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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have been to parties 70 miles away and well worth the travel but we are not prepared to go more than 25 miles for a single or couple meet.

people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


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people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????"

They have a long drive home and may not be the happiest peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm driving 100 miles tomorrow for one xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"we have been to parties 70 miles away and well worth the travel but we are not prepared to go more than 25 miles for a single or couple meet.

people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????"

you go home...

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Then someone has a long drive home.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

They go home

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I once drove from North Scotland to Liverpool for one..

didn't like the way the hubby spoke to his wife..after 2 hours of chatting, I left and drove home.

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Generally 1.5hrs max.

Mercedes x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hmmm a good one! Usually I would say no longer than an hour (I don't have a car so train everywhere) but I am travelling to Manchester next month which takes about 90mins. But thats for a sepcial occasion!

I guess people reading my profile think 'ah, she travels to Bristol'. Actually I do for work, so technically, as I don't leave my hotel room, I haven't travelled at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

of course you go home -- thats not quite the answer i was looing for --more how far would you travel (and how much petrol would you waste ) to meet a stranger who turned our to be a big no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone I know who is worth the journey then I'll drive for around an hour.

If I've not met them before then I generally look for contacts who are much more local.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"of course you go home -- thats not quite the answer i was looing for --more how far would you travel (and how much petrol would you waste ) to meet a stranger who turned our to be a big no no "

Nowhere. I got stood up badly last month and vowed that all first meets would be a social in my home town. If they don't want to travel then tough!

Obviously if we get on well then plans can be made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"of course you go home -- thats not quite the answer i was looing for --more how far would you travel (and how much petrol would you waste ) to meet a stranger who turned our to be a big no no "

a couple of hours radius or a full tank of petrol there and back

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Texas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????

They have a long drive home and may not be the happiest peeps "

LOL...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

too bloody far.. but he was well worth it!!! (and I pinched his boxers)!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt matter how far you travel, there is always a chance you wont get on...

Either way with a long trip there, you have a long drive home... Up to you if you want to take your chances!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes

Been around long enough to work out if it's likely to be worth it even for a drink.

Don't expect and no disappointment.

Had 2 fuck ups in 12 yrs

About 2 hrs seems fair in comparison to miles I do everyday anyway.

Some think its desperate when they just don't realise it may be fitting in well with life.

Trying to flatter people by going the extra mile doesn't usually work.

How long would some spend getting to know someone online etc before meeting to find out they would have been better off travelling an hr or so ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people say they are prepared to travel, then they also should be prepared to go home with nothing but a social if you dont get on.

We have traveled 3-4 hours for a party. (was worth it) and going to chams soon which is 3 hours I think. But these are very special meets.

We dont want anyone driving to us a long distance as we can never be sure if the babysitter wont cancel last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i travel all over the uk to meet people.

the ones i travel hundreds of miles to ive been speaking to for a long time and built up a friendship with.

but i dont mind the long distances and spending a bit of money as the time spent with them has been worth it.

and people further away tend to meet more than people local to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people say they are prepared to travel, then they also should be prepared to go home with nothing but a social if you dont get on.

We have traveled 3-4 hours for a party. (was worth it) and going to chams soon which is 3 hours I think. But these are very special meets.

We dont want anyone driving to us a long distance as we can never be sure if the babysitter wont cancel last minute "

Don't tell the babysitter who and why your meeting then

Why do people assume that travelling assumes we expect ??

I travel on the assumption of nothing and if it happens it was meant too.

If nothing happens may get to buy or sell a surplus of DIY materials or see the girl next door so you know what it feels like to have a sex mad neighbour

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

for a couple of hours 100 miles with enough notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i travel all over the uk to meet people.

the ones i travel hundreds of miles to ive been speaking to for a long time and built up a friendship with.

but i dont mind the long distances and spending a bit of money as the time spent with them has been worth it.

and people further away tend to meet more than people local to me.

