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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Has anyone ever had to cancel a meet through genuine illness or injury, either before or during? And did you feel bad for having to cancel knowing it sounds like a bit of a cop out? Or have you had someone cancel on you through some sudden illness, and did you believe their story or not?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes we have we were both Ill, I had a chest infection and breathing was hard enough let alone fucking.

Luckily we have been invited back and the people were understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever had to cancel a meet through genuine illness or injury, either before or during? And did you feel bad for having to cancel knowing it sounds like a bit of a cop out? Or have you had someone cancel on you through some sudden illness, and did you believe their story or not?"

Have those lemon muffins made you constipated?

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Has anyone ever had to cancel a meet through genuine illness or injury, either before or during? And did you feel bad for having to cancel knowing it sounds like a bit of a cop out? Or have you had someone cancel on you through some sudden illness, and did you believe their story or not?

Have those lemon muffins made you constipated? "

Yes, let me just clear one thing up. I'm not constipated myself! I'm still very much regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

We had a couple cancel on us because of illness. We didn't mind, but they sent us pics of them in the hospital because they thought we didn't believe them

And we very recently had to cancel because I was ill. I felt aweful, and it sounds like such an excuse, but there was nothing to be done. We rescheduled for a couple weeks later and it was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha... I love the name of this thread!

Yes, I've had to cancel. Thankfully, they've been understanding as I've told them the full reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send photos of me throwing up to prove I'm ill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send photos of me throwing up to prove I'm ill "

Someone will have wanked to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send photos of me throwing up to prove I'm ill

Someone will have wanked to them. "

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

We've had to cancel because of illness

We've been cancelled on because of illness.

It's the way it goes.

Who wants to fuck someone who is full of the lurgy anyway ?

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes we have we were both Ill, I had a chest infection and breathing was hard enough let alone fucking.

Luckily we have been invited back and the people were understanding. "

I guess if you're got good swinging credentials then you're more likely to be believed. If you're more of a newbie then people could be more suspicious.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Yes I was due to meet a forumite who travelled a long way to meet me in Cornwall, however I passed out whilst driving my car a couple of days beforehand and couldn't contact him as I was in hospital

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"...they sent us pics of them in the hospital because they thought we didn't believe them "

I'd be inclined to do this too. Just so they knew I was telling the truth. I'd probably send a pic with my dick next to a bedpan or something

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I send photos of me throwing up to prove I'm ill

Someone will have wanked to them.

"

Would you have your boobs out Miss I? If so, I'd wank to that

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Who wants to fuck someone who is full of the lurgy anyway ?"

There will be someone with a fetish for that.

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I was due to meet a forumite who travelled a long way to meet me in Cornwall, however I passed out whilst driving my car a couple of days beforehand and couldn't contact him as I was in hospital "

What happened? Did he end up travelling all that way then?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Yes I was due to meet a forumite who travelled a long way to meet me in Cornwall, however I passed out whilst driving my car a couple of days beforehand and couldn't contact him as I was in hospital

What happened? Did he end up travelling all that way then?"

He did, all the way from London to Cornwall and I ended up with my pacemaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send photos of me throwing up to prove I'm ill

Someone will have wanked to them.

Would you have your boobs out Miss I? If so, I'd wank to that "

They'd probably be covered in vomit

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I cancel all the time because of my leg. Some people get arsey about it but I just don't bother rescheduling if they get arsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to cancel because of genuine reasons and I only have had one couple that didn't believe me, but it's been their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens, sometimes literally

As long as it doesn't sound ridiculous I'm quite happy to give the benefit of the doubt.

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I was due to meet a forumite who travelled a long way to meet me in Cornwall, however I passed out whilst driving my car a couple of days beforehand and couldn't contact him as I was in hospital

What happened? Did he end up travelling all that way then?

He did, all the way from London to Cornwall and I ended up with my pacemaker "

Well it's not like you were faking it, so I'm sure he was cool about it. I hope you're all ok now.

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By *oward1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I cancel all the time because of my leg. Some people get arsey about it but I just don't bother rescheduling if they get arsey "

At the end of the day, if you're being genuine about it then stuff whether someone believes you or not. Your health comes first.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my old single profile yes,I had tonsillitis, thankfully he understood .I was cancelled too for illness,it can't be helped and I think you can tell when someone is genuinely ill.

Miss

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes I had a forumite cancel on me.

A meet was arranged and a date confirmed, I had chid care covered and drove the hour or so to meet her, saw she was online through the day and though everything was cool. wondered around her home town waiting for a message to go pick her up but nothing,

I messaged her in the end a few times and asking what was going on only to be told she was ill and couldn't make it. So I was left wondering around her home town.

Do I believe her story? not one bit

The only thing that got me was that she could of canceled the meet at anytime through the day but failed to do so.

Worst still was that she then rearranged for 2 days later, by this time I had wised up a little and didn't bother even getting ready, funnily enough she made no contact at all so I guess that was a double let down.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

read the title and thought it would go well as a song ha ha... sorry... I'll leave the tread again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My arthritis sometimes means I can't have comfortable sex. It's why I don't make too many arrangements when the weather is really cold. I could wake up and barely be able to move.

I've cancelled because of conjunctivitis, the flu and cold sores-which have appeared during the day of the meet.

I want to be in the best of health when I meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i have to cancel it's usually because of my bambino's getting poorly.

Doesn't happen often but when it does it's usually a last minute cancel on the morning of the meet.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I've had to cancel/postpone a few times - I managed to injure myself internally last year (a gruesome and embarrassing story which doesn’t need repeating here ) which put paid to any naughtiness for about 6 weeks and have been caught out by Mother Nature once or twice too as I'm sure many other women have been.

No one's cancelled on me yet ...

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Yes,

I had to cancel due to my daughter being ill.. She'd been up all night vomiting, very unpleasant..

The person I was meeting was very understanding and we have met since..

As long as it seems plausible, why should we think the worst of everyone..

If someone said that they couldn't meet as they had killed their goldfish washing it in the washing machine and was holding a wake for it, I'd guess that perhaps they were making it up..

Yep, she knows who she is.. You goldfish murderess!

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

A guy travelled up from Brighton to where I was living in Surrey. About 5 minutes before he arrived something happened which required a phone call to the police. The guy arrived at my house (I texted saying something had happened, but I guess he didn't see it until he pulled up), found me trying to roll a fag sat on the front wall and shaking. He ended up lending me his lighter, waiting until the police arrived then went back to Brighton... poor sod. At least he believed me!

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Showed em a pic of my diarrhoea in the pan !! Funny enough they never invited me back !! Miserable gits !!!!

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We're not currently meeting due to Frank's illness. If we are in the mood we'll go to a club but all very last minute.

I also have a medical condition which can cause a meet to be cancelled as I can't function when it flares up - luckily it's not happened yet but I have had to cancel due to a child being ill

JG x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I turned down a possible shag on Friday due to being seriously jetlagged. Not a proper meet though, just an offer of a quickie.

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