FabSwingers.com forum: Does your 'type' frequently change?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure if others do feel the same, ladies probably much less due to the amount of preferences they list on their profiles, but does the type of the person you 'go for' change frequently?

I'm asking because it does happen very often to me hence I don't state preferences on my profile.

One day or a couple in a row, I may fancy an older lady and then the next day it completely flips and I go crazy about a younger one.

Same goes for body types, ethnicity/race or even hair colours for me!

I'm sure there are more people like me but I would still love to hear some opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same type for a few years now, its been tweaked as I've tried different permutations along the way but now I'm happy with the end result ...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't have a physical type or this fabled list of preferences so yes, it changes, depending on the person I am attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have a define type that always get my mouth watering, however my type change, I found myself being attracted to people I never thought I would so yes, it definitely change.

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

"I've had the same type for a few years now, its been tweaked as I've tried different permutations along the way but now I'm happy with the end result ...

mind me asking what your type is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My type rarely changes.always attracted to same type of lads

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I do have a type but every so often I see someone who infiltrates it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvaceous with a nice face and friendly personality that's my type, be good if she likes a beer and can hold a conversation too

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I don't have a physical type as such...can be attracted to different things so I'd say my type changes.

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

My types and tastes in what I want to do change constantly. I guess it's a touch of the old 'grass is always greener'

Or maybe I'm just Greedy for experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a type, but I'm rarely attracted to men my age or older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a preference for tall guys with beardage n tattoos but that's not stuck in stone...

Just someone decent, funny, bit geeky and makes me laugh is gonna get my attention too!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't have a physical type but I must have a personality type and I need to change it as it's not good for me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I don't have a physical type but I must have a personality type and I need to change it as it's not good for me.

..... harsh.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't really have a physical type as such but there are personality traits I find hard to define other than in the most general of terms that I am attracted to.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I don't really have a physical type as such but there are personality traits I find hard to define other than in the most general of terms that I am attracted to."

...... harsh..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Jinx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general, the short answer is no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh my type has never really changed.

Its not necessarily in looks that I have a type but its more a certain type of person that I like really.

If that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No particular type for guys, but I have a type for girls and it never seems to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type and it doesn't tend to vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing you could call a type (and it is tenuos) is that they make me laugh.

That goes a long way with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a physical type but I must have a personality type and I need to change it as it's not good for me.

I find some personalities make me not want to be spending too much time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

This is a bone of contention with the OH as his 'type' is constant

Mine changes by the person - there can be a thing, just one thing that makes me find them attractive

I like younger, older, slim, chunky, hairy, smooth, tall, small, pale, dark, bearded, not bearded, ginger, blonde, brown, black hair, cropped hair, long hair, dreads, grungey, suited, casual, goth, alt, cheeky, geeky

You name it, chances are I'll find something in it

Above all else though, the winner is always a cute / attractive face

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

My type of Women are just ones am attracted to, Their age and colour doesn't matter but they are usually similar in height or smaller and a body type similar or not much bigger then me, It always has been and hasn't changed from me being on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really does seem ladies have a set or none 'type' they go for then. Gents seem to be more flexible.

As I was typing this, I did only have physical attraction in mind because I do have a set personality type that I'm attracted to regardless.

I do very much hope my 'type' settles once I get into long term relationship otherwise I'll be buying a lot of I feel guilty gifts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really does seem ladies have a set or none 'type' they go for then. Gents seem to be more flexible.

As I was typing this, I did only have physical attraction in mind because I do have a set personality type that I'm attracted to regardless.

I do very much hope my 'type' settles once I get into long term relationship otherwise I'll be buying a lot of I feel guilty gifts

If you find the one, your type will become her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I started out doing all this I had a definite type but I quickly realised that, that type didn't fulfil me.

Nowadays, I can't put my finger on what I'm actually attracted too, I just know when I find them, it feels right.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I really don't have a type. Attraction for me is mostly personality/chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a 'type' yet at the same time my OH is my 'type'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep massivly.