"

agrees

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"we have been to parties 70 miles away and well worth the travel but we are not prepared to go more than 25 miles for a single or couple meet.

people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????"

i would travel overseas for the right people, but i got to know they are the right people ..hence do a lot of research ,the higher the distance the more research. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have been to parties 70 miles away and well worth the travel but we are not prepared to go more than 25 miles for a single or couple meet.

people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????"

It all depends on how much i have talked to them. Possibly a couple of hours each way though but if i really like someone i would think further.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"we have been to parties 70 miles away and well worth the travel but we are not prepared to go more than 25 miles for a single or couple meet.

people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????

i would travel overseas for the right people, but i got to know they are the right people ..hence do a lot of research ,the higher the distance the more research. lol"

You gotta cross the Manchester SHip Canal to meet me, does that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"of course you go home -- thats not quite the answer i was looing for --more how far would you travel (and how much petrol would you waste ) to meet a stranger who turned our to be a big no no

a couple of hours radius or a full tank of petrol there and back "

lol to go to the local shops takes a full tank of petrol in MK !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will travel up to 2 hrs but must admit thats after ive met for a social nearer me and so far seems to work just fine

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"i travel all over the uk to meet people.

the ones i travel hundreds of miles to ive been speaking to for a long time and built up a friendship with.

but i dont mind the long distances and spending a bit of money as the time spent with them has been worth it.

and people further away tend to meet more than people local to me.

agrees "

+1

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

We like to meet close to ours first time, but if we click then it's back to our place

If we know a couple we would travel up to 30 miles / or 40 minutes

Not into long distance meets, unless we're already going that way for other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 hour tops for me:

it takes me 30 mins to get Glasgow

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"We like to meet close to ours first time, but if we click then it's back to our place

If we know a couple we would travel up to 30 miles / or 40 minutes

Not into long distance meets, unless we're already going that way for other reasons. "

We'll just have to come to you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i travel all over the uk to meet people.

the ones i travel hundreds of miles to ive been speaking to for a long time and built up a friendship with.

but i dont mind the long distances and spending a bit of money as the time spent with them has been worth it.

and people further away tend to meet more than people local to me.

agrees

+1 "

+ 1 London has been the furthest to date and was so worth it

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester


"We like to meet close to ours first time, but if we click then it's back to our place

If we know a couple we would travel up to 30 miles / or 40 minutes

Not into long distance meets, unless we're already going that way for other reasons.

We'll just have to come to you then "

These forums are a pandora's box of sexy offers!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"We like to meet close to ours first time, but if we click then it's back to our place

If we know a couple we would travel up to 30 miles / or 40 minutes

Not into long distance meets, unless we're already going that way for other reasons.

We'll just have to come to you then

These forums are a pandora's box of sexy offers! "

oh we know Pandora, she's a lovely lady lol - actually thought you were gonna come and party at our place in Portsmouth xxx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"We like to meet close to ours first time, but if we click then it's back to our place

If we know a couple we would travel up to 30 miles / or 40 minutes

Not into long distance meets, unless we're already going that way for other reasons.

We'll just have to come to you then

These forums are a pandora's box of sexy offers!

oh we know Pandora, she's a lovely lady lol - actually thought you were gonna come and party at our place in Portsmouth xxx"

Somebody once said that with me they unlocked Pandora's box, I kicked it and ran out screaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy come all the way from the highlands of scotland to meet me at a social in brum once

Had a great night and he dropped me off the next afternoon and then drove back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For friends I don't see it as a problem, if it's for someone special it doesn't come into the equation. Everyone as their own reasons on how far they will go to meet someone and that as to be respected at the end of the day.

