FabSwingers.com forum: Age is a big thing

By *appy Gerry 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i have opened all my filters for this reason. am waiting for mr intelligent to impress me.

probably will close them soon, everyone only wants a fuck don't they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side."

It would be nice.

You can chat on here you know.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I have tried doing this and I very rarely find an older guy sexually attractive. It may be shallow but I have to have a physical attraction to someone probably that is more important to me than a mental attraction

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

I just wouldnt want to have sex with someone old enough to be my dad, as much as I wouldnt sleep with someone much younger, it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side."

You first!

It's okay for you to have an upper age limit but not others: gotcha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have age preferences set to 14 years older and younger than me. I have found in the past that, on the whole (although there will always be exceptions of course), I won't have too much in common with anyone younger / older - it's a generational thing - so the conversion / frames of reference / common experiences we have tend to be better the closer in age we are and hence the better the meet.

I haven't blocked anyone at all with message filters though and accept that there will always be exceptions to the rule!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have filters on as I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone very young .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I just wouldnt want to have sex with someone old enough to be my dad, as much as I wouldnt sleep with someone much younger, it is what it is"

That's how I set my parameters: no one old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

It is a shame that there is that cutoff whereby on your birthday you become less attractive to somebody than you were yesterday...

It's a very black and white approach which may push some to be less than honest about their age on their profile..

I know come September I will fall off of lots of people's radar when I become 46 as human nature dictates most people will use numbers ending 0 or 5.

I set my filters my preferred age range by 10 years, is it not better to find out that someone is not your type through chatting with the chance they may be suitable.

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By *appy Gerry 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

Yes they do

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Not that i want to fetishize people but I've read a few profiles only looking for much older partners. Everyone is compatible with someone.

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By *appy Gerry 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

You are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you have age preferences on your profile though !!

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By *appy Gerry 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

What I meant wad it is nice to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I meant wad it is nice to chat"

Forums and chat rooms are good for that, if you catch the eye of someone who is outside their age preference then they may just message you.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side."

They do OP, it's up to you to ensure that your shop window(profile)., makes them want to.

Effort in, results out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wouldnt want to have sex with someone old enough to be my dad, as much as I wouldnt sleep with someone much younger, it is what it is

That's how I set my parameters: no one old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son."

That's how I set mine too in the beginning ...

Then the gap kept getting narrower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare people have preferences that exclude people!!

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By *mmaNandyCouple
over a year ago

wolvo

I like the older person but once the age gets to same age as my parents I just can't look past this idea

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

, but happy to chat with imteresting genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy chatting to all ages, but couldn't have sex with anyone under a certain age. It would feel wrong as I'm not a youngster anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, use the forums / chat rooms to show tour personality. I've met people off here as a result, where as a message from them would have probably gone unnoticed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side."

Or you could just respect other people's preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem for me is was that my mum was a bit of a cradle snatcher and my dear old ( but very young ) Dad is only 53. I can't imagine seeing someone, in anyway shape or form, older than my Papa.

My filters are to 50 but to be honest that's pushing it. 46/47. But then so many are lying about there age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side.

Or you could just respect other people's preferences?"

I think he's just expressing an opinion, one that is shared by some others who are of a certain age.

The trouble with getting older is you don't necessarily feel any different than you did 10/15 years ago.

It's about getting your head around that you fall into a different age demographic to the majority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have more than enough within my age band filters - do go outside them though but on my choosing - both ways

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side."

It might be nice for those of us who fall into the older age group but swinging isn't about personality in the main. For many it's about fantasy fulfilment and that's necessarily fairly shallow.

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP look on the positive side, you are in just about the only age group where women outnumber men.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

That's how I set my parameters: no one old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son.

That's how I set mine too in the beginning ...

Then the gap kept getting narrower

My parameters are getting wider!

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

rhyl

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side.

You first!

It's okay for you to have an upper age limit but not others: gotcha!

