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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our dynamic is that the younger of us has a 'spit roast' thing going on meet wise.

He doesn't fuck and I only fuck him, so meeting a guy who wants to be fucked would just never work.

However, I would say that 95% of guys who message us want to be fucked rather than do the fucking.

There seems to be a lot more 'bottoms' about than there are 'tops'

That leads to the question for those who enjoy some MMM (or even just MM) fun ... why is there a prediliction for being fucked than doing the fucking ?

Or are we just not looking hard enough ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our dynamic is that the younger of us has a 'spit roast' thing going on meet wise.

He doesn't fuck and I only fuck him, so meeting a guy who wants to be fucked would just never work.

However, I would say that 95% of guys who message us want to be fucked rather than do the fucking.

There seems to be a lot more 'bottoms' about than there are 'tops'

That leads to the question for those who enjoy some MMM (or even just MM) fun ... why is there a prediliction for being fucked than doing the fucking ?

Or are we just not looking hard enough ? "

I prefer doing the fucking....

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps some bi guys get to fuck women regularly so being fucked gives them the variety. If I were meeting I'd be vers.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Sir is most definitely top only. Yet we still get a fair amount of top guys message us too - not sure what they're after

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By *semymouth_2024Man
over a year ago

swanwick, Alfreton

Top here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say for some guys being penetrated adds an otherwise lacking intensity to the male experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um, I haven't given it that much thought, but I do like cocks in me. Like really like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am strictly a bottom I have no attraction to another man's arse but I love cock I use my cock to fuck women only it's like the poster above said it's a variety thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me, it's a 'control' thing

I don't like guys 'in' me because I feel like I lose an element of control over the situation

Because I never fully relax in that situation, whenever I have allowed it, it has always been a painful rather than a pleasant experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, it's a 'control' thing

I don't like guys 'in' me because I feel like I lose an element of control over the situation

Because I never fully relax in that situation, whenever I have allowed it, it has always been a painful rather than a pleasant experience"
it's the complete opposite for me instead of being the dominant one when I'm with a woman I'm the submissive one when I'm with a man that's the turn on losing that power but feeling the power of a man bending me over is a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our dynamic is that the younger of us has a 'spit roast' thing going on meet wise.

He doesn't fuck and I only fuck him, so meeting a guy who wants to be fucked would just never work.

However, I would say that 95% of guys who message us want to be fucked rather than do the fucking.

There seems to be a lot more 'bottoms' about than there are 'tops'

That leads to the question for those who enjoy some MMM (or even just MM) fun ... why is there a prediliction for being fucked than doing the fucking ?

Or are we just not looking hard enough ? "

Totally agree theres more bottoms than tops around.

Heck its so common theres meme picures around it lol

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I will occasionally top but would much rather be fucked.I love the feeling of being used...Mike

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