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester


"

We'll just have to come to you then

These forums are a pandora's box of sexy offers!

oh we know Pandora, she's a lovely lady lol - actually thought you were gonna come and party at our place in Portsmouth xxx"

Awww, it's a bit far for us light weights

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"

We'll just have to come to you then

These forums are a pandora's box of sexy offers!

oh we know Pandora, she's a lovely lady lol - actually thought you were gonna come and party at our place in Portsmouth xxx

Awww, it's a bit far for us light weights "

Suppose we'llmjust have to get over to Chameleons again some time soon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only within my county but I will travel slightly beyond if its worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only within my county but I will travel slightly beyond if its worth it.

"

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flew Edinb to Southampton before, all very worth the trip,im a single guy,cant think of anything more fun than taking a trip with fun at end of journey.

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester


"

We'll just have to come to you then

These forums are a pandora's box of sexy offers!

oh we know Pandora, she's a lovely lady lol - actually thought you were gonna come and party at our place in Portsmouth xxx

Awww, it's a bit far for us light weights

Suppose we'llmjust have to get over to Chameleons again some time soon then"

We always put on our status if we're going

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I don't drive but have travelled to other cities to meet people in my early days of swinging. I wouldn't do that now and would never expect anyone to travel more than 20 or so miles to meet me. I'd hate to think they'd had a wasted journey if things didn't work out and I prefer socials first so again wouldn't ask someone to travel too far for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how sexy the prospective meet is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will travel all the way to the balls and back out again.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my finances are very poor, I cannot travel more than an hour away, and I don't expect anyone to travel to me if I cannot travel to them.

As to parties, I never go alone so it makes no odds to me

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"As my finances are very poor, I cannot travel more than an hour away, and I don't expect anyone to travel to me if I cannot travel to them.

As to parties, I never go alone so it makes no odds to me "

hey and sometimes the best meets are right on your doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides..."
so when are you next on your travels

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels "

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment..."

you could always come south or east

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east "
think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)"

Definately North West!!!!!!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! "
Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! "
Yorkshire first

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

well i might start with wakefield..

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)"

Hey remember your pal in the NW

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)"

hmmmmmm I can take a hint

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm back up to Edinburgh this weekend to meet someone Usually, though, I'm far too lazy and stick to Gloucester/ Cheltenham/ Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel between Birmingham and Aberdeen anyway so travels not an issue for me

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)

hmmmmmm I can take a hint "
No u misread... I want to be fighting fit and in top form when I get to the East....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)"

I cant promise you will actually!!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)

hmmmmmm I can take a hint No u misread... I want to be fighting fit and in top form when I get to the East....;-)"

Phew, thank goodness for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

friendship is everything will meets that are miles away.

you got to click and have a laugh, speak on the phone a few times.it all builds it up to what makes a lovely time together.

if someone is a very long way from me and they have the time i have no problem booking a hotel for the weekend and making them centre of attention.

dinner,drinks,everything to make sure she has a great time.

and if she's happy, then im happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my finances are very poor, I cannot travel more than an hour away, and I don't expect anyone to travel to me if I cannot travel to them.

As to parties, I never go alone so it makes no odds to me

hey and sometimes the best meets are right on your doorstep"

Oh yes most definitely

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)

Definately North West!!!!!!! Will I have enough energy left to go East after I wonder.....;-)

hmmmmmm I can take a hint No u misread... I want to be fighting fit and in top form when I get to the East....;-)"

your such a tease ...you bugger

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


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Hides...so when are you next on your travels

need to book some leave... bit of a problem at work at the moment...

you could always come south or east think i ll need to do a round the UK in 2 weeks for lots of... happy encounters...;-) and East and south will be included too... just cant thinke where to go first...;-)"

Whatever you do, just make Bradford your last port of call

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Normally, 1 CD's worth of music time, approximately an hour.

Being close to the motorway helps, that could be 70 miles , it could be 20 miles if it's built up areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Usually about and hr and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been known to travel to France one one occasion and to Cyprus on another...;-) but in fairness... I d say 100 miles ish... except for when it is to Scotland... miles pale into insignificance when meeting the guys up there and those on the way up...;-)

Hides...so when are you next on your travels "

Beach party August Bank Holiday, see you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times I've done a 360 mile, 9+ hour round trip. It wasn't worth it and it was definitely a learning experience.

