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"I was reading another thread and it got me wondering. Is it acceptable to arrange a meet and agree what acts you will do when they turn up, but really have little or no intention of carrying out what you have agreed?" yes it is wrong... | |||
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"This is where people need to specify things they will do, its an adult site after all " + 1 | |||
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"This is where people need to specify things they will do, its an adult site after all " i dont like to specify what i want to do like i have an agenda to the meet, i like to go with the flow however, if there are specific things that i or the other party want to have happen then i would discuss that with them and decide whether or not they or i am happy with it and make sure we are all in agreement before the day of the meet. | |||
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"I was reading another thread and it got me wondering. Is it acceptable to arrange a meet and agree what acts you will do when they turn up, but really have little or no intention of carrying out what you have agreed?" Yes | |||
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"This is where people need to specify things they will do, its an adult site after all i dont like to specify what i want to do like i have an agenda to the meet, i like to go with the flow however, if there are specific things that i or the other party want to have happen then i would discuss that with them and decide whether or not they or i am happy with it and make sure we are all in agreement before the day of the meet. " go with the flow and enjoy it. agreed. | |||
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"I was reading another thread and it got me wondering. Is it acceptable to arrange a meet and agree what acts you will do when they turn up, but really have little or no intention of carrying out what you have agreed?" IF you agree to meet and certain things are discussed before hand you should carry on with that agreement. Other wise it may be construed you agreed to anything just to get the meet. | |||
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"well if ya gotta sleep ya gotta sleep simples xx " bullshit,you never sleep. | |||
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"well if ya gotta sleep ya gotta sleep simples xx bullshit,you never sleep. " Would you ?? xx | |||
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"I was reading another thread and it got me wondering. Is it acceptable to arrange a meet and agree what acts you will do when they turn up, but really have little or no intention of carrying out what you have agreed?" dont know i have mixed feeling about this I would never agree to doing anything if i knew i wasnt going to, but i have met people who have asked me if i will do certain things which ive agreed to, but after meeting them not felt comfy about them or whatever reason and changed my mind And to be honest i feel i have every rights to do so, wether i meet someone or not if after meeting things arnt as i expected i feel its ok for me to say so and not go thro with sex or certain things, im not just there for their pleasure | |||
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"No it's not acceptable if you agree to meet and do particular acts then you should be prepared to carry them out. If you have no intention of doing them don't agree to it simple. " what if the guy asks you if you like anal and you do so you say yes but then on meeting find out hes got a 12ich cock im sorry but agreed or not theres no 12inch cock going up my arse | |||
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"well if ya gotta sleep ya gotta sleep simples xx bullshit,you never sleep. Would you ?? xx" always with one eye opened. | |||
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"This is where people need to specify things they will do, its an adult site after all i dont like to specify what i want to do like i have an agenda to the meet, i like to go with the flow however, if there are specific things that i or the other party want to have happen then i would discuss that with them and decide whether or not they or i am happy with it and make sure we are all in agreement before the day of the meet. " +1 i could never imagine ever being so clinical about sex that i had a checklist,and i would not meet anyone who expected one. For example, i love anal, but sometimes the mind is willing but the flesh does not co operate(even with lube ) So have i let someone down,or have they had unrealistic expectations? Sex should be uninhibited,that way it is fun., | |||
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"Well, I'm not dressing up as The Lone Ranger again " Selfish Mistress x | |||
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"I was reading another thread and it got me wondering. Is it acceptable to arrange a meet and agree what acts you will do when they turn up, but really have little or no intention of carrying out what you have agreed? IF you agree to meet and certain things are discussed before hand you should carry on with that agreement. Other wise it may be construed you agreed to anything just to get the meet. " I agree to certain extent.... seeing the thread concerned, I did feel that instructions were agreed to just to keep a planned meet. It smacks desperation to me. However, I struggle with the thought that anyone (male or female) should feel they have to do anything... there is a huge difference in having to do something and wanting to do something.... no-one should ever be in a position to say no to something that takes them out of their comfort zone whether it be heat of the moment or preplanned. That's NEVER EVER! | |||
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"This is where people need to specify things they will do, its an adult site after all i dont like to specify what i want to do like i have an agenda to the meet, i like to go with the flow however, if there are specific things that i or the other party want to have happen then i would discuss that with them and decide whether or not they or i am happy with it and make sure we are all in agreement before the day of the meet. " Agreed. | |||
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