But i always have a thing for short petite women i just want to bear hug them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had a specific type, but lately I have been very indecisive and I'm having a hard time picking my specific anything!

Maybe the type of guy I'd make a sandwich for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. What ever women trys it on with me, my type then changes to her

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Do I have a type?

I know what I like and want.

Yes it changed very quickly when I arrived on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a physical type or this fabled list of preferences so yes, it changes, depending on the person I am attracted to.

Me too, I like a sense of humour but I don't have a physical type, I'm just either attracted to someone or I'm not!

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By *oughnut and radoxWoman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

Very much so

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No, because my type is "person who I fancy" and there are a myriad things which can give rise to that, body type is a factor, but a secondary one.

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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago

durham

I have a woman type and a man type.

Men have to be taller than me and in shape. Beards and tattoos go to front of line. Don't really have age preference

Women, I prefer petite blondes that are younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentally well,intelligent.

I actually cannot quantify beyond that- no guys I've gone for have been the same in any way

Did I mention mentally well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very definite type and seldom deviate from it. Occasionally someone who doesn't tick all my boxes piques my interest, but they usually get all 'I'm not what you're looking for' and kill the vibe

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My "type" is very particular... that being said, if aesthetically the person is practically perfect yet they are arrogant, I'm not interested.

Suppose it's a way of saying I don't fuck for the sake of it! Lol x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Don't really have a type as such

I know who I like when I see them, or more often than not get to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I use to think was my 'type' changed when I first became single (4 years ago now). After that it's difficult. I have a preference but not a type so to speak. I always thought I liked younger men (younger than me) and wasn't into anyone older but actually that's changed too. I think depending on the person I could be attracted to anyone. So, I don't necessarily have a type.

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By *guyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't have a type as such, but the older I get the more I love curves on a girl

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've honed my preferences fairly well but I get a little bit of variation.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I find what I fancy changes but not who I go for.the girls I go for are curvy, short,busty and usually gobby lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a set 'type'. But brunette seems to be a theme in my life.

My username should be, neverkissedablonde.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"What I use to think was my 'type' changed when I first became single (4 years ago now). After that it's difficult. I have a preference but not a type so to speak. I always thought I liked younger men (younger than me) and wasn't into anyone older but actually that's changed too. I think depending on the person I could be attracted to anyone. So, I don't necessarily have a type."
i know what ur saying, but don't think if I was younger than u I'd b up to the job of satisfying u, men get better with age I think......but then I'm an old fucker lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"Mentally well,intelligent.

I actually cannot quantify beyond that- no guys I've gone for have been the same in any way

Did I mention mentally well..."
i quite like a girl to b a bit dippy, makes me smile n I think life must look so much nicer to them ??

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"I thought I had a specific type, but lately I have been very indecisive and I'm having a hard time picking my specific anything!

Maybe the type of guy I'd make a sandwich for. "
but what man doesn't like a sandwich?? I sometimes eat em for two different meals haha

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I'm quite consistent in the types that I'm not attracted to.

The options are open otherwise.

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

Not sure I have a "type" unless you count friendly and able to engage ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with a number of people here

No particular type just sometimes there is connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don't have a type. Attraction for me is mostly personality/chemistry.

Exactly

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I used to like new Roman.. but now I'm an Ariel man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a type, my preferences are flexible. I'm either attracted to someone or I'm not, I can't put them into a type box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's all about personality make me laugh then you are my type of person

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I don't have a set 'type'. But brunette seems to be a theme in my life.

My username should be, neverkissedablonde.

Oh I am Blonde Mister Bee

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

For playmates it doesn't change. For a relationship/affair, if I were that inclined, more flexibility in race, body type etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a type, totally depends on the person

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone asks if i have a type i always say no i take everyone on their own merits but if i look back at previous girlfriends etc a lot tend to be busty blondes. I do however, have a bit of a thing for a redhead but i never seem to meet any

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

My acid test is simply this....If i was stuck in a lift with this person, would we fuck, fight, Or would i die of boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My type rarely changes.always attracted to same type of lads"

Same here...they all look the same and most have even been the same age! (26)

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"My type rarely changes.always attracted to same type of lads

Same here...they all look the same and most have even been the same age! (26)"
should try a bit of experience one day girl, give ur self a treat

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By *avid0894Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Nope. Always been older bbw women.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

My type in looks, body wise has changed. I like different things now. In personality and character no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just like you OP my tastes change a lot!

