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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When looking at profiles, do you just look at the pics or read the profile text?

If I'm looking to meet, I'll always read the profile but otherwise just a sneaky perv at the public gallery, obviously loads don't look at the text before messaging, are you one of them? Or do you take the time to see if you are what they're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile and look at the pictures

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Definitely a reader. Even when I set out to just look at pictures, I still end up reading the profiles.

I guess I am nosey!

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I'm a reader. If I'm not a fan of the text I may never make it to the photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile but only if I'm in the age limit they looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics first, then profile.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I'm a reader, which is ironic when my profile says very little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a looker as i never learnt to read at skool

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Im nosey i tend to do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's text as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When looking at profiles, do you just look at the pics or read the profile text?

If I'm looking to meet, I'll always read the profile but otherwise just a sneaky perv at the public gallery, obviously loads don't look at the text before messaging, are you one of them? Or do you take the time to see if you are what they're looking for?"

I'm a poet.

Words are imperative to me.

Of course if you are packing a few well placed muscles alongside a succinct wee profile then I may be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a reader and a looker! I have to be attracted physically by the images and also by the content of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't all be a reader.... when I bothered to write a profile.. no bugger read it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's text as well? "

I know, it's really hard to find but if you know where to look, it is there, well, on most anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't all be a reader.... when I bothered to write a profile.. no bugger read it"

I like your current profile.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Both but usually pics first.

S

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Actually, it would be quite cool to rate profile texts in the same way we can fab pictures.

When I read a good/funny one, I want others to see it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't all be a reader.... when I bothered to write a profile.. no bugger read it"

Just read it and had a little giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a looker but if I like what I see I then read profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't all be a reader.... when I bothered to write a profile.. no bugger read it

I like your current profile.

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Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't all be a reader.... when I bothered to write a profile.. no bugger read it

Just read it and had a little giggle "

Haha thanks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I read the profile and look at the pictures "

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look

I read

I digest

I come to a conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what takes me to the profile. Often pics first and then profile if I'm still motivated to discover more. However, if it's a forum related nosey, I will usually read first.

Then there are the ones where I spot that I've made a private note and I can refresh my memory.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Before I read the profile I always check there age range. If I'm within it I will read the rest n have a sneaky peek at the public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When looking at profiles, do you just look at the pics or read the profile text?

If I'm looking to meet, I'll always read the profile but otherwise just a sneaky perv at the public gallery, obviously loads don't look at the text before messaging, are you one of them? Or do you take the time to see if you are what they're looking for?"
i always read the profile first. Check age and sexuality.. then the photos

Mr looks at the photos and often gets distracted by boobs and boots and if both are in the photos thats it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look

I read

I digest

I come to a conclusion

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I definitely read, and tend to do that first even if I've been drawn to a profile by a picture. Bad (for whatever reason) profile text will completely turn me off even the hottest of photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at the pics first which saves me time as if I don't like what I see...I don't need to read!

However, sometimes there are no pics, in which case I will read what they have to say.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I read profiles always . I do like nice images to see but mainly because I'm interested in photography.

Sadly not many read my profile !

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It depends...if it's off the back of a Fabbing thread or whatever I'll usually just look at the pics - but if it's someone that has caught my interest I'll read the profile blurb in detail and look at pics.

Either way a non-existent, or limited profile blurb will have me clicking for the back button pretty quickly!!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"When looking at profiles, do you just look at the pics or read the profile text?

If I'm looking to meet, I'll always read the profile but otherwise just a sneaky perv at the public gallery, obviously loads don't look at the text before messaging, are you one of them? Or do you take the time to see if you are what they're looking for?"

I rarely click on profiles i have friends on my friends list who's profile I've never read. I'm in the process of chatting to someone off line om a social app who's profile on here I've not read.

I don't search profiles nor do I send random message .every message I send will be forum or status related .

pictures i will comment on but once again i rarely go through any pictures unless its a fabing endeavour to do with posting in a fabing post.

