FabSwingers.com forum: Been here before, know the score

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have them on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's so they can come across as an experienced "swinger"

Yawn!

All if those profiles are the same they will meet women/ men / TS/TV MF/ FF

Age 18 - 99

Tempting

Then they've got a separate bi profile to meet men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so people dont think not another newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here earlier and maybe later. Crazy eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was here earlier and maybe later. Crazy eh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as when they say "been here a while and no the score"

What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Its not like i ever looked at a profile and thought "i bet she doesn't know what shes doing, i wonder if i could trick her into bed"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same as when they say "been here a while and no the score"

What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Its not like i ever looked at a profile and thought "i bet she doesn't know what shes doing, i wonder if i could trick her into bed""

Guys with couples profiles probably think the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it implies they dont need to put anything on there profile. No one gives a hoot what you say, they dont read it kinda thing. Just another negative vibe being sent out. Mostly female profiles.

I didn't say all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it implies they dont need to put anything on there profile. No one gives a hoot what you say, they dont read it kinda thing. Just another negative vibe being sent out. Mostly female profiles.

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it boring, irrelevant and unimaginative.. doubtless they'd be anymore exciting in the sack, if they met at all. Most are probably just perving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind seeing this. I'm interested to know who is more experienced in swinging and who is a compete newbie as it influences my decision on who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it boring, irrelevant and unimaginative.. doubtless they'd be anymore exciting in the sack, if they met at all. Most are probably just perving.

Em "

I'm definitely a perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!"

I think some use that on their profile as another way of saying....

Hey... Been here before so not a naive mug who wont be able to spot your bullshit so dont even bother trying ??

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!

I think some use that on their profile as another way of saying....

Hey... Been here before so not a naive mug who wont be able to spot your bullshit so dont even bother trying ??

A lot of my f friends who have gone and come back use it for the first couple of weeks as a way of saying they are not gullible and know what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!

I think some use that on their profile as another way of saying....

Hey... Been here before so not a naive mug who wont be able to spot your bullshit so dont even bother trying ??

This I think is what people are trying to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!

I think some use that on their profile as another way of saying....

Hey... Been here before so not a naive mug who wont be able to spot your bullshit so dont even bother trying ??

A lot of my f friends who have gone and come back use it for the first couple of weeks as a way of saying they are not gullible and know what they are looking for."

Yes guilty of using it myself before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!"

so you know that they know...the score!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it boring, irrelevant and unimaginative.. doubtless they'd be anymore exciting in the sack, if they met at all. Most are probably just perving.

I'm definitely a perve"

Me too but like to perv in person too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a one liner it lacks substance. Amongst other detail it's harmless and can be well intentioned. Placing too much importance on it though could risk excluding intelligent and respectful newbies who could be equally as wonderful a meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Been here before, got caught out by Mrs, now single and more desperate and equally clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too"

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to. "

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat it like women's hot pics. Very rarely is there anyone new and if so will they fall at the first hurdle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine Men use it to show they're not a newbie, that they are somehow credible. Women use it to say I'm not naive I know the score so back off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women probably use it to stop the influx of mail from those who pounce on the "new" members and try to befriend them by telling them how the site works.

Men, because they been on the site before and they know hownthe site works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seen it. never paid it much thought to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine Men use it to show they're not a newbie, that they are somehow credible. Women use it to say I'm not naive I know the score so back off.

I used it for the latter too.

But now just hide my profile instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine Men use it to show they're not a newbie, that they are somehow credible. Women use it to say I'm not naive I know the score so back off.

I used it for the latter too.

But now just hide my profile instead."

From my experience on here I get the impression the majority don't read the profile text anyway....

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

Anything that's 18-99 are out the door from the off. Personally they may just be avoiding someone or may have millions of veri's so think it may put off people. I know we would be put of if we see someone with 98 meets by 78 different people.

Each to their own blah blah it's about choice blah blah some do some don't blah bl........... HOUSE!

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

"I actually don't mind seeing this. I'm interested to know who is more experienced in swinging and who is a compete newbie as it influences my decision on who I meet."

Playful minx in against the thread grain shocker!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine Men use it to show they're not a newbie, that they are somehow credible. Women use it to say I'm not naive I know the score so back off.

I used it for the latter too.

But now just hide my profile instead.

From my experience on here I get the impression the majority don't read the profile text anyway....

Lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I actually don't mind seeing this. I'm interested to know who is more experienced in swinging and who is a compete newbie as it influences my decision on who I meet.

Playful minx in against the thread grain shocker!!!!

X "

Not really. Most posters are giving reasons as to why they think others it, not saying they dislike it. Sorry - might need to find another thread where that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ? "

Some profiles can make people look one way, but when I've spoke to them they're completely the opposite.

Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ?

Some profiles can make people look one way, but when I've spoke to them they're completely the opposite.

Does that make sense? "

Yes makes perfect sense to me

But was interested in what ways you found they were different ?

