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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So don't meet them... what's the problem here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop corn at the ready. This might get interesting.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Sits back with beer and popcorn.

This one should be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says Mr I have no pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

Yeah cos this post is going to have all the slimmer ladies flocking to you!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Put up your own meet instead of looking for them? And that's me ignoring the fallacy of the rest of the OP and just trying to solve your problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

We have a meet me up for tonight and I don't think Shaz is "big" so that blows your theory out the water

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Is this a serious thread.......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't read the commandments have you?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

I am not sure if putting a meet up gets you a meet, but have you thought that perhaps bigger ladies are more assertive rather than waiting for things to happen. They like to be in control of their own destiny? Why assume if someone knows what they want and asks for it, they are desperate?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

i smell rejection pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven't read the commandments have you?

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Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find anything wrong with meeting a bbw I find them sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put a few meets up before & I don't class myself as big. However I did get a much better response from a status update (sorry gone off topic)

OP, I could say similar, the men with meets listed don't fit my criteria.

My advice, network on here & get to know people 1st.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

so putting meets up where they probably get a fair few replies that they can pick and choose from makes them desperate??

surely just fucking whoever messages them first makes someone desperate?(not saying that non fat lasses do that before anyone gets offended!!)

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Feet up, pepsi and pop corn ready....waiting for the fallout

....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be very interesting!!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

Talk about shalow......

I for one don't juge on looks alown.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Pop corn at the ready. This might get interesting."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

I'm sorry.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

More people on here eating popcorn than actually making any contribution. Isn't there anything on TV?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So don't meet big girls...

We don't meet arrogant twats it's swings and round abouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just put a meet up. Absolutely pmsl I am soooooo desparate!! Fortunately for you OP not that desparate that I'd fuck you. Don't worry little one you're safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

You really should speak for yourself man . I for one like curves a lot... Just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More people on here eating popcorn than actually making any contribution. Isn't there anything on TV?"

this IS tv

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Feet up, pepsi and pop corn ready....waiting for the fallout

...."

Pass the salted please! Trying to work out if this is a joke thread or not ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More people on here eating popcorn than actually making any contribution. Isn't there anything on TV?"

is there ever?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well carry on the way you are, no problem having preferences but to add at the end 'yuk', how immature..and of course highlighting they might/must be desperate?...your'e talking utter shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feet up, pepsi and pop corn ready....waiting for the fallout

....

Pass the salted please! Trying to work out if this is a joke thread or not ?!"

it just feels like a poorly executed attempt at a wind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well carry on the way you are, no problem having preferences but to add at the end 'yuk', how immature..and of course highlighting they might/must be desperate?...your'e talking utter shit."

he's opening his heart innit

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"More people on here eating popcorn than actually making any contribution. Isn't there anything on TV?

is there ever? "

True, although I am looking forward to the footie tomorrow ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'm part of a couple but...

I don't class myself as a big girl and we've put up meet requests. I don't think meet requests equate to bring desperate, either. Is that the image we're projecting when we put up meet requests?

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Well, aren't you a treat.

Ironically two out of three of your verifications describe themselves are curvy in their profiles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

You mean there are some folk using a function of this site as it's intended to be used in order to help them get what they are on here for?!? Well that's just outrageous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find anything wrong with meeting a bbw I find them sexy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So don't meet big girls...

We don't meet arrogant twats it's swings and round abouts"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feet up, pepsi and pop corn ready....waiting for the fallout

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Pass the salted please! Trying to work out if this is a joke thread or not ?!

it just feels like a poorly executed attempt at a wind up "

Nah, it's probably the way he feels, we all have opinions / observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A blatant look at me thread. I'm bored and lonely so I will start a debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time I put a meet up I shall have to remind myself how desperate I am

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

What a complete tit!

