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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are a few very sexy people on here that I'm eager to meet, yet really struggle for playtime.

Hence my saying "Too many people, not enough time".

Do other people struggle for time in their busy lives?

Hoping it's easier when my children are older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and I don't want to give up some of my limited free time to meet someone that looks different from their pics or is a complete knob. Sticking to clubs is the best way for me, at least I know I'll have a good night either way, but if I meet someone there then there's always the chance of meeting away from the club in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's difficult finding time to meet. Work gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality over quantity.

I'm enjoying getting to know people first then taking it from there rather than just jumping straight on them so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, life can get in the way...... the constant battle of life vs fantasy. I love it when fantasy wins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most the people I would like to meet seem too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a very young child. When they're at their dad's, my period usually decides to arrive or I'm battling yet another cold.

I'd meet much more if I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things I hate ... people I would like to meet live too far away and time is just non existent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two things I hate ... people I would like to meet live too far away and time is just non existent "

100%

And now you've just made that 110%

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i could actually meet a lot more than i do but i'm choosing not to do that. i'm trying to get on top of sex addiction so just don't wanna fulfil my sexual urges all the time any more.

plus more mover towards only wanting to meet certain guys, and not all of them off fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggling with time is a big issue. ..hence I don't do social meets and get to know intimately beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam life and work gets in the way of play time grrrrr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few very sexy people on here that I'm eager to meet, yet really struggle for playtime.

Hence my saying "Too many people, not enough time".

Do other people struggle for time in their busy lives?

Hoping it's easier when my children are older."

Fortunately for me my children have flown the nest but they are a bit like boomerangs!

Son in law just dropped the bombshell that he may need to stay at mine for a month or so

That'll be hotel or distance meets then lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am too busy with the gym, diet and meal prepping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this is us all over. We can meet/club probably once a month if lucky and have a list of people that we haven't even had chance to do a social with yet!

Ruby

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Work, children, health...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me it's work location means I struggle to meet people even for a social in the evenings

Middle of a business park in middle of knwowhere

So only tend to meet on Fridays and Saturdays also I only tend to meet at clubs just because it's a lot easier than meeting people through adverts here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh good god yes it's hard meeting anyone from here.

We ha e to fancy each other. And that's 50/50, as we either do or don't.

Then it's how far we are away, some of you sexy people are in Ireland , so the chances are reduced because of distance. (I hate the fact There's a South Wales)

Next, I have to try and match a diary with when we're both free.

The odds of meeting are minuscule, but that doesn't say it's impossible.

I've been known to try my best at overcoming obstacles. In fact, Im pretty good at overcoming.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south


"There are a few very sexy people on here that I'm eager to meet, yet really struggle for playtime.

Hence my saying "Too many people, not enough time".

Do other people struggle for time in their busy lives?

Hoping it's easier when my children are older."

Or if you were single maybe that would free up more time too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work and family always come first for me but usually weekday evenings and weekends I'm available. Which seems to be when most aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely OP - making time for meeting is a tough job.

Have to be a bit creative sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are definitely a lot of hotties here, distance and time to meet are a major factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and that distance thing is a pain in the arse too. So many lovely ladies and so few trips away with work!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm fairly busy with work but I don't have the children/married reasons - it's more trying to sync free time and location and staying interested long enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all just timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I get it. Apparently as a single mum I shouldn't be on this site as I can't meet at the drop of a hat. It annoys me, I can meet, it just takes a bit of planning.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Work, other non sex related passions and finances all come into play for me so my meets are sporadic. Hence why I get to know someone well in advance and plan accordingly. It's taken me well over a year to meet some people.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes - this is me too. It's why my contact to meet time is particularly slow - and I note that some people get very frustrated.

People like us may be thought of as timewasters. It's just a facet of having a complex, busy life. I prefer to meet at my best, not humdrum self, where I'm not going to be getting the same pleasure from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really struggle and have to plan in advance, it's so hard to get family to have 2 young children over night so we can have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep time is a problem, I'm single and live alone as well? Work continental shifts and it's amazing how often I get offered a meet and I'm working. Happened on Wednesday and I was working nights so couldn't go and happened last night when I've got a cover shift to do today and had to get up at 4.30 for a day shift.

Frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have little spare time but to me it's not a big deal as (aside from work) I enjoy the other activities that keep me occupied.

I'm not too sure if I had time whether I'd meet more often , I'd probably just make more time for those I've already met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have little spare time but to me it's not a big deal as (aside from work) I enjoy the other activities that keep me occupied.

I'm not too sure if I had time whether I'd meet more often , I'd probably just make more time for those I've already met.

So drink? I'll free my diary up until march haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of time. No people to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us too! I hate that we may be misunderstood as time wasting but even the most well planned filthiness can fall at the last moment! So many gorgeous people, no where near enough time! Luckily I love chatting and sending naughty pics and videos so building up to meeting can be a massive turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes, I can work 60 hrs some weeks. And then usually when things are a bit quieter I get my period!!! So frustrating, especially when guys want to play, I feel like they think I'm just a tease. I mean I am a tease but I have follow through

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