I'm just the kind of guy who will form a yes or no opinion about you based only around our random chats and on nothing else .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I read if I'm looking as a result of a forum post or curious to see if we could fuck. I nosy at photos when it's on a fab me post or I see them on hot photos.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I look at it all, I apreciate a profile when someone has taken a bit of effort with it.

I rarely message or reply to someone that has an empty profile and one or two rubbish pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read profiles always . I do like nice images to see but mainly because I'm interested in photography.

Sadly not many read my profile ! "

I was going to but you've blocked me

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Warks.

Profile first, then veris, then pics. I like to get a feel for the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures then profile then veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile and then look at the pics to see if I like what I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at the pictures first. If I like, I read the profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the text, it's annoying when people don't read our profile.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read the text, it's annoying when people don't read our profile.

Eve. X"

I read your text

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"When looking at profiles, do you just look at the pics or read the profile text?

If I'm looking to meet, I'll always read the profile but otherwise just a sneaky perv at the public gallery, obviously loads don't look at the text before messaging, are you one of them? Or do you take the time to see if you are what they're looking for?"

I look at the height

Body type

Face pic

Then read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at pictures and read text after. If the profile picture is a cock picture I tend to pass it. Don't know why. Guess when you've seen one you've seen them all

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Read... Very much interested in how folk sell themselves here with words.

My inbox would suggest most chaps only look at the pics so interesting to see some of you read too

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Reader: if the text is too long I stop and don't even look at the pictures.

If the text is uninspiring I don't bother with the pictures either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to look at pictures and read text after. If the profile picture is a cock picture I tend to pass it. Don't know why. Guess when you've seen one you've seen them all "

Your profile is a prime example. The picture initially caught my attention then moved to the words. Read "Dublin" and thought ah Feck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it wil depend on how I arrive at the profile. Sometimes it's the photos that lead me there and so I'll start with them; alternatively, I might find myself heading towards a profile from a forum post in which case I'll start with he spiel and take it from there.

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

If the pics take my fancy I always read. It infuriates me when I get messages from people who clearly couldn't be bothered to read mine. Makes me think can you be bothered in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures grab my attention....read profile.....if all looks good check verifications....this is usually where i leave the profile...if the guys are of one body type usually muscley...Thats me out...slim isnt overly popular! Rarely message anyone anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read,but not just the profile,but verifications,as they are what others say about someone as anyone can bang their own drum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Some profiles are actually an amusing diversion

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I look at pictures first. If there are only cock pictures I don't read.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I look at pictures first. If there are only cock pictures I don't read. "

No me neither. I look at the pics and if I am attracted by some and not put off by any then I will check stats, then read.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Both. Some profiles are actually an amusing diversion "

I can't get past the new pic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. Some profiles are actually an amusing diversion

I can't get past the new pic!! "

Ah, shucks Frisky

But hang on... you... you mean you didn't bother to read my profile?! I feel like you are just using me now

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Both. Some profiles are actually an amusing diversion

I can't get past the new pic!!

Ah, shucks Frisky

But hang on... you... you mean you didn't bother to read my profile?! I feel like you are just using me now "

Yup, mercilessly using you as eye candy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. Some profiles are actually an amusing diversion

I can't get past the new pic!!

Ah, shucks Frisky

But hang on... you... you mean you didn't bother to read my profile?! I feel like you are just using me now

Yup, mercilessly using you as eye candy!! "

How disgraceful!

Carry on

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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We are supposed to read them?

I just perv like this

I should probably have a restraining order.

People clearly read mine judging by the offers

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I look at pics first to see if there is an attraction then the age range then profile. Then if I'm still interested I'll send a message with a face pic. And see if I have a response. If it's deleted I take it as a no and leave them alone

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I tend to look at the Stats first, then pics, then if they're still interesting I'll read the profile.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read a profile. It has to interest me for me to respond. If it has two words on it and the pictures and everything else are perfect I wouldn't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When looking at profiles, do you just look at the pics or read the profile text?

If I'm looking to meet, I'll always read the profile but otherwise just a sneaky perv at the public gallery, obviously loads don't look at the text before messaging, are you one of them? Or do you take the time to see if you are what they're looking for?"

Look at pics, if interested I read the profile x

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