Looks like source grapes after getting a refusal, did you think a "big" girl would be grateful that you offered to meet her and she had the audacity to turn you down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just a shag lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why even Start a thread like this? Yiu meet you you want to meet... we all have certain tastes. However no need to be rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

*whispers*

stick insects have fannies too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well carry on the way you are, no problem having preferences but to add at the end 'yuk', how immature..and of course highlighting they might/must be desperate?...your'e talking utter shit.

he's opening his heart innit "

well the OP appears well verified from our local club...as a couple..his other half musta been hot.

however..whatta ridiculous post...wondering why it's not in the scotland forum...I wonder...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv worked this out now so op was sat wondering how to create a successful thread (possibly after aforementioned possible rejection of some kind on here), so came up with a controversial topic knowing many of us are partial to curvy ladys then said to mates watch this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A blatant look at me thread. I'm bored and lonely so I will start a debate "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well carry on the way you are, no problem having preferences but to add at the end 'yuk', how immature..and of course highlighting they might/must be desperate?...your'e talking utter shit.

he's opening his heart innit

well the OP appears well verified from our local club...as a couple..his other half musta been hot.

however..whatta ridiculous post...wondering why it's not in the scotland forum...I wonder..."

no one lives there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

That's uncalled for. You've insulted lots of women by saying that.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

I don't think you've done yourself any favours using the language you have but I'm not going to reach for popcorn as I can't abide the lazy smugness of that particular response. I (her here) often post meets on my single profile if I fancy a night out with new folk or am unexpectedly at a loose end. That doesn't make me 'desperate' (your words, not mine) more than anyone else and I've often not found a suitable playmate but have had some great conversations in a mutually convenient meeting place. I'm sure any female meeting your exacting size requirement in your locality who has read this post will now reach for the block button. Good luck for the future; I have a feeling you're going to need it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

*whispers*

stick insects have fannies too

"

they do

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Funny how These type of post always come from people that hide behind a shadow

And that is merely your opinion OP tryat me when I say you aren't an authority on the opinion of all men

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"So don't meet big girls...

We don't meet arrogant twats it's swings and round abouts"

Hang on a minute. Did you just call this guy "arrogant"?

Why be so charitable? He is just a twat; and a simple one at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4/10 for trolling. Must try harder

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I get that everyone doesn't like bigger women but why make yourself sound like such a dick and put a lot of people down, some with insecurities because of attitudes like yours, in the process.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just like what you like and don't put other people down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well carry on the way you are, no problem having preferences but to add at the end 'yuk', how immature..and of course highlighting they might/must be desperate?...your'e talking utter shit.

he's opening his heart innit

well the OP appears well verified from our local club...as a couple..his other half musta been hot.

however..whatta ridiculous post...wondering why it's not in the scotland forum...I wonder...

no one lives there?

"

lol...probably more about the backlash lol

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

Stick insect? Grow up ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you feel that way then please feel free to carry on meeting the kind of women you DO like meeting.

You do that and i promise i'll not badger you for sex or put up a Fat Desperado seeks cock meet event. Ok? Ok

*group hug* *passes the pipe of peace*

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

What is big, OP? Over 5'8"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

IT’S being arrogant if you think big women are easy when they not. Because all the women here are lovely people especial big women who are looking for fun. I know it not my place to say it

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

At least they have pictures on their profile.

'How about you posting a meeting and see how you get on?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

I occasionally put meets up - I'm a size 12 - most people wouldn't consider that large!

And to clarify - NO woman on here is desperate - there are 10 guys to every woman and all women on here are in demand!

Also lots of guys LOVE larger ladies - they certainly don't see them as second best - and I could easily name at least half a dozen larger ladies on here who I personally think are beautiful!

If you just want to start a thread to insult people then so be it - but what do you hope to achieve other than destroying your chances of a meet with anyone who reads your post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how These type of post always come from people that hide behind a shadow

And that is merely your opinion OP tryat me when I say you aren't an authority on the opinion of all men "

Well stated hun viva all types of women from all over the world variety makes the spices of life's mixture better

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

OP- you are quite entitled to your opinion and preferences. I think maybe you need to change your approach. Seek out those you are attracted to.

