FabSwingers.com forum: Double standards ??

By *layboi69 OP Man
over a year ago

alfreton

If there is a advert stating that they are on here with permission from the partner but wont meet some one else with permission do you think its a bit hypocritical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

more than a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I just think that, that's how they've chosen to go about their fabbing and they're easily bypassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

It's their choice who they meet and they don't have to justify why they'll meet someone or why they won't meet someone.

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By *layboi69 OP Man
over a year ago

alfreton

"Yes"

Glad im not the only one lol

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm attached but play solo with full knowledge of my partner blah blah blah, so yes, I suppose I find it a little odd on the face of it if I see profiles like the one you describe.

However - it's quite possible they've been stung in the past by people claiming to be something they weren't and want to try and protect themselves from potentially getting caught up in someone else's drama (as much as you ever can if you simply take someone at their word). Whatever - I don't dwell on it. No-one is obliged to meet anyone else on here regardless of their situation or preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No I don't think it's hypocritical, personally. They obviously have their own reasons

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By *layboi69 OP Man
over a year ago

alfreton

"I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?"
no it makes you straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is full of double standards

if it's thier preference so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?no it makes you straight

Exactly. Who I am is unrelated to who I'd like to be with. This comparison, with a bit of critical thinking, should answer your original question regarding whether such behaviour is hypocritical. This is, I would argue, a blanket rule. One that you seem very comfortable accepting applies to sexuality and, I'm assuming, many other aspects of life. I wonder why you're having trouble with the example you cited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is lol

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"If there is a advert stating that they are on here with permission from the partner but wont meet some one else with permission do you think its a bit hypocritical?

It's up to them what they have decided between them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If there is a advert stating that they are on here with permission from the partner but wont meet some one else with permission do you think its a bit hypocritical?

No I don't. They probably fell foul of someone playing with permission who actually wasn't. We won't meet people playing alone but with partners permission either because you never know another couple's dynamic and if permission is freely and happily given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't.

It's their choice who they meet and they don't have to justify why they'll meet someone or why they won't meet someone."

This

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Yes it is indeed hypocritical but the good thing about it is that said person can be avoided quite easily.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?"

Nope but id does seem to make you quite silly for even suggesting that both are even remotely similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?

Nope but id does seem to make you quite silly for even suggesting that both are even remotely similar."

May I refer the honourable gentleman to the answer I gave some moments ago.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?

Nope but id does seem to make you quite silly for even suggesting that both are even remotely similar.

May I refer the honourable gentleman to the answer I gave some moments ago."

May I offer my unreserved apologies as I had not read all the forum replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I offer my unreserved apologies as I had not read all the forum replies."

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

May I offer my unreserved apologies as I had not read all the forum replies.

Although I will take umbrage with the honourable and gentleman part of the message as I am definitely neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I will take umbrage with the honourable and gentleman part of the message as I am definitely neither

I'm terribly sorry. I didn't mean to besmirch your hard-earned reputation.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Although I will take umbrage with the honourable and gentleman part of the message as I am definitely neither

I'm terribly sorry. I didn't mean to besmirch your hard-earned reputation."

Tis more than alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

A single person might suit their relationship dynamic better. Or they might not want the hassle that could arise from someone having a partner, as even with permission this can happen.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

It is a little bit I guess as what they are saying is

"We won't take a chance that playing with a solo with permission might lead to trouble"

while also saying

"But we expect a real singleton to take our word that we won't be".

So yes if you look at it that way they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a man, but I won't have sex with other men. Does that make me a hypocrite?no it makes you straight

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's only hypocritical if they think people on here with partners, who have permission, shouldn't be doing what they're doing.

if they don't specifically say that then they aren't being hypocrites and you don't know why they're saying that.

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By *layboi69 OP Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Ive been on recieving emd of oh its ok he knows and trust me he fucking didnt lol came home while i was on the job going ape shit smahed the gaf up and everything. The only reason i ask is why would you post saying my man/woman knows trust us but we wont take a chance and trust whomever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been on recieving emd of oh its ok he knows and trust me he fucking didnt lol came home while i was on the job going ape shit smahed the gaf up and everything. The only reason i ask is why would you post saying my man/woman knows trust us but we wont take a chance and trust whomever"

Because they trust their own situation. But as per your example- they can't trust other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their profile their choice

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Absolutely never heard anything quite so ridiculous lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, but this place is full of hypotcrits and double standards. But it's what makes it all so interesting.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"No I don't.

It's their choice who they meet and they don't have to justify why they'll meet someone or why they won't meet someone."

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I can see both Sides,maybe they have had a bad experience with someone who didn't actually have permission to play.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do what works for you

They do what works for them

Sometimes those two approaches will match

Sometimes they won't

If they don't, c'est la vie !

Really not worth being bothered by

Hypocritical or not

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have no clue. Just do what works for you

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By *layboi69 OP Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Its same as the profiles that say must have pic but have none themself

either pic hunters or fake profiles

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