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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?

Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

means open your wallet... mention a light lunch.. Take along a tin of spam, a half loaf, preopened and flat and past their sell by crisps.

my money is on you won't be getting sucked off..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Throw a mud pie in their face?

I dunno.....people should say what they mean to avoid confusion and offence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"means open your wallet... mention a light lunch.. Take along a tin of spam, a half loaf, preopened and flat and past their sell by crisps.

my money is on you won't be getting sucked off.."

I'm a gentleman but no mug

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"means open your wallet... mention a light lunch.. Take along a tin of spam, a half loaf, preopened and flat and past their sell by crisps.

my money is on you won't be getting sucked off..

I'm a gentleman but no mug "

Good man, keep up the good work.

Me too now..., took a while

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

There was a profile on here that insisted on a meal, a pressie and an hotel room all paid for by any prospective meets... the profile vanished once people commented on it in forums lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"means open your wallet... "

Got to agree, thats what I would think it means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoiling me is not enough.... I want to be ruined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a simple mispell... they want soiled!

hehhehehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Spoiling me is not enough.... I want to be ruined "

in a gruff voice...

'go wi me darling and I will ruin ya for others..'

well thats my manly bit again for another month...

fashion tips anyone......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spoiling me is not enough.... I want to be ruined

in a gruff voice...

'go wi me darling and I will ruin ya for others..'

well thats my manly bit again for another month...

fashion tips anyone...... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out) "

*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?

Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "

I hope youve got deep pockets ive been spoiled a few times does a cooked breakfast count the next morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be it does - how wide you open doesn't mean how wide her legs will open .. unless it's a ...

Is possible to spoil with fun,laughter and great conversation.

Over a few drinks or a meal may be..

I'd happily take a lady out for the night and bring her back to hubby absolutely ... as my profile suggests

Suppose it's a bit of a fantasy though - and thinking what they would tell hubby and the fun they may have ..

May be asked to do so again..

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?

Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "

i confess kev i have wondered that and tbh is a big turn off for me ...if they mean sexually ,well for me it goes without saying all people would try their best ,but if its more to it than that, i am definately uncomfortable as it goes against the NSA ethos of swinging

good question by the way

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Its amazing some people's demands prior to a meet, the best I had was I had to pay £50 for the babysitter. FFS at that rate of pay I'd want to be the babysitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok my idea of being spoiled. Is being taken to the edge of loosing control. If multi orgasums follow then wow thats me spoiled....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)

*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!"

I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)

*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!

I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing! "

mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)

*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!

I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!

mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ... "

fanny farts yes .... botty burps no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm a gentleman but no mug "

where is the thumbs up smiley??

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)

*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!

I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!

mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ...

fanny farts yes .... botty burps no. "

thats like four legs good ,2 legs bad from orwells animal farm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)

*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!

I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!

mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ...

fanny farts yes .... botty burps no.

thats like four legs good ,2 legs bad from orwells animal farm "

deffo no animals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?

Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "

It could mean lots of things but if you had no reply then maybe its someone to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone suggests an amount it's a big no.

Like it would be if it was a minimum donation to a charity.

I do like a lady that knows what she wants but not by demanding specific amounts of money as that is meaningless.

The meaning in this situation for me would be ;

A great way to connect with each other

A buzz with the fact all are open and honest and that we may be giving a buzz to hubby who may well enjoy later.

Flirting and seduction throughout the evening would add to the fun later (if agreed)

Without a price or pressure this could be one great night !

Obviously all people would have to agree prior and make arrangements regards safety etc which is no problem.

Not everyone's cup of tea but there are some situation's where this would be ideal ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put it specifically in a profile then yes it means open your wallet.

I like to be spoilt by fingers being lightly stroked across my arms and back, I love it. The guy is doing it specifically for me, probably not getting a lot out of it himself but its great that I can lie back and enjoy. That is the best spoiling ever - although I am in danger of falling asleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you put it specifically in a profile then yes it means open your wallet.

I like to be spoilt by fingers being lightly stroked across my arms and back, I love it. The guy is doing it specifically for me, probably not getting a lot out of it himself but its great that I can lie back and enjoy. That is the best spoiling ever - although I am in danger of falling asleep. "

I am the same on being spoilt but i don't want gifts its attention and pampering that appeals.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"If you put it specifically in a profile then yes it means open your wallet.

I like to be spoilt by fingers being lightly stroked across my arms and back, I love it. The guy is doing it specifically for me, probably not getting a lot out of it himself but its great that I can lie back and enjoy. That is the best spoiling ever - although I am in danger of falling asleep. "

Spoiling for me means just that - I would never expect a man to pay for me or buy me things - but it is nice to be spoilt physically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually enjoy spoiling physically.

Nice to be spoilt a bit too at times.

Like many things it's a 2 way thing.

By taking out someone else's Mrs though it would be a bit freaky etc to buy gifts etc.

More like stealing than borrowing.

May be a little something to wear or some good massage oils

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

being made to feel special - does not have to involve spending money!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you can only spoil someone you know well; you know the special things they like, and give them when least expected or most needed.