I think that men, women, couples and tv's put up meets, its nothing to do with size or a sign of desperation.

They are using a tool of the website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that everyone doesn't like bigger women but why make yourself sound like such a dick and put a lot of people down, some with insecurities because of attitudes like yours, in the process.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just like what you like and don't put other people down. "

Yep beauty is always in the eye of the beholder

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

Well the women we know from the club scene and that is all we can comment on, and what we have noticed is that down this part of the country,the ones who are single and a size 14 or under would agree to some extent, our friends who are above that size say it is much harder to arrange meets unless they just want a fuck and go meet.

But for men who are looking for fwbs or regular then the 14 and under fair far better for house/hotel and regular club meets

Rightly or wrongly.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I get that everyone doesn't like bigger women but why make yourself sound like such a dick and put a lot of people down, some with insecurities because of attitudes like yours, in the process.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just like what you like and don't put other people down. "

After the OP, I think it's clear who really has the insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP if you feel that way then please feel free to carry on meeting the kind of women you DO like meeting.

You do that and i promise i'll not badger you for sex or put up a Fat Desperado seeks cock meet event. Ok? Ok

*group hug* *passes the pipe of peace*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This escalated quick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you've done yourself any favours using the language you have but I'm not going to reach for popcorn as I can't abide the lazy smugness of that particular response. I (her here) often post meets on my single profile if I fancy a night out with new folk or am unexpectedly at a loose end. That doesn't make me 'desperate' (your words, not mine) more than anyone else and I've often not found a suitable playmate but have had some great conversations in a mutually convenient meeting place. I'm sure any female meeting your exacting size requirement in your locality who has read this post will now reach for the block button. Good luck for the future; I have a feeling you're going to need it..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

"

A few people have said he was wrong for the way he worded it. It's better to ignore those types of posts anyway, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

*whispers*

stick insects have fannies too

"

it is rare to find a male one as they are essentially asexual, their fannies dont get much use apart from laying eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

A few people have said he was wrong for the way he worded it. It's better to ignore those types of posts anyway, I think."

Yep i agree to an extent, however if thats the case then shoildnt the OPs post also be ignored?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

I thought there was only one thing you wouldn't do. Seems like two now

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

And you're just as much of an arse as the op! (Why isn't there an angry face emoji??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

A few people have said he was wrong for the way he worded it. It's better to ignore those types of posts anyway, I think.

Yep i agree to an extent, however if thats the case then shoildnt the OPs post also be ignored?"

Yeah. I agree.

Although I really am asking him if we come off as desperate every time we put up a meet request. I'd like to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

"

I think a lot of people just comment after reading the original post rather than reading every post and then commenting. I responded to the comment you're talking about, did you say anything about the original post or just the one about stick insects?

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

Do you really think this is any better than the op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

Just message or interact with those who's profile matches your criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

*whispers*

stick insects have fannies too

it is rare to find a male one as they are essentially asexual, their fannies dont get much use apart from laying eggs "

I know where to go for stick insect information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find the coments from posters saying that people like the op are hurting thier chances when they post some topic like this

fabicide etc.

I think people forget how unrepresentative of the whole site the forum is and how few people actually use it.

Theres only a hubdred or so regular posters in here 99% of the site never use it.

.you could happily start a thread declaring yourself the new hitler and it not affect your chances on the whole

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I bet after posting this shit from behind his shadow the OP as logged off pretty much immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you obviously arent looking at all the meets - maybe all the 'slim' girls have blocked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

Smooth dude, real subtle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened OP, get rejected by a fat babe? Sad times.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford


"I always find the coments from posters saying that people like the op are hurting thier chances when they post some topic like this

fabicide etc.

I think people forget how unrepresentative of the whole site the forum is and how few people actually use it.

Theres only a hubdred or so regular posters in here 99% of the site never use it.

.you could happily start a thread declaring yourself the new hitler and it not affect your chances on the whole"

I disagree to some extent - there are many like me (her here) who are regular readers but comment rarely. I do however use the private notes function after reading some forum posts and block folk who would never meet folk like us.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday "

It IS possible to express a preference without insulting others.

