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First time in a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never been to a club before and want an honest opinion for swinging/club newbies on what it's like for the first time.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I went to my first one a couple of months ago, felt like backing out a couple of times due to nerves but absolutley loved it once I got there, everyone I was easy to speak to and when youbrewlise you're all there for the same reason the nerves start to disappear! Would definatly recommend it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends which club your going to there's a few that would put you off for good but most are fabtastic as long as you make the effort to talk to people and don't sit in a corner people watching then say it's to cliquey

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It depends on which club you're going to, as the experiences can widely differ

Just relax, introduce yourselves to the bar staff, who should look after you and give you "pointers", don't rush into anything, get to know people, and have a great time

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

of course everyone's nervous the first time ..especially if your going on your own ..thats worse , and being a tranny i was pretty nervous .. but it was all very friendly and i wondered what I'd been worried about .. now its like going to the pub for me ..just a great nite out ..with lots of sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

We were bricking it the first time we went but we were made to feel most welcome and it didn't take long before we felt relaxed.

We have been to four clubs in all and two we wouldn't return to. But even in the ones we didn't enjoy the staff were fantastic and The clientele friendly they were just not our cup of tea.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

At least you'll be going as a couple for the first time, so you'll have each other for support, which is far better than going as a single for the first time I can assure you. Just go with an open mind, give it an hour at least, you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We panicked on what to wear. People had body stockings, blouses, clothed, t-shirts & boxers so just whatever you want.

Next, just talk to people, just get socially involved. Guys that don't end up as wandering wankers. People can feel regulars are blanking them them and regulars think, wow they're fit, wish they would speak to us.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Being from Manchester you are lucky in that you have quite a few clubs within easy reach to choose from, so you could visit them all before you choose your favourite. I've only been to one, but plan on trying others

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

Just enjoy the moment. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never expect to play - go and think of it as a social place to mingle with swingers - if you find playmates its a plus -

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

First timers introduce themselves by grabbing every boob and bum in the club, no need to ask, just grab away. It seems strange at first, but its just swinger for "hello"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, it would be amours that we go to because it's the closest

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

It's fantastic. Chameleons has a couple of jacuzzis, sauna, steamroom, dungeon rooms, couples only rooms, group rooms, cinema....all full of likeminded people....what's not to like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We lost of club virginity a few weeks back. We were nervous as hell! We looked at the reviews on Fab clubs and i messaged a few people who had been there to ask the usual newbie questions that pop into your head. Absolutely loved it and can't wait to go again, good luck and enjoy C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us were so nervous before we went into a club for the first time this week.

Even walking towards the door we asked each other 'what are we doing?'

Then after the initial tour we relaxed a little.

Still mind blowing to actually see one for real and we didn't join in with any fun as I think the nerves just stopped us both relaxing enough to be able to do that.

However, it hasn't put us off and we know next time will be different.

We'll be aware of the surroundings, know our way round and hopefully have a sexier time.

I don't regret going one bit, we talked to some genuinely lovely people and realised most people in there were just like us.

Even if you go to socialise like we did, you'll have a great time if you make the effort to chat to people.

Would recommend it 100%

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