FabSwingers.com forum: introductory messages..

By *mo OP Man
over a year ago

Salford

Hi, I'm really struggling with my introductions here. Should I send a long winded message or keep it brief? any other tips would be much appreciated too..

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile and pick a conversation starter from it, there are so many guys messaging every day that simply sending your sexual cv is not going to get you a reply or even guarantee a read. Make your message something worth replying to.

Imagine you are stood at a bus stop and want to make conversation with someone....you wouldn't just walk into their personal space and say "hey" then expect them to start up the conversation would you!

Good luck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm really struggling with my introductions here. Should I send a long winded message or keep it brief? any other tips would be much appreciated too.."

You won't ever be able to have a set message that works for everyone, reading their profile helps you a bit with info about them giving you an idea of them also you can make sure if requested on their profile certain things are mentioned in pm's.

I would suggest joining in on threads and flirting as when people interact with you there is usually opportunity to chat with them via pm and if lucky perhaps more.

One other important thing is your profile, it is your advertising tool so it's important that it's written well, honest and informative along with a good variety of pics at least in your friends only photo album.

Hope that helps

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still learning the ropes too, but read the profile, is very good advice. Forums are good for banter. Good luck