I do despair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like these, that bump up my blocked list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

I think a lot of people just comment after reading the original post rather than reading every post and then commenting. I responded to the comment you're talking about, did you say anything about the original post or just the one about stick insects?

Actually just the one about stuck insects, read all the comments on the ops post..pretty much all that needed to be said was said, i saw 2 replies to the stick insect comment at the time i posted.

Of course the op is a moron with threads like this.

"

I can't stand posts like the ones about stick insects, it always happens on threads like this. Some people really need to engage their brains before posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect the OP is a keyboard warrior and just thought he'd start a thread that he knew would get a lot of reaction.

Slow clap to you my friend

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

LMAO That is so funny.. Really made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find the coments from posters saying that people like the op are hurting thier chances when they post some topic like this

fabicide etc.

I think people forget how unrepresentative of the whole site the forum is and how few people actually use it.

Theres only a hubdred or so regular posters in here 99% of the site never use it.

.you could happily start a thread declaring yourself the new hitler and it not affect your chances on the whole

I disagree to some extent - there are many like me (her here) who are regular readers but comment rarely. I do however use the private notes function after reading some forum posts and block folk who would never meet folk like us. "

I agree, I've often had private messages from people who have read my comments in the forums but have never posted in them. There are a lot more lurkers out there than we realise

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Threads like these, that bump up my blocked list "

Really? I think fuck it and leave them unblocked as it'll piss him of more if he still has to come across my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like these, that bump up my blocked list

Really? I think fuck it and leave them unblocked as it'll piss him of more if he still has to come across my pics "

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

So we get a load of replies defending big girls and rightly so but hardly anyone flames this idiot?

I think a lot of people just comment after reading the original post rather than reading every post and then commenting. I responded to the comment you're talking about, did you say anything about the original post or just the one about stick insects?

Actually just the one about stuck insects, read all the comments on the ops post..pretty much all that needed to be said was said, i saw 2 replies to the stick insect comment at the time i posted.

Of course the op is a moron with threads like this.

I can't stand posts like the ones about stick insects, it always happens on threads like this. Some people really need to engage their brains before posting "

Agreed, we all have our tastes, that doesnt give the right to insult those outside ones tastes.

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE

[Removed by poster at 18/02/17 18:19:10]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*strolls in....senses chaos...strolls out*

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk

You absolute fucking cock.

All women are beautiful, it's people like you that give women low self esteem.

fucking dick "

Nah

Says a lot about his own level of self esteem though

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

tels me you're desperate OP...if you have to complain that nobody you like wants to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im big but far from desperate the thinner girls are welcome to you if they will have you of course (kat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We eat pie not popcorn

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Wow op. What a pleasant guy you seem to be. Had any meets lately? Doubt it and you'll be posting next week about not getting any meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a curvy girl over a stick insect anyday

*whispers*

stick insects have fannies too

it is rare to find a male one as they are essentially asexual, their fannies dont get much use apart from laying eggs

I know where to go for stick insect information. "

yeah you have my number

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By *hySingleWoman
over a year ago

Brough

I'm on the bigger side and certainly not desperate. Everyone likes different things though you seem a little immature to be on a site like this.

There seems to be lots of stunning slim women in this part of the country though!!

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

Nice to see there is a true gentleman on here. Who cares about dress size.

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By *unguy2757Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Busy taking the tickets at door .. .. .. usherette be round soon with refreshments .. including popcorn orange juice and the sick bags .. .. .. assume the position OP with flak jacket and hard hat adorned ... ... .. enjoy .. pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to read any posts after the OP

I can smell the outrage from here

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By *ick RapidMan
over a year ago

coventry

People that complain about big lady's are boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feet up, pepsi and pop corn ready....waiting for the fallout

....

