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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on and off this site for about three years now, but am getting so fed up with people who say they want a meet and then vanish with poor excuses. I recently booked a hotel room on the understanding of several people showing up.. i ended watching the television, a bottle of wine and a nice chilled soak alone... i wonder if people had to pay to register would that cut out the no shows.. i feel i may again leave.. but due to my sex drive return.. but no one turns up. What do people think any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you chat to any of them on the phone beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for about three years now, but am getting so fed up with people who say they want a meet and then vanish with poor excuses. I recently booked a hotel room on the understanding of several people showing up.. i ended watching the television, a bottle of wine and a nice chilled soak alone... i wonder if people had to pay to register would that cut out the no shows.. i feel i may again leave.. but due to my sex drive return.. but no one turns up. What do people think any ideas?"

I know how you feel. I had a 'no show' last, Thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All talk and no trousers. Unlike my good self.

I don't say much either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even site supporters can be time wasters, you go with your gut and have a very strict vetting practice to ensure you get the people who will actually turn up when they say they will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is the usual ..."yes looking forward to meet" but when u come to ask for a phone number or confirmation no where to be seen!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But even strict vetting doent work... they are all playing with themselves while messaging you.. only to cum and vanish. Ive started to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the usual ..."yes looking forward to meet" but when u come to ask for a phone number or confirmation no where to be seen!"

Meet socially first if possible, most genuine people on here will be happy with a social before going further, that's what I always suggest when meeting for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I may try that as the hotel payment was about the last straw... 75.00 for a night in front of the tv. Could have done that at home and had a hot tub and swim also!

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