Sometimes I'm looking for younger guys then other times I'm not bothered with age at all. Sometimes I really like fit, muscular guys and sometimes I like more 'average' guys!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Mine doesn't really change, but I have a wide variety that I like in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not have a type, I like to mix it up much more fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My type rarely changes.always attracted to same type of lads

Same here...they all look the same and most have even been the same age! (26)should try a bit of experience one day girl, give ur self a treat

There's a fair few experienced 20-odd year olds and I treat myself quite frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type but it's very very rare I see someone that makes me go oooooooohhhhhhh. I find it easier to be attracted to women than men, although I spend more time looking for men. I'm starting to think I'm looking for something that doesn't actually exist in a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a weakness for some rugby player type builds. Though I don't have a set in stone type and do like variation. As long as there's an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality wise no.

Only certain personality types work for me. Full stop.

Looks-Wise...that can fluctuate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a particular type. I meet people that I have a connection with and that I'm physically attracted to. I've been with a 24 yr old and also a 65 yr old, and a few ages inbetween.

It's the person themselves, not their age or their looks, but the whole package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No- my type is intelligent and attractive.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"No- my type is intelligent and attractive."

Uh?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I have a type but it's very very rare I see someone that makes me go oooooooohhhhhhh. I find it easier to be attracted to women than men, although I spend more time looking for men. I'm starting to think I'm looking for something that doesn't actually exist in a man lol"

A vagina ?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Err no I like personalities people who I can get on with.

In both sexes nice eyes that have a sparkle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if others do feel the same, ladies probably much less due to the amount of preferences they list on their profiles, but does the type of the person you 'go for' change frequently?

I'm asking because it does happen very often to me hence I don't state preferences on my profile.

One day or a couple in a row, I may fancy an older lady and then the next day it completely flips and I go crazy about a younger one.

Same goes for body types, ethnicity/race or even hair colours for me!

I'm sure there are more people like me but I would still love to hear some opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I don't think I usually have a type. It's always been a sense of humour for me that has been the decider on whether I find someone attractive. If they can make me laugh or we can have 'banter', then that does it for me.

Saying that, I do have a fondness for green eyes and accents. Usually the Irish or Welsh accent tips me over the edge. I guess we all have weaknesses.

But, a sense of humour more than physical attributes is usually more important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that, I do have a fondness for green eyes and accents. Usually the Irish or Welsh accent tips me over the edge. I guess we all have weaknesses.

But, a sense of humour more than physical attributes is usually more important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No- my type is intelligent and attractive.

Uh?

Oh yes- and Jokers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So in conclusion.

Some have a strict type

Some have flexible type

Some's type changed

And some did not understand the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My type tends to be the the type that might turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do have a weakness for some rugby player type builds. Though I don't have a set in stone type and do like variation. As long as there's an attraction. "

Ooh I have a massive soft spot for rugby players too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My type tends to be the the type that might turn up

So Shrek since prince charming took to long to do his hair

Only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My type tends to be the the type that might turn up

So Shrek since prince charming took to long to do his hair

Only joking

hey if ShreK turns up I am all in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physically I don't think I usually have a type. It's always been a sense of humour for me that has been the decider on whether I find someone attractive. If they can make me laugh or we can have 'banter', then that does it for me.

Saying that, I do have a fondness for green eyes and accents. Usually the Irish or Welsh accent tips me over the edge. I guess we all have weaknesses.

But, a sense of humour more than physical attributes is usually more important to me.

hmmm green eyes and accents

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

don't really have a type. but depending on what kind of meet I want I'd go for different personalities...

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