FabSwingers.com forum: Mean couple accounts are...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.... just single guys.

Have you encountered many couples accounts where the guy is just playing, allegedly, or the female is poorly etc...

The usual male cow manure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mean?????? Many

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads and they say I'll come play now but she can't as she's washing her hair.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've had messages from the wives offering me the chance to meet their husbands without them as I'm straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play one on one most often due to Mr's work ( he likes me to play alone ) and sometimes worry that people think we are a fake couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've encountered both male & female playing alone on a couples profile. The usual line is either with permission, without the partners knowledge or recently split up & haven't got around to updating.....either way I don't meet off a couples profile.

I personally think if you're playing alone have a single profile for these type of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play ether as a couple or singly (she has her own profile just for other women)

But I use the couple's profile as otherwise I would feel like I'm trying to hide that im in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".... just single guys.

Have you encountered many couples accounts where the guy is just playing, allegedly, or the female is poorly etc...

The usual male cow manure."

Yeah all us guys are full of shit

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

".... just single guys.

Have you encountered many couples accounts where the guy is just playing, allegedly, or the female is poorly etc...

The usual male cow manure.

Yeah all us guys are full of shit

Aaaw no just 99% of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both play ether as a couple or singly (she has her own profile just for other women)

But I use the couple's profile as otherwise I would feel like I'm trying to hide that im in a relationship "

You could always link your single profile to your couples & vice versa. I think it's a more upfront approach but I get why others maybe don't want to.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Has happened many times to me. I always say I want to talk on the phone to the fem before arranging to visit

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Yes men pretending to be the woman contacting me with pictures of female wanting to meet women.. Odd really.

couples with photos of only ladies. Want to meet and then go surprise her.

Load of old codswallop really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've encountered both male & female playing alone on a couples profile. The usual line is either with permission, without the partners knowledge or recently split up & haven't got around to updating.....either way I don't meet off a couples profile.

I personally think if you're playing alone have a single profile for these type of meets."

But when I play one on one I film it for him . That would be weird on a singles profile wouldn't it ?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I personally think if you're playing alone have a single profile for these type of meets."

That is exactly what we do. Having single profiles doesn't mean we aren't a couple, it means we sometimes meet alone ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But we play in a hotwife scenario whether it's with Mr present or without so isn't a couples profile fitting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But we play in a hotwife scenario whether it's with Mr present or without so isn't a couples profile fitting ?"

Agreed, we play together or alone with the others knowledge (the sex after is intense)

In my opinion you're damned if you do damned if you don't - there's always people who ruin it for others either by lying so then everyone assumes we must be too

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yoda posted this did he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the girl half of the couple and I arrange the meets but discuss with him first and he reads the message trail. We sometimes meet separately, but only girl on girl or guy on guy.

Sometimes you just want the pure lesbian/gay experience.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I personally think if you're playing alone have a single profile for these type of meets."

Funnily enough we think singles who only meet with their fbs or partners in tow, should get couples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I play one on one most often due to Mr's work ( he likes me to play alone ) and sometimes worry that people think we are a fake couple lol"

Same here

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I use this one meet fem only..use other one meet couples only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was just me that attracted this phenomenon..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a link for hers. But I like that she has access to it.

She likes to arrange meets for me. Wants photos ect. So I'm happy using the couple's profile for now.

Maybe I will do a singles profile at some point but it works for us.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's usually the less attractive one that wants to play alone, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think if you're playing alone have a single profile for these type of meets.

Funnily enough we think singles who only meet with their fbs or partners in tow, should get couples profiles

I agree, if I was to meet with a regular partner then I would create a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But we play in a hotwife scenario whether it's with Mr present or without so isn't a couples profile fitting ?"

Yes, that could work from either a couples or single profile as long as it's clear that you meet in a hotwife scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across this a lot, " she's not playing atm" "male half here allowed to play alone"

Doesn't interest me as plenty of actual single men available XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only assume that it works for them or they wouldn't do it. Plenty of female halves play on their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's usually the less attractive one that wants to play alone, in my experience "

Excuse me ?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I have come across this a lot, " she's not playing atm" "male half here allowed to play alone"

Doesn't interest me as plenty of actual single men available XXX"

My OH has been away and I had single guys messaging me asking to play, when I said no, they accused me of being the male .... you can't win ...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"It's usually the less attractive one that wants to play alone, in my experience "

I will tell my OH that. In reality it is because he has more time than I do .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your in a couple and can play alone then a single and a couples profile would work and you could always link them on the profile.

