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"a competitive fucker don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter ." TL;DR. What was general gist of it? I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though. If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition. | |||
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"Absolutely. Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics. As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope. That's about fun, pleasure for both partners. " who says competitive fucking cant be fun and dame right pleasurable for all concerned . I for one love to push and explore boundaries with like minded individuals | |||
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone." its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels . | |||
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"I push myself, but I don't compete with others" ying and yang both inspiring the other to new heights of devilish fuckery | |||
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"a competitive fucker don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter . TL;DR. What was general gist of it? I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though. If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition. " how disappointing I had you down as being more than meets the eye | |||
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone. its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels . " if i was going through one of my 'hate all men' stages i probably could. otherwise i've no interest in anything more than mild sadism. | |||
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"a competitive fucker don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter . TL;DR. What was general gist of it? I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though. If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition. how disappointing I had you down as being more than meets the eye " I am, I just don't equate boundary pushing and exploring to being competitive - it's more mutual for me. Even when I was a sub I didn't see it as being a competition; I guess different people see things differently. | |||
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone. its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels . if i was going through one of my 'hate all men' stages i probably could. otherwise i've no interest in anything more than mild sadism." chin up girl a competitive fucker has nothing but the best interests of there play partners at heart its about pushing for the best experience one can if you need to vent I will be at your disposal for a the next couple of hours xx | |||
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone. its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels . if i was going through one of my 'hate all men' stages i probably could. otherwise i've no interest in anything more than mild sadism. chin up girl a competitive fucker has nothing but the best interests of there play partners at heart its about pushing for the best experience one can if you need to vent I will be at your disposal for a the next couple of hours xx" i don't hate all men, met some very nice ones today. | |||
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"a competitive fucker don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter . TL;DR. What was general gist of it? I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though. If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition. how disappointing I had you down as being more than meets the eye I am, I just don't equate boundary pushing and exploring to being competitive - it's more mutual for me. Even when I was a sub I didn't see it as being a competition; I guess different people see things differently. " a brat would see it differently to a slave but at its heart its about the same pushing physiological and physical boundaries to mutually empower each other thats how I see all bdsm kinky play xxx | |||
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"Competitive fucking... what's the scoring system then? I really don't think this is for me, but I'm interested to know how this will be refereed " check out the thread in the title for a idea of what can go on in some dynamics | |||
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"Absolutely. Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics. As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope. That's about fun, pleasure for both partners. who says competitive fucking cant be fun and dame right pleasurable for all concerned . I for one love to push and explore boundaries with like minded individuals " You're confusing the two. Competition in professional sport, is a job. It's also a passion for most sports persons, at that level. Which is why they continue and pursue their ultimate sporting performance. Sex, or as you deem it fucking, is not the same. I'm all for the intensity of passion, outright lust and desire, for your partner, performing. At your optimum to ensure pleasure for both. I would never term it a competition, and I don't feel inclined to consider it as such. If either partner is trying to attain their best heightened performance, then it's about enjoyment and sexual pleasure. Competition, doesn't enter the equation. Whether that's "Fabs" encounters or with your partner. My opinion, of course. | |||
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"Absolutely. Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics. As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope. That's about fun, pleasure for both partners. who says competitive fucking cant be fun and dame right pleasurable for all concerned . I for one love to push and explore boundaries with like minded individuals You're confusing the two. Competition in professional sport, is a job. It's also a passion for most sports persons, at that level. Which is why they continue and pursue their ultimate sporting performance. Sex, or as you deem it fucking, is not the same. I'm all for the intensity of passion, outright lust and desire, for your partner, performing. At your optimum to ensure pleasure for both. I would never term it a competition, and I don't feel inclined to consider it as such. If either partner is trying to attain their best heightened performance, then it's about enjoyment and sexual pleasure. Competition, doesn't enter the equation. Whether that's "Fabs" encounters or with your partner. My opinion, of course." that's the beauty of individuality we are all different the down side of that is compatibility is brought into play . nice way of putting your tastes forward | |||
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"Only in the sense that I give as good as I get when with a partner " isn't that competitive fuckery push me to higher heights and I will feel compelled to push you just as high | |||
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"Oh no, this isn't for me. I crumble under the slightest pressure " I think your telling porkies | |||
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"No. I just give up." that can be fun in its own right especial in the surrendering sense ive noticed your posts blue your welcome in my threads to express yourself as I am very good at taking the heat off of others when I feel the need is there xxx | |||
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"I say no...but I'm lying... " hay watch it I've got my eyes on the pair of you | |||
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"I say no...but I'm lying... hay watch it I've got my eyes on the pair of you " Pervert! | |||
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"a competitive fucker " Most the blokes I know are. At least, they always try to come first. | |||
