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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a tune which really upsets you when you hear it?

The one that does it for me is The Bee Gees, How Deep Is Your Love?

It was played at my best friends funeral, he was only 38 and commited suicide, it's nearly 8 years ago but still makes me sad when I hear it.

Sorry to be maudlin, but it was just on the radio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unchained melody for me

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Don;t hear it on the radio very often. but when I do hear 'Me and my Teddy Bear' it always reminds me of my mum, she used to sing it to me when I was little and she started singing it three days before she died.

Even thinking about it I'm welling up

God bless Mum xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry, think I'm making people sad with this post, wasn't the intention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anything by eva cassidy.

evokes thoughts and feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit strange, but 'Thank you for the music' by Abba - as soon as the chorus starts I start blubbing!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Sorry, think I'm making people sad with this post, wasn't the intention "

But also giving me happy thoughts as well, Thank you

xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo"

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder....."

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks"

Sneaks a quick feel of your bum whilst it's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one that get me is diving home for christmas

It was my dads fav chris rea song and everytime i hear it it reminds me of my dad and i have a little tear but a happy one

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks

Sneaks a quick feel of your bum whilst it's there "

Ah but did you feel me squeeeze yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks

Sneaks a quick feel of your bum whilst it's there

Ah but did you feel me squeeeze yours "

Owww, was more like a pinch!!!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks

Sneaks a quick feel of your bum whilst it's there

Ah but did you feel me squeeeze yours

Owww, was more like a pinch!!!"

It's the nails digging in babe lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks

Sneaks a quick feel of your bum whilst it's there

Ah but did you feel me squeeeze yours

Owww, was more like a pinch!!!

It's the nails digging in babe lol"

Well I liked it, gimme more!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just listening to 'Honey' the one where she dies and am blubbing and she aon't died yet, only got to the puppy biy

boo hoo

Aww, put your head on my shoulder.....

awwwwwwwwwwww thanks

Sneaks a quick feel of your bum whilst it's there

Ah but did you feel me squeeeze yours

Owww, was more like a pinch!!!

It's the nails digging in babe lol

Well I liked it, gimme more! "

Keep it up witht he sad songs and who knows what may happen

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Is there a tune which really upsets you when you hear it?

The one that does it for me is The Bee Gees, How Deep Is Your Love?

It was played at my best friends funeral, he was only 38 and commited suicide, it's nearly 8 years ago but still makes me sad when I hear it.

Sorry to be maudlin, but it was just on the radio. "

It has got to be Pink FLoyd and Breathe... now there is a spiritual connection....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well some know ive had a few difficult times in my life.

Many songs evoke strong memories for me for good and bad reasons but the one that springs to mind is "Because you loved me" it reminds me of my mum as she has done things that no mother should have to have done

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

when I worked in the family funeral trade

at one cremation service the family wanted follow the yellow brick road from the wizard of oz to be played as the coffin went out of view.

we gave the cd to the guy at the back and told him what to play

oops did he get the wrong track and as the coffin disapeared out came the song

" the wicked witch is dead "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and its nice to know a guy has a sensitive side and freely admits it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and its nice to know a guy has a sensitive side and freely admits it. "

I'm feeling a little melancholy today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and its nice to know a guy has a sensitive side and freely admits it.

I'm feeling a little melancholy today!"
You need a big hug so I'm sending you one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

group hugs for our royvue

xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and its nice to know a guy has a sensitive side and freely admits it.

I'm feeling a little melancholy today!You need a big hug so I'm sending you one xx"

Thank you very much, much appreciated and I feel better now xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"group hugs for our royvue

xxxxxxxxxxx"

Thank you Peaches, very thooughtful of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I worked in the family funeral trade

at one cremation service the family wanted follow the yellow brick road from the wizard of oz to be played as the coffin went out of view.

we gave the cd to the guy at the back and told him what to play

oops did he get the wrong track and as the coffin disapeared out came the song

" the wicked witch is dead ""

Now that's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two songs that my sister picked for her own funeral

Van Morrison have i told you lately

Nat King Cole...wonderful world

now they were tear jerkers at the time and still are

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"when I worked in the family funeral trade

at one cremation service the family wanted follow the yellow brick road from the wizard of oz to be played as the coffin went out of view.

we gave the cd to the guy at the back and told him what to play

oops did he get the wrong track and as the coffin disapeared out came the song

" the wicked witch is dead "

Now that's funny "

That has REALLY made me LOL!!!!

I want that played at MY funeral!!!!

pmsl

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone close to me wants at his cremation.....relight my fire by lulu and take that

or

come burn baby burn...disco inferno

i personally want the life of brian tune....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nizopoli - JCB song

Doesn't really upset me, but does make me mushy inside, because it's a song that could have been written about me and my Dad.

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By *ust_PhilMan
over a year ago

Worksop

Brothers In Arms by Dire Straits..... First heard it at 18 shortly after a few mates, one of whom died, where shot by the IRA.

Makes me well up every time I have heard it since, hence I never play it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I had feelings...which I dont because I am hard...Im not saying I do mind...but if I did...it may just be who the bell tolls by the bee gees.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

tie me kangaroo down sport ...rolf harris ...has me hopping all over the place ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a tune which really upsets you when you hear it?

The one that does it for me is The Bee Gees, How Deep Is Your Love?

It was played at my best friends funeral, he was only 38 and commited suicide, it's nearly 8 years ago but still makes me sad when I hear it.

Sorry to be maudlin, but it was just on the radio. "

I don't have any sad memories associated with songs, and tbh I try and avoid associating them so that I can still enjoy a good song without invoking any sad memories.

I hope you don't mind me saying this but I've just read your other thread about your daughters and that happened 8 years ago also.

I may be barking totally up the wrong tree here but could you have been in a particularly dark place in your life at that time?

My own father decided he wanted nothing to do with us when he divorced my mother and now 20 years later that is still the case. Sometimes it's the mother who turns the kids away from their father, and I'm not saying that was the case with you, but you have to ask the question: Why would your children not want to know you if they've had no contact with you and have only got what their mother told them?

Surely, even if they didn't want you as a father-figure in their lives they would still want to know the answer to the burning question: Where were you?

Unless they believe they already know the answer.

I sympathise with your situation, friend. I'd like to ask my father "Why?" but I don't need him as a father any longer.

Good luck.

Wishy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i played bohemian rhapsody and hotel california at my husbands funeral - he loved them both and funnily enough i find i can listen to them both with an enigmatic smile on my face 2 years on

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