If you have a singles profile and will only meet with your partner/fb/fwb then it should be a couples profile as you are not meeting alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the guy of the couple, why should I have a single male profile? I AM NOT SINGLE!

I love my wife dearly, why would I want to "be seperate", and we are open about and share everything, so we have a shared profile. We even stress that we are happy to verify in whatever way people want that all parties are in on the loop, but you are damned if you do, damned if you don't.

I can guarantee you that for everyone who says that men who play seperate should have a seperate profile, there will be as many people saying a seperate profile is an attempt at hiding something.

Suggestion, actually TALK to someone and give them the benefit of the doubt. If it becomes apparent it is lies, then cut it off. Effort works both ways.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"As the guy of the couple, why should I have a single male profile? I AM NOT SINGLE!

I can guarantee you that for everyone who says that men who play seperate should have a seperate profile, there will be as many people saying a seperate profile is an attempt at hiding something.

Suggestion, actually TALK to someone and give them the benefit of the doubt. If it becomes apparent it is lies, then cut it off. Effort works both ways."

We both have single profiles. A single profile doesn't mean you are single, it means when someone meets you, they are meeting a single person, not a couple. We live together and do loads together, but we also do things apart .... apparently the sign of a healthy relationship. Occasionally he can get to a meet and I cant, or he wants to meet a gay guy who doesn't want a women there; occasionally I want to meet a woman without him. How could we do this from a couple profile? It would be misleading .... there are no lies involved. We always talk about our solo meets .... what we have in terms of our relationship is too precious to throw away with lies ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Occasionally he can get to a meet and I cant, or he wants to meet a gay guy who doesn't want a women there; occasionally I want to meet a woman without him. How could we do this from a couple profile"

Write a message that says as much, then people should actually read it. But it seems we are in the attention span deprived era of TL:DR

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Write a message that says as much, then people should actually read it. But it seems we are in the attention span deprived era of TL:DR"

This would not be the case .... the profile would be reported and it would be changed to a single male profile if he met alone on it. Not sure what this has to do with attention span. Both of us mention we have a couple profile on our single profiles and refer to our single profile names on our couple one.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I have come across this a lot, " she's not playing atm" "male half here allowed to play alone"

Doesn't interest me as plenty of actual single men available XXX"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We recently received a request off a couple to call by theirs for some fun on our way to a club. We messaged back saying we would be pushed for time. Then the bollox, I mean excuse came out, 'Male playing alone, she away at the moment'.

We told him that we do play alone but all four need to meet first, without exception. Needless to say, silence followed.

If your partner leaves you, don't worry, shit happens. But please use a single account or get the couples account changed.

What's important for us is that we want to meet what we were led to believe at the start. As soon as this changes, alarm bells ring and any trust disappears.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Write a message that says as much, then people should actually read it. But it seems we are in the attention span deprived era of TL:DR

H already had a single account, it will shorty be changed to say she meets ladies on it. I will shortly have a single account saying the same, both accounts will refe4 back to the couples account & the couples account will refer to them.

Its not hard to do really.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

"We recently received a request off a couple to call by theirs for some fun on our way to a club. We messaged back saying we would be pushed for time. Then the bollox, I mean excuse came out, 'Male playing alone, she away at the moment'.

We told him that we do play alone but all four need to meet first, without exception. Needless to say, silence followed.

If your partner leaves you, don't worry, shit happens. But please use a single account or get the couples account changed.

What's important for us is that we want to meet what we were led to believe at the start. As soon as this changes, alarm bells ring and any trust disappears."

We had one couple that txt us saying exacly this We need to meet right now horny and need fucked im not a prude but they had no photos

And we had never spoken before they had veris that was about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything people will make of it what they will.

I (her) am secure enough in my marriage to know that what we have is separate from anything he or I may enjoy physically elsewhere.

It's our choice, our profile reflects this and those who share our sensibilities will respond, those that don't have many other avenues to explore.

We aren't here to deceive or defend, to each their own

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We only have a couples profile, and we play separately as well. Got no need for single profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only have a couples profile, and we play separately as well. Got no need for single profiles "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've come across quite a few the past few months, only ever entertain verified members now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup....loads about, usually pretty easy to spot though.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

".... just single guys.

Have you encountered many couples accounts where the guy is just playing, allegedly, or the female is poorly etc...

The usual male cow manure."

We've not experienced this at all. Never had any male half even offer to meet separately.

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