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"No. I am competitive in some areas. But not sexually. Plus I know full well that it's a game I will never win; there will always be someone younger, prettier, sexier, more flexible, firmer, thinner, nicer, more this, less that. When a competition's unwinnable there is no point entering." as the game involves psychological button pushing more so that physical button pushing ones brain is for more important than ones physical attributes plus you look mighty fine on the eyes if you ask me xxx | |||
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"I say no...but I'm lying... hay watch it I've got my eyes on the pair of you Pervert! " takes one to know one | |||
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"a competitive fucker Most the blokes I know are. At least, they always try to come first." that's not being competitive at all that's just being premature squirter | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. " yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates | |||
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"I say no...but I'm lying... hay watch it I've got my eyes on the pair of you Pervert! takes one to know one " We're both guilty of that actually | |||
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"Nope. " blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx | |||
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"I say no...but I'm lying... hay watch it I've got my eyes on the pair of you Pervert! takes one to know one We're both guilty of that actually " that makes three of us enough to get the party started down you think | |||
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"No. I'm far to lazy to do anything competitively. " that's ok follow my lead and you wont know what hit you | |||
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"Nope. blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx" Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me. | |||
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"Nope. blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me. " I remember river the good ones stand out how are you xx | |||
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"Nope. blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me. I remember river the good ones stand out how are you xx" ?? I'm good thanks. | |||
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"Nope. blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me. I remember river the good ones stand out how are you xx ?? I'm good thanks. " glad to here it found a job yet and will we be enjoying your vibes for a bit in the forums once again xx | |||
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"No. I'm far to lazy to do anything competitively. that's ok follow my lead and you wont know what hit you " ah I don't follow anyone. | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates " Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. | |||
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"No. I'm far to lazy to do anything competitively. that's ok follow my lead and you wont know what hit you ah I don't follow anyone. " ok the stay in that position and you wont know what hit you | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. " of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near " Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. | |||
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"I'm a pretty competitive individual but I can't allow myself to do that fucking wise as I think it would mess with my head. I can't control what other people do / how they are ~ so how can I compete against the unknown?" | |||
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"I'm a pretty competitive individual but I can't allow myself to do that fucking wise as I think it would mess with my head. I can't control what other people do / how they are ~ so how can I compete against the unknown?" that's the point you wouldn't know all you can be sure of is that every fantasy desire you have to be explored by someone who being they are competitive wants to deliver experiences and push limits because finding the limit of not only you but themselves is the ultimate competitive goal during sex can they take you and in doing so themselves to places no one else has . sex that isn't safe isn't cosy isn't governed by the normal rules is often going to be unknown and yes a bit scary because of that but in my experience a tiny bit of fear can heighten the pleasure excitement aand experience | |||
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"I really don't think I'm in competition with anybody but myself. I have goals though and my goal is always to compete with myself to become better. Does that make sense?? " yes and there are people out there who like to explore another persons limits and goals even try to take them past there goals into places they never knew existed inside them /until that person opened that Pandora's box hidden deep in the dark recesses of there desires xxx | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. " the belt | |||
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"a competitive fucker " I could have worded that question better than this. | |||
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"Aaargh, why do I keep doing it!! *note to self* stop reading them!" does that mean I wont be see you input in future pity diversity is one of the joys of life | |||
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"a competitive fucker I could have worded that question better than this. " but you didn't | |||
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"No. I just give up. that can be fun in its own right especial in the surrendering sense ive noticed your posts blue your welcome in my threads to express yourself as I am very good at taking the heat off of others when I feel the need is there xxx " I don't sub. Thank you | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt " Oooo very nice. | |||
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"I only compete with myself " isn't that called competitive wanking | |||
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"No. I just give up. that can be fun in its own right especial in the surrendering sense ive noticed your posts blue your welcome in my threads to express yourself as I am very good at taking the heat off of others when I feel the need is there xxx I don't sub. Thank you" your welcome the offer will always stand express yourself in my posts and if anyone starts I will draw the heat on to me | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt Oooo very nice. " here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt Oooo very nice. here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy " Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt Oooo very nice. here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result " we are only getting just getting started | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt Oooo very nice. here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result we are only getting just getting started " Oh good, I like taking my time and having the best experience, and of course giving the best experience | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt Oooo very nice. here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result we are only getting just getting started Oh good, I like taking my time and having the best experience, and of course giving the best experience " here have another chocolate we are going to have to keep your energy levels up for what I have in mind next | |||
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner. But otherwise in life no im not competitive. yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. the belt Oooo very nice. here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result we are only getting just getting started Oh good, I like taking my time and having the best experience, and of course giving the best experience here have another chocolate we are going to have to keep your energy levels up for what I have in mind next " Mmmm you too. | |||
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