chat or having a debate in the politics section. There are many other tools available on here that have nothing to do with sex/swinging.

In other words:

This platform or network if you like can be used to be moulded to suit our individual needs, desires and fantasies. I know for a fact dreams become reality on Fab. If you allow this to become something more then the basics that people dwell on, it will give you endless opportunities...

I joined to meet people with real substance who are compatible with me and as a bonus we can push boundaries. Share some happy memories along the way.

The power of Fab:

Before I joined Fab I was all about physical. Having what I thought was amazing sex as I am soo horny it is crazy!!

Since being on here I have been lucky enough to meet some of the best people in my life who shared different things/ideas and we just clicked. In return I tickled them and finished all their food, but that is a different topic

In other words:

Physical - you can have the most amazing rollercoaster ride for that moment...

Mental connection - you can own the theme park and go on multiple rides for unlimited time!!

Get it ??

Nah didn't think you would...

As my friend once said:

'Those that know, know and those that don't will never know'

Last point I promise:

I know people who have met their partners on here and share the most amazing time together because they have no secrets. Single people like me can make long lasting friends that you can do anything with

Right,

Having said all of that malarky...

People do just use this for sex. Nothing more and nothing less will do. That is also fucktastic.

If you are getting what you joined for then you are a winner!!

Keep on Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of things for lots of people....

Swinging site for the swingers,

Sex site for others,

Chat site for some,

Wank site for the pic collectors...yada yada yada....

It is whatever you use it for."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of that lot above^^ ..this bit is spot on.


"

I joined to meet people with real substance who are compatible with me and as a bonus we can push boundaries. Share some happy memories along the way.

"

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