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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone I am new to this website I don't know why i am getting more attention from male than female lol.I just want a female to show me a good time so I can believe this world does exist still looking for my first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be flattered.

Better than if nobody looked at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone I am new to this website I don't know why i am getting more attention from male than female lol.I just want a female to show me a good time so I can believe this world does exist still looking for my first meet."

Don't worry about the men. Just take it as a compliment. Just have fun. Be patient and don't be too much of a dick. And you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers I will take that in consideration I just want to have fun that's all but valid point guess I will just have to wait and see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers my man guess I will have to be patient and see what happens.Definetly not a dick ha.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You could always block all men which will stop them messaging you if that's a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Each to there own it doesn't bother me I will turn them down nicely I would just rather get messages from women lol but I will be patient.cheers for the chat boys it's helped.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No problem - you've not asked for profile advice so I can't give any directly, but take a look at your profile and ask how well it sells you and details what you're looking for - it might deter single males and attract females more if you do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if you can look at my profile maybe you can help me telling me what's missing new to all this .

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile only says "gentleman looking for fun". Successful profiles say far more. If you don't put any effort into a profile how do we know you will put effort into a meet? You also say you are looking for women 18 -99. Is this true? Nice to see some face pics but in your avatar you are standing next to a bin. Not very sexy. Wishing you good luck on here as you are a nice looking person.

Sally

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Your profile only says "gentleman looking for fun". Successful profiles say far more. If you don't put any effort into a profile how do we know you will put effort into a meet? You also say you are looking for women 18 -99. Is this true? Nice to see some face pics but in your avatar you are standing next to a bin. Not very sexy. Wishing you good luck on here as you are a nice looking person.

Sally"

This OP...as ever Sally is spot on!!

You need to expand your profile text a lot more to include not onlynwhat you're looking for, butnwhat you can offer as well. Think of yourvprofile as a shop on the high street - would you go into the one whose window wasn't particularly appealing and you couldn't really tell what it sold - or the one where an effort has been made to make the window as appealing as possible?

Apply that view to yourvprofile and you won't go far wrong.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look hot can we fuck right now,i will love you long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone I am new to this website I don't know why i am getting more attention from male than female lol.I just want a female to show me a good time so I can believe this world does exist still looking for my first meet."

New here too.

I think as a newbie people are still trying to suss us out.

What we are about, if we are genuine etc but hoping we do actually come across as a normal couple!

Give it time. Post a bit in the forums so people get to know the 'real' you and who knows what will happen.

Good luck fellow newbie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for the advice I have changed my profile so hopefully it's more appealing and i will add more pictures than me just standing next to the bin ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys from messaging you if it's bothering you that much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For now it's not that bad but if they do I will have to ha .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look hot can we fuck right now,i will love you long time"

You never spoke to me like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone I am new to this website I don't know why i am getting more attention from male than female lol.I just want a female to show me a good time so I can believe this world does exist still looking for my first meet."

Can I copy and paste some of this in my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone I am new to this website I don't know why i am getting more attention from male than female lol.I just want a female to show me a good time so I can believe this world does exist still looking for my first meet."

Hi and welcome to the Forums.

First port of call is if you dont want men contacting you then use the filters provided.

The next is to just be yourself and enjoy the site.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, welcome. You'll come across all sorts of oddballs in your time. You'll learn that filters are your friends and the block button is your bff

Don't get suckered in....even many of the women and couples are actually just men! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a good start at least people are talking to me on here ha and thanks for everyone taking there time out and having an input ??.

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