Pass the salted please! Trying to work out if this is a joke thread or not ?!

it just feels like a poorly executed attempt at a wind up

Nah, it's probably the way he feels, we all have opinions / observations."

we also know how to express them effectively and or how to wind people up with them. it just sounds like a crap attempt at the latter

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"I don't mind meeting ladies, but all the ladies who put up meets are all big. This tells me that they're desperate because all the slim ladies don't have to advertise.

Call me fussy but I'm not into curvy ladies and a lot of guys agree. They just don't say because a shag is a shag.

yuk"

FTFY

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I was more 'popular' before I lost half my body weight. Not exactly a scientific experiment but there we go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing that the OP either thinks with his dick, loves Photoshop or watches so much porn he's become deluded lmao

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"well you obviously arent looking at all the meets - maybe all the 'slim' girls have blocked you "

That made me chuckle

OP people could be putting them up to let their friends know they are free.

I'm grateful for your post it creates a useful filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

What a rude man you are. I am a size 16 and get plenty of man wanting to have sex with me, and I always get asked back.

I prefer a bit of meet on my men as well,

Although I will meet boney men as after all a shag is a shag x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just posted a meet, I'm slim.

I'm also not desperate so maybe best not to reply to our meet. Burn!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well according to a lot of men here, we're all desperate. That's why we're here

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i haven't blocked OP. as a non-BBW i'd prefer to meet someone who puts me over a BBW actually.

not that i wanna meet him, he has no pics and i'm seeing enough guys as it is and dating again as well. but i wouldn't block him for not wanting to meet someone obese.

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By *ick RapidMan
over a year ago

coventry

I make a bbw deal slim

It's not the car it's the driver

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Fat and wobbly here, but also sexy and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP states he is now single, can't think why he sounds such a catch

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I make a bbw deal slim

It's not the car it's the driver "

NO idea what you mean by this??

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i haven't blocked OP. as a non-BBW i'd prefer to meet someone who puts me over a BBW actually.

not that i wanna meet him, he has no pics and i'm seeing enough guys as it is and dating again as well. but i wouldn't block him for not wanting to meet someone obese."

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk

You absolute fucking cock.

All women are beautiful, it's people like you that give women low self esteem.

fucking dick

Thats not really true though is it.

All women are not beautiful all men are not handsome.

If everyone was beautiful or handsome then such words wouldn't exist.

But just to point out he didnt call any one ugly he said he just didnt like "big" ladies.

You're the one who has taken big to mean ugly....

Just saying."

Yeah. People often say yuk in a good way.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"I make a bbw deal slim

It's not the car it's the driver

NO idea what you mean by this?? "

think he meant feel not deal?

why would someone BBW even wanna feel slim anyway? makes no sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like these, that bump up my blocked list

Really? I think fuck it and leave them unblocked as it'll piss him of more if he still has to come across my pics "

Oh that's a good point....ceases hovering her finger over the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he trying to pull at the women heart strings if I posted something this I would not be little women on here which seem the op doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do desperate people look on the meets section hoping for a quick fuck? I'm not sure how it works, as I've never put a meet up, even though I'm biggish.

Someone please...FUCK ME THIN AGAIN!!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"I think he trying to pull at the women heart strings if I posted something this I would not be little women on here which seem the op doing "

just another guy who can't get what he wants on here and venting in an unproductive way.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

All woman are beautiful and the stick insect comments.

Every time

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By *f4loanMan
over a year ago

Spain


"Pop corn at the ready. This might get interesting."

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"All woman are beautiful and the stick insect comments.

Every time "

Ever think it's Groundhog Day on here!

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By *f4loanMan
over a year ago

Spain


"Says Mr I have no pics. "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"All woman are beautiful and the stick insect comments.

Every time

Ever think it's Groundhog Day on here! "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"
you can't speak for anyone else lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah we don't put meets up . I'm too busy eating crisps

Mrs

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"

In your opinion it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"
would love to see your body

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"

Oh and there's been plenty of negatives displayed on this thread by men

Reading between the lines I Think you're just on a I hate women in general kick at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"
for you perhaps.. and quite a lot of guys I'm sure but not all... My partner prefers larger ladies

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"

Like all women prefer 6ft plus hunks you mean? If that were the case you wouldn't be getting any, so why become a spokesman for all men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"

Better at what?

