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By *ragon-tatt OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions?"
just chat....it doesnt have to be about sex. Just make light conversation x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions? just chat....it doesnt have to be about sex. Just make light conversation x"

Totally agree. Nothing we hate more than someone assumes one or the other of us is in charge

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

i have been mistake for being other people husband before but when on my own i just get into conversation and usually end up asking how long people have been together. that works pretty well for establishing things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask if she is a milf or gilf, shaven or hairy..finally does she do anal.

always direct this to the male half

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By *ragon-tatt OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Always commend them on being hardened swingers, it's an international mark of respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more "

Ask at the door, I think you can leave your shell with the coats

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions? just chat....it doesnt have to be about sex. Just make light conversation x

Totally agree. Nothing we hate more than someone assumes one or the other of us is in charge"

So many messages from couples either follow the standard single guy format or are just from the guy aimed at me asking of "she does xyz" etc..

S

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"ask if she is a milf or gilf, shaven or hairy..finally does she do anal.

always direct this to the male half "

Giggling

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By *ragon-tatt OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more

Ask at the door, I think you can leave your shell with the coats "

Yeah..thanks for that

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By *ragon-tatt OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

I don't understand the theory behind that...if a profile says couple..is it not normal to assume they both read it? Why ask him if she does xyz when you can ask her..but that's just rude anyway lol..if t's guess I'm too shy or polite for this swinging thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the theory behind that...if a profile says couple..is it not normal to assume they both read it? Why ask him if she does xyz when you can ask her..but that's just rude anyway lol..if t's guess I'm too shy or polite for this swinging thing "

Because a lot of people get pissed off if a man addresses the woman.

I want to know how you can talk to two people at the same time, either by text or face to face. Do both parties answer a question in unison?

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By *ragon-tatt OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

A perfect couple would yes

But no, a topic of conversation that doesn't end with a yes or no answer, the one that replies is the one you talk to and keep making eye contact with the other so not to exclude them from the conversation...or am I over thinking this and should just get on with it..I feel like I'm answering my own question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ask if she is a milf or gilf, shaven or hairy..finally does she do anal.

always direct this to the male half "

It's a winner

'Has she got a bucket biff ?' works wonders too I find

As does 'if she won't suck my cock will you ?'

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more "

Sounds like you are doing the right thing. You will soon get an idea if people are interested. It's not always obvious who is with who, in a group of people, if we were interested in you, we would have no problem with you asking who our partner was, if it wasn't obvious.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

So many clubs with couples only nights expect the couple to be joined at the hip. Some couples like to swing alone, even if together at a venue.. why does it matter?

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