If I make that sort of effort for someone it's because it's going to be (or supposed to be) an ongoing thing and someone I get to know as a friend as well as a play partner. I have to feel valued and appreciated, and the person has to be willing to make the same effort to come and see me sometimes.

A couple of times I've not been treated particularly well and I've responded by making more effort in the hope that it'll make the other party want to reciprocate. Of course, it never did. The more I gave, the more they took and the less they appreciated me.

Lesson learned now. If I'm not treated well and appreciated from the beginning, I am out of there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams is far enough for me far enough to escape from home and far enough to enjoy myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have been to parties 70 miles away and well worth the travel but we are not prepared to go more than 25 miles for a single or couple meet.

people have said they will travel to meet us .... but what happens if you don't get on ??????"

thats their choice

I always state before i meet people i do NOT do obligated sex, even if it takes them 3 hours to get to me if i dont feel happy, in anyway, i will not have sex with them, if they are still wanting to come thats upto them

Myself i dont travel far for a first meet, id sooner meet local guys so neither of us are doing a lot of traveling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DtM0sTNtWDiI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The farthest I ever traveled for a single meet was 250 miles and yeah we got on ok

And now im marrin her lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been to austria been to glasgow been to france exeter bath ..even essex !!! it all depends on my mood my time my circumstances im really not averse to jumping on a plane if it feels right .....at t he moment tho only meeting local guys ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scottish Land cos it looks like they have lots of fun up there...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

These days I tend not to go any further back than the Iron Age, no further forward than the Paraflux Era.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Scottish Land cos it looks like they have lots of fun up there... "

we do (and we can provide sausages too)

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

About 00000000000.000005 miles

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

have never really thought about distance, if we like someone we will make the effort, we never expect anything and turn it into a night out, if we dont get on with meet well at least we had a night out. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will travel a fair distance but I usually will know if were going to get on from text, cam and speaking on the phone......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been very interesting to read your comments -- thanks sal

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I don't really think about distance that much... But i think that you "Brits" do (now i have to speak from a yank point of _iew lol)....

I think because we live on a "small island" as such then the distance thing is more pronounced......

for example being a new york kid.... i use to consider philadelphia "not that far"... because in the grand scheme of things, in relative terms it isn't...

but that is the same distance as roughly london to birmingham, london to bristol, leeds to liverpool, newcastle to edinburgh... and all of those here would be considered large distances...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Anywhere within an hours drive for me.....so about 80 miles radius.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I will travel a fair distance but I usually will know if were going to get on from text, cam and speaking on the phone......"

LOL, I thought that. All I can say is, don't depend on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will travel a fair distance but I usually will know if were going to get on from text, cam and speaking on the phone......

LOL, I thought that. All I can say is, don't depend on it! "

i went on hols to italy with a (platonic) m8 a few years back - he fucked off and left me in milan so he could go shagging in vienna for 3 days with sum1 he had spoken to but never met !

doesn't say a lot for my company does it ?

anyway, i got the last laugh

we arranged return flights so i was due back in the UK before him

he gave me his house keys so i could get in and shower etc before i drove back up north

as fate would have it, i met someone on the flight back into luton and ended up in finchley as opposed to biggleswade and the poor soul was locked out for 4/5 hours til i got back

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

we've travelled 100 miles ish a few times, and even 260 odd on one occasion to the north east ...

and luckily never had a situation where either party has said no, which we put down to swapping of pics and chatting a bit first so you're travelling with the belief all will work (but never travel on the expectation it will happen)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

260!!! fuck me! oh you already have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"260!!! fuck me! oh you already have. "

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

Travelled back to Ireland for a meet - what a mistake I'd have been better to save the price of the hotel and buy myself some toys

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