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

If they were desperate you'd have loads of meetings!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine to have a preference etc but to post a thread saying they must all be desperate and 'Yuk' is a bit childish, don't you think?

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl

Better at what? "

Exactly! Better at what? OP - you've dug yourself quite a big hole. Now is probably the time to retire the spade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

BTW I'm a big girl but I don't put up meets...maybe we aren't really desperate like you think.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Looking back at my who's looked at me

I think the OP doth protesth too much

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im a big girl .....dont worry mate your safe .... ive had my tea ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl

Better at what? "

100m sprint? moving through small spaces? high jump maybe? no idea what this man looks for in a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking back at my who's looked at me

I think the OP doth protesth too much "

he secretly wants to fuck a fit fattie xx

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

It's ok to have preferences but it's pretty childish to start a thread slagging off what you don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok to have preferences but it's pretty childish to start a thread slagging off what you don't want "
xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"

All those producers of bbw porn must be facing bankruptcy then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow just wow OP it is fine to have a preference everybody does but you don't need to insult a whole group of people on the forums. Bad move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite offended at the post to be honest. There really are some truly obnoxious and deluded people out there. An incredibly rude post from the OP and a pretty despicable comment. No class!

.......and in case you're wondering this is the male half of a non 'bbw' couple commenting. This crosses the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact he hasnt got any photos shows he aint got the right sized equipment for the job anyway ..what a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't f--kin meet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just put a meet up. Absolutely pmsl I am soooooo desparate!! Fortunately for you OP not that desparate that I'd fuck you. Don't worry little one you're safe. "

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Op you don't have to be rude about ppl to make your point.

Larger ladies may not do it for you but as a curvy lady rudeness is the biggest turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do peeps post threads like this? Do they really think people are going to agree with them. xxx

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Why do people bother responding to something so vacuous and banal as what the OP has said..

like most who post such bilge, are they worth the effort as they are clearly trolling..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Why do people bother responding to something so vacuous and banal as what the OP has said..

like most who post such bilge, are they worth the effort as they are clearly trolling.. "

I just find the cowardess of it all highly amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty "

i wish ya f**kin' did post 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk"

How wonderful op. You'll have all the ladies running after you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk

How wonderful op. You'll have all the ladies running after you now

"

I'm on my bike heading to him and I'm not even female!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty

i wish ya f**kin' did post 'em "

Wait

You mean some men do like bigger women

Omg who knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always women saying all the negatives. guys tell the truth Slim to medium better than a big girl"

Is that because your cock is so tiny you need a small woman to try and look big

Jog on wee man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk

How wonderful op. You'll have all the ladies running after you now

I'm on my bike heading to him and I'm not even female! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty

i wish ya f**kin' did post 'em

Wait

You mean some men do like bigger women

Omg who knew?

"

Well a shag is a shag remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty

i wish ya f**kin' did post 'em

Wait

You mean some men do like bigger women

Omg who knew?

"

your firmly on my hotlist so looks that way

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty

i wish ya f**kin' did post 'em

Wait

You mean some men do like bigger women

Omg who knew?

Well a shag is a shag remember "

Of course how foolish of me

Better lie with my desperately in wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful now - that's quite enough of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind meeting ladies . but all the one that put meets up are all big . that tells me there desperate . cos all Slim ladies don't advertise . call me fussy but I'm not into curvy etc

and a lot of guys agree . they just don't say . cos a shag is a shag

yuk

i smell rejection pmsl"

He probably got rejected Barney Stinson style lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post meets and I'm a massive fatty

i wish ya f**kin' did post 'em

Wait

You mean some men do like bigger women

Omg who knew?

Well a shag is a shag remember "

but some are better than others

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

Some girls are bigger than others.

Some girls mothers are bigger than other girls mothers.

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