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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How comes women ask for face pics but then they don't have any themselfs

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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because it's opposite day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because it's opposite day. "

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we can.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

It's not just women, we've experienced this with couples too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we can."

End of thread pretty much right there.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Women pretty much hold all the cards on here. There are so many guys (not all) on here desperate for a shag it means women can make all the demands they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They demand...we respond....well usually anyway lol

#fugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though, for me it's for safety reasons!

As a single woman that's here to meet guys alone for security within their house etc, I need to feel safe. In doing so I politely ask for a face pic before meeting in person, which I can keep. If I do end up meeting him I use his pic as a safety net. My best friend has a copy and his address. If she doesn't hear back from me the morning or whenever, she knows where to send the police! Maybe an over reaction to some. However, I've been threatened by a guy with him saying he's going to stalk me, rape me and throw acid in my face. All because I turned him down and he wouldn't stop messaging and accept I wasn't interested.

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How comes women ask for face pics but then they don't have any themselfs "

Whoever sends the first message should send a pic. I refuse to until this point. If you don't want to send one that's completely fine.. but the conversation ends there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because we can."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously though, for me it's for safety reasons!

As a single woman that's here to meet guys alone for security within their house etc, I need to feel safe. In doing so I politely ask for a face pic before meeting in person, which I can keep. If I do end up meeting him I use his pic as a safety net. My best friend has a copy and his address. If she doesn't hear back from me the morning or whenever, she knows where to send the police! Maybe an over reaction to some. However, I've been threatened by a guy with him saying he's going to stalk me, rape me and throw acid in my face. All because I turned him down and he wouldn't stop messaging and accept I wasn't interested.

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women pretty much hold all the cards on here. There are so many guys (not all) on here desperate for a shag it means women can make all the demands they like. "

Pretty much this

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Seriously though, for me it's for safety reasons!

As a single woman that's here to meet guys alone for security within their house etc, I need to feel safe. In doing so I politely ask for a face pic before meeting in person, which I can keep. If I do end up meeting him I use his pic as a safety net. My best friend has a copy and his address. If she doesn't hear back from me the morning or whenever, she knows where to send the police! Maybe an over reaction to some. However, I've been threatened by a guy with him saying he's going to stalk me, rape me and throw acid in my face. All because I turned him down and he wouldn't stop messaging and accept I wasn't interested.

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site."

Tbh this is quite a raw truth I for one think your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Womans prerogative.

Eve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the big deal- I don't have the time to waste so will ask and enclose mine, never not got one back.

If they refuse and it doesn't suit you- use it as a filter. You probably weren't that compatible anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I anyone can ask for anything they want, and run their profile how they see fit, if you don't like it don't message them, it's simple really

We ask for face pictures in a first message because we don't want to spend an hour chatting and then them not be for us, if that's not to people's liking then move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, for me it's for safety reasons!

As a single woman that's here to meet guys alone for security within their house etc, I need to feel safe. In doing so I politely ask for a face pic before meeting in person, which I can keep. If I do end up meeting him I use his pic as a safety net. My best friend has a copy and his address. If she doesn't hear back from me the morning or whenever, she knows where to send the police! Maybe an over reaction to some. However, I've been threatened by a guy with him saying he's going to stalk me, rape me and throw acid in my face. All because I turned him down and he wouldn't stop messaging and accept I wasn't interested.

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask to see if there is a physical attraction for me. If I am attracted to the person then I will send one in return.

Due to my circumstances, I need to see other people's face pictures first, to rule out whether I may know them in my private life.

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"I ask to see if there is a physical attraction for me. If I am attracted to the person then I will send one in return.

Due to my circumstances, I need to see other people's face pictures first, to rule out whether I may know them in my private life."

If they send and you know, they won't know you them will they? You hold the aces...

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"How comes women ask for face pics but then they don't have any themselfs "

It has cost me a few meets. I can't differentiate between picture collectors and those interested in meeting. All in all, I would rather keep my job... Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't a solely female thing. I get messages constantly from chaps asking to see my face, usually as the opening gambit and I'm quite clearly not what they're looking for. I suppose people are always going to follow the path they wish to forge. Doesn't phase me one jot, it's up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ask to see if there is a physical attraction for me. If I am attracted to the person then I will send one in return.

Due to my circumstances, I need to see other people's face pictures first, to rule out whether I may know them in my private life.

If they send and you know, they won't know you them will they? You hold the aces... "

Exactly. It's called self preservation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How comes women ask for face pics but then they don't have any themselfs "

Some do. Some dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How comes women ask for face pics but then they don't have any themselfs "

Because they can as can the guys.

But if you find that unfair then just avoid those types of profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, for me it's for safety reasons!

As a single woman that's here to meet guys alone for security within their house etc, I need to feel safe. In doing so I politely ask for a face pic before meeting in person, which I can keep. If I do end up meeting him I use his pic as a safety net. My best friend has a copy and his address. If she doesn't hear back from me the morning or whenever, she knows where to send the police! Maybe an over reaction to some. However, I've been threatened by a guy with him saying he's going to stalk me, rape me and throw acid in my face. All because I turned him down and he wouldn't stop messaging and accept I wasn't interested.

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site."

Nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site."

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives."

I totally get what you mean.....but sometimes it only takes one negative post to let the dogs out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives.

I totally get what you mean.....but sometimes it only takes one negative post to let the dogs out "

They are only capable of barking though, not biting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives.

I totally get what you mean.....but sometimes it only takes one negative post to let the dogs out

They are only capable of barking though, not biting "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives.

I totally get what you mean.....but sometimes it only takes one negative post to let the dogs out

They are only capable of barking though, not biting "

Ooh do you like biting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How comes women ask for face pics but then they don't have any themselfs "

Does it matter? If you don't send one, they won't reply, if they're not interested, they won't reply. Just send one! Got nothing to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives.

I totally get what you mean.....but sometimes it only takes one negative post to let the dogs out

They are only capable of barking though, not biting

Ooh do you like biting? "

Maybe the occasional nibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As a single female, I have no male partner to hide behind so I take all precautions for my safety. Keeping my face pic hidden until I see him, is my way of doing that. Plus, if there's no attraction then they'll be no meet, so what's the point in me sending him my face pic? Just pointless and saves a potential aggressive guy from knowing my identity. Not every guy on this site is lovely and kind. Thankfully a lot are and they are the ones why I'm still on this site.

I said exactly this yesterday, yet I got totally slated for it.

Strange isn't it that in the forums, it depends on who the person is that says it, as to what reaction a comment receives.

I totally get what you mean.....but sometimes it only takes one negative post to let the dogs out

They are only capable of barking though, not biting

Ooh do you like biting?

Maybe the occasional nibble "

I love the nape of my neck nibbled, such a turn on.

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"I ask to see if there is a physical attraction for me. If I am attracted to the person then I will send one in return.

Due to my circumstances, I need to see other people's face pictures first, to rule out whether I may know them in my private life.

If they send and you know, they won't know you them will they? You hold the aces...

Exactly. It's called self preservation."

Self preservation...yours not theirs I suppose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is on here anyway

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