FabSwingers.com forum: Frustrating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many profiles claim to be looking for black men or 'BBC' and when I message I can't even get a simple reply back and when I do message it's not a one liner and I do send facepics, not saying anybody MUST reply just frustrating when they don't especially when you've taken the time out to write a message

By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"So many profiles claim to be looking for black men or 'BBC' and when I message I can't even get a simple reply back and when I do message it's not a one liner and I do send facepics, not saying anybody MUST reply just frustrating when they don't especially when you've taken the time out to write a message"

Because a profile 'claim' to be looking for a BBC or black men, doesn't mean that they are interested and open to all BBCs or black men. There are also other factors like age, personality, location, profile and attractiveness. What's the point having a meet with someone if you don't get along, not suited or attracted to them?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be frustrated dude think positive and positive things will happen.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if this sounds brutal, but they probably decided that they're not attracted to you and by ignoring the message, they save themselves having to message back and explain that to you...sparing your feelings.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same things happen to me when I see a profile loooking for men. I guess it's not every man they're after despite me fitting the criteria.

I guess I'll have to try harder to stand out from the crowd

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same things happen to me when I see a profile loooking for men. I guess it's not every man they're after despite me fitting the criteria.

I guess I'll have to try harder to stand out from the crowd

your 'heart' stands out more than you tbf