Am not altogether sure how you'd spoil a stranger.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I actually enjoy spoiling physically.

Nice to be spoilt a bit too at times.

Like many things it's a 2 way thing.

By taking out someone else's Mrs though it would be a bit freaky etc to buy gifts etc.

More like stealing than borrowing.

May be a little something to wear or some good massage oils"

Why do the good guys live so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually enjoy spoiling physically.

Nice to be spoilt a bit too at times.

Like many things it's a 2 way thing.

By taking out someone else's Mrs though it would be a bit freaky etc to buy gifts etc.

More like stealing than borrowing.

May be a little something to wear or some good massage oils"

Thats the type of spoiling most women like most.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

i just think that whole "present" or "spoil me" thing in swinging takes it away from the no strings attached ethos and taints the experience ,i would never buy into that it would be a swift **** off it it was ever suggested tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is when invited to someone's party or home I take a gift for them, sometimes for both husband and wife.

This is not demanded or looked for, it is my own way of saying thank you for inviting me/welcoming me into your home.

I do the same when invited to my mothers for tea.

I pay my own way for meals, hotel rooms and club entry, I never think of asking for contributions, in my eyes people who ask for things don't get.

What I'm trying to say is that a gift is that, a gift, not asked for not expected but freely given.

If I was asked to pay for baby-sitter, petrol, meals, room, lingerie, shoes etc. I'd bill them for same!

That's not being spoiled, that's being rotten to the core.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"All I know is when invited to someone's party or home I take a gift for them, sometimes for both husband and wife.

This is not demanded or looked for, it is my own way of saying thank you for inviting me/welcoming me into your home.

I do the same when invited to my mothers for tea.

I pay my own way for meals, hotel rooms and club entry, I never think of asking for contributions, in my eyes people who ask for things don't get.

What I'm trying to say is that a gift is that, a gift, not asked for not expected but freely given.

If I was asked to pay for baby-sitter, petrol, meals, room, lingerie, shoes etc. I'd bill them for same!

That's not being spoiled, that's being rotten to the core.

"

Love it... could not have said it better myself

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"All I know is when invited to someone's party or home I take a gift for them, sometimes for both husband and wife.

This is not demanded or looked for, it is my own way of saying thank you for inviting me/welcoming me into your home.

I do the same when invited to my mothers for tea.

I pay my own way for meals, hotel rooms and club entry, I never think of asking for contributions, in my eyes people who ask for things don't get.

What I'm trying to say is that a gift is that, a gift, not asked for not expected but freely given.

If I was asked to pay for baby-sitter, petrol, meals, room, lingerie, shoes etc. I'd bill them for same!

That's not being spoiled, that's being rotten to the core.

"

You do exactly as described.. and often too generous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complimentary is the word

Personally I get pleasure from giving in such a way.

With a stranger it may be difficult so that's why a few messages exchanged and a phone call would be a great start.

May be meet the victim as part as couple prior too.

May as well use hubby for a taxi service and compliment with some mirror _iewing on the way back

Drop us off and say pick the Mrs up in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?

Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "

Spoil.

Noun: Goods stolen or taken forcibly.

Verb: Diminish or destroy the value or quality of: "I wouldn't want to spoil your fun".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many interpretations

to impair, damage, or harm the character or nature of (someone) by unwise treatment, excessive indulgence, etc.: to spoil a child by pampering him.

To impair the value or quality of.

To become unfit for use or consumption

Goods or property seized from a victim after a conflict, especially after a military victory.

As long as she dosn’t think your love apples are spoilt!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown "

Tell her you will come over and give her your spoil

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown

Tell her you will come over and give her your spoil "

she messaged me back and then vlocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown "

WTF????? tell her she has missed out on the mankini experience... bet she's kicking herself now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown

Tell her you will come over and give her your spoil

she messaged me back and then vlocked me "

Blocked even

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i hate women that demand things like that!!!

but what get me even more is the guys that pander to their demands!!! surely they are not that desperate for a shag???

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By *ugardaddyloverWoman
over a year ago

cheshire

I just had to go clarify what i mean on my profile

Thanks for pointing out how ambiguos spoil me can read Kev

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?

Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "

It means spend all your money on me lol

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"i hate women that demand things like that!!!

but what get me even more is the guys that pander to their demands!!! surely they are not that desperate for a shag???"

Want to bet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had to go clarify what i mean on my profile

Thanks for pointing out how ambiguos spoil me can read Kev "

It would have been easier to take any reference to spoiling out though and write a bit about yourself, if you were worried that people wouldnt understand

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By *ugardaddyloverWoman
over a year ago

cheshire


"I just had to go clarify what i mean on my profile

Thanks for pointing out how ambiguos spoil me can read Kev

It would have been easier to take any reference to spoiling out though and write a bit about yourself, if you were worried that people wouldnt understand "

you know what, you re spot on thanks for that observation.

taking the time to look at it through others eyes makes it stand out as a bit naive .sod it im chaqnging the name too

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