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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really, if a woman is smart enough to set all the filters she needs she doesnt get that many, even from all the ones ive received since joining there has only been one person that ive liked all aspects of them enough to want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really, if a woman is smart enough to set all the filters she needs she doesnt get that many, even from all the ones ive received since joining there has only been one person that ive liked all aspects of them enough to want to meet. "

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set. "

I still manage to read (look at) all my messages but tbh if I don't have time I'll look straight at the guys pics and if they aren't to my liking then i just delete the message.

Tbh op I don't think your pics are doing you any favours so maybe this is why you're getting over looked. I could be wrong tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? Sounds like an awful idea. I don't think the amout of messages we receive have anything to do with it. Sadly it's the amout of crap we recieve. Sadly fab doesn't have a block option for total wanker messages, would make life easier all around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I can manage to whittle through mine and always get back to those that catch my eye. ...no matter how inundated I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? Sounds like an awful idea. I don't think the amout of messages we receive have anything to do with it. Sadly it's the amout of crap we recieve. Sadly fab doesn't have a block option for total wanker messages, would make life easier all around."

Id love if there was more filters too, like for height etc

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Us women want maximum choice so that we can get the right partners. Cut our choices and increase our potential for frustration.

There aren't too many guys on here.

Op - you're 50, a lad?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, what if your message is the one that can't get through because the maximum has been reached?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Methinks OP that you're trying to find a reason for less success than you wanted?

And, as if often the case, it's the crap guys who are causing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set. "

Oh I'm not so sure. It's frustrating perhaps, to show interest in someone, but receive either a "no" or a "delete & zero" or even a "polite thanks but no thanks" .

You can go out socially in bars and approach someone, and still receive a knock back.

That's life. Fabs is no different. Keep your standards, use your brain, don't follow your dick (not implying that's what you do) and make the message you send, unique and interesting.

You may still get ignored, but you might not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only a problem if you allow it to be. Be patient, be polite read the profile and make your message stand out. Put the effort in, the rewards of a meet whether social or sexual will follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds? I'm lucky to get 10 lol

I have my filters set and well my profile is a better filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well it seems i may be wrong. however, i do see a lot of status updates from women saying that they have hundreds of messages to get through. Perhaps my style of message is the reason then although i do tend to base my message on the individuals profile. Never mind though, thanks for your comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set. "

Well you'd better piss off and give all the others a chance then eh ?

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set.

I still manage to read (look at) all my messages but tbh if I don't have time I'll look straight at the guys pics and if they aren't to my liking then i just delete the message.

Tbh op I don't think your pics are doing you any favours so maybe this is why you're getting over looked. I could be wrong tho "

I agree... pants not terribly attractive in my opinion, plus rather old fashioned cabinet full of dated ornaments in background would def put me off. Seriously... it really would x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"well it seems i may be wrong. however, i do see a lot of status updates from women saying that they have hundreds of messages to get through. Perhaps my style of message is the reason then although i do tend to base my message on the individuals profile. Never mind though, thanks for your comments "

Possibly lying to stop blokes like you moaning about their messages not being answered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set.

I still manage to read (look at) all my messages but tbh if I don't have time I'll look straight at the guys pics and if they aren't to my liking then i just delete the message.

Tbh op I don't think your pics are doing you any favours so maybe this is why you're getting over looked. I could be wrong tho "

You may be right. "Selfies" were never my strong point Thanks for your opinion though.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i reply to any i want to, and i get 100s. although i sometimes lose conversations, that's the bigger problem really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? Sounds like an awful idea. I don't think the amout of messages we receive have anything to do with it. Sadly it's the amout of crap we recieve. Sadly fab doesn't have a block option for total wanker messages, would make life easier all around.

Id love if there was more filters too, like for height etc "

And for width...?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set.

I still manage to read (look at) all my messages but tbh if I don't have time I'll look straight at the guys pics and if they aren't to my liking then i just delete the message.

Tbh op I don't think your pics are doing you any favours so maybe this is why you're getting over looked. I could be wrong tho

I agree... pants not terribly attractive in my opinion, plus rather old fashioned cabinet full of dated ornaments in background would def put me off. Seriously... it really would x"

I am the same with messy floors

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"No not really, if a woman is smart enough to set all the filters she needs she doesnt get that many. "

Took me awhile and a lot of dickheads but my filters are up and running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well it seems i may be wrong. however, i do see a lot of status updates from women saying that they have hundreds of messages to get through. Perhaps my style of message is the reason then although i do tend to base my message on the individuals profile. Never mind though, thanks for your comments "

Have you thought that perhaps some women may tell a few lies to get more attention ?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"well it seems i may be wrong. however, i do see a lot of status updates from women saying that they have hundreds of messages to get through. Perhaps my style of message is the reason then although i do tend to base my message on the individuals profile. Never mind though, thanks for your comments

Have you thought that perhaps some women may tell a few lies to get more attention ? "

it's not lies. but it is convenient when guys think we don't message them back because of it.

saves a lot of hassle telling someone you don't fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest problem with this site is the fact that most women on here are inundated with hundreds of messages which makes it virtually impossible to answer them all, meaning that there's a lot of genuine guys on here, myself included, who hardly get a response to most messages sent. Perhaps some sort of maximum limit should be set.

I still manage to read (look at) all my messages but tbh if I don't have time I'll look straight at the guys pics and if they aren't to my liking then i just delete the message.

Tbh op I don't think your pics are doing you any favours so maybe this is why you're getting over looked. I could be wrong tho

I agree... pants not terribly attractive in my opinion, plus rather old fashioned cabinet full of dated ornaments in background would def put me off. Seriously... it really would x

I am the same with messy floors"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, what if your message is the one that can't get through because the maximum has been reached? "
well at least I'd know not to expect a reply

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