As in I'm just me in here as I am in the flesh but I imagine some people behave completely differently when they are behind a computer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ?

Some profiles can make people look one way, but when I've spoke to them they're completely the opposite.

Does that make sense?

Yes makes perfect sense to me

But was interested in what ways you found they were different ?

As in I'm just me in here as I am in the flesh but I imagine some people behave completely differently when they are behind a computer."

I've loved meeting people off the forum. It's amazing when you see their personalities and it's far off what you thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ?

Some profiles can make people look one way, but when I've spoke to them they're completely the opposite.

Does that make sense?

Yes makes perfect sense to me

But was interested in what ways you found they were different ?

As in I'm just me in here as I am in the flesh but I imagine some people behave completely differently when they are behind a computer.

I've loved meeting people off the forum. It's amazing when you see their personalities and it's far off what you thought.

When I say meet. I mean talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually don't mind seeing this. I'm interested to know who is more experienced in swinging and who is a compete newbie as it influences my decision on who I meet.

Playful minx in against the thread grain shocker!!!!

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It's a forum. People are allowed to have different opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!"

Agreed! And those that bang on about it have no veris from old meets confirming it

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually don't mind seeing this. I'm interested to know who is more experienced in swinging and who is a compete newbie as it influences my decision on who I meet.

Playful minx in against the thread grain shocker!!!!

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Naming people is against forum rules by the way. I'd appreciate it if you don't use my name in forum posts. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ?

Some profiles can make people look one way, but when I've spoke to them they're completely the opposite.

Does that make sense?

Yes makes perfect sense to me

But was interested in what ways you found they were different ?

As in I'm just me in here as I am in the flesh but I imagine some people behave completely differently when they are behind a computer.

I've loved meeting people off the forum. It's amazing when you see their personalities and it's far off what you thought.

When I say meet. I mean talking to. "

I'm exactly the same in real life as I am on here. But I get the feeling that a lot of people say things in the forum that they wouldn't say face to face with people. Some people love being keyboard warriors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say all.

It's on quite a few male profiles too

I don't read guys profiles.

but probably true. I take very little notice of profiles. I've not seen many that reflect the true person well. I can only coment from forum users and those I've met and talked to.

In what ways did you noticed from those youve met didnt reflect their forum posts ?

Some profiles can make people look one way, but when I've spoke to them they're completely the opposite.

Does that make sense?

Yes makes perfect sense to me

But was interested in what ways you found they were different ?

As in I'm just me in here as I am in the flesh but I imagine some people behave completely differently when they are behind a computer.

I've loved meeting people off the forum. It's amazing when you see their personalities and it's far off what you thought.

When I say meet. I mean talking to.

Mostly arse lickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!"

I think the men that say it mean they're using it as a sex site. Pretending they had lots of success "the last time".

I agree and think women say it as a kind of warning that they're not gullible and won't fall for the dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers who say 'know the score' usually means. They are back on (fab). Because of bad experiences from their last time they have registered a profile on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!

I think the men that say it mean they're using it as a sex site. Pretending they had lots of success "the last time".

I agree and think women say it as a kind of warning that they're not gullible and won't fall for the dickheads. "

Im a guy and ive been guilty of putting it on my profile before.

Did it for same reasons as you stated for the women so bit of a sweeping statement and not 100% correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the men that say it mean they're using it as a sex site. Pretending they had lots of success "the last time". "

Same script, different cast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of new members seem to have this in their profile, and nothing else, what are your thoughts when you see the same words across many profiles?

Who cares how many times you've left and rejoined? No one!

I think the men that say it mean they're using it as a sex site. Pretending they had lots of success "the last time".

I agree and think women say it as a kind of warning that they're not gullible and won't fall for the dickheads.

Im a guy and ive been guilty of putting it on my profile before.

Did it for same reasons as you stated for the women so bit of a sweeping statement and not 100% correct."

I said "I think". My opinion. I didn't say ALL men.

Fucking hell you people do my head in!! I don't know you, it's just my general opinion about thousands of men, not a personal attack on you!!!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i think last time they were on they got sex without much effort and thought it'd be the same this time round.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I know we would be put of if we see someone with 98 meets by 78 different people.

Apologies for being offputting. In 18 months we have verifications from 91 different people by 158 meets. Oops.

Sally

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm glad they know 'the' score!

I only know MY score.

I don't know what their score is.

Should I ask them what 'the' score is according to them ?

C.B.A. T.B.H.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad they know 'the' score!

I only know MY score.

I don't know what their score is.

Should I ask them what 'the' score is according to them ?

C.B.A. T.B.H. "

You're lucky

I don't even know what I'm supposed to score?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm glad they know 'the' score!

I only know MY score.

I don't know what their score is.

Should I ask them what 'the' score is according to them ?

C.B.A. T.B.H.

You're lucky

I don't even know what I'm supposed to score?

Hole in one I think.

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