The Op upper age limit is 99

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

I'm with the 'not as old as my parents, not as young as my kids' lot. It's about comfort levels and increasing the chances of having things in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really as I like to chat to people a similar age to me as we will more likely have stuff in common being brought up in the same era, talking to someone 30yrs older a lot would go over their heads and vice versa

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By *ocused4uMan
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAN

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By *ocused4uMan
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAN

Being a younger guy im guessing its expected but i have slept with a lady around 50 so not quite my dads age (60) but if someone came along at that age and looked after herself then i wouldn't exclude her! I have seen many women on here around 60 that look in great shape. So reguardless of the age if they can hold down a decent conversation and take care of themself then im happy to talk possibly more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol op I've had same problem in my area most of the upper age limits cut off at 46 but some start again at 60 so I'm in the void for the next 10 yrs

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

"Would it not be nice if some of you looked past a person's age and looked at an older person's profile and at least have a chat and see their personality and horny side.

You first!

It's okay for you to have an upper age limit but not others: gotcha!

The Op upper age limit is 99 "
it wasnt though

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of."

My dreams have just been shattered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried doing this and I very rarely find an older guy sexually attractive. It may be shallow but I have to have a physical attraction to someone probably that is more important to me than a mental attraction "

That's why I'm usually quite strict with my age limits, it would take a hell of a mind to overcome the age thing for me. I'm sure it could happen though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

My dreams have just been shattered!"

Oh hello Mr T.

There are always exceptions to any rule of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed people can make an issue out of someones age limits. Mine are open because I judge my attraction on the person and not the age, saying your attracted to a 30 year old but not a 31 year old is crazy in my eyes. But each to their own, suppose some people just like to draw a line in the sand

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

My dreams have just been shattered!

Oh hello Mr T.

There are always exceptions to any rule of course

Aw! Think you're safe saying that because you're nearly 300 miles away?

I'm on my way!

You can get anywhere on a bus pass!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I have no age preferences really (despite my filters) it's all about attraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

My dreams have just been shattered!

Oh hello Mr T.

There are always exceptions to any rule of course

Aw! Think you're safe saying that because you're nearly 300 miles away?

I'm on my way!

You can get anywhere on a bus pass!

Except through my front door

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It is a shame that there is that cutoff whereby on your birthday you become less attractive to somebody than you were yesterday...

It's a very black and white approach which may push some to be less than honest about their age on their profile..

I know come September I will fall off of lots of people's radar when I become 46 as human nature dictates most people will use numbers ending 0 or 5.

I set my filters my preferred age range by 10 years, is it not better to find out that someone is not your type through chatting with the chance they may be suitable."

Agree with you here mate; when I turned 46 my inbox went deathly quiet, so enjoy the time you have left.....

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

My dreams have just been shattered!

Oh hello Mr T.

There are always exceptions to any rule of course

Aw! Think you're safe saying that because you're nearly 300 miles away?

I'm on my way!

You can get anywhere on a bus pass!

Except through my front door

Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be very dismissive of older guys until Saturday night when I was challenged by two guys in their late 60's to push the boundaries and see that they had as much stamina as any other guy.

My God I was not disappointed. My first orgasm was in the taxi on the way to their home. I got back to my house at 6 am the following morning fully satisfied and wondering what I've missed for years now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people say "age is but a number"

I say no it isn't , age is actually a word.... it's a word!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I used to be very dismissive of older guys until Saturday night when I was challenged by two guys in their late 60's to push the boundaries and see that they had as much stamina as any other guy.

Your cheque is on it's way.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's easy to blame age when in fact in terms of nsa it's only attraction that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will, some won't. It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be very dismissive of older guys until Saturday night when I was challenged by two guys in their late 60's to push the boundaries and see that they had as much stamina as any other guy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

My dreams have just been shattered!

Oh hello Mr T.

There are always exceptions to any rule of course

Aw! Think you're safe saying that because you're nearly 300 miles away?

I'm on my way!

You can get anywhere on a bus pass!

Except through my front door

Touche

From what I read you have no need to travel 300 miles.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

We like to get along on a personal level with the people we meet but have both upper and lower age limits which we don't meet outside of.

My dreams have just been shattered!

Oh hello Mr T.

There are always exceptions to any rule of course

Aw! Think you're safe saying that because you're nearly 300 miles away?

I'm on my way!

You can get anywhere on a bus pass!

Except through my front door

Touche

From what I read you have no need to travel 300 miles."

Too late, I've set off. xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go to clubs wearing 'Happy birthday I'm xx', saving badges from your younger years. People will talk.

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