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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening campers!

As a single guy I wouldn't mind trying a club however the thought of going alone is slightly daunting!

Does anyone have any tips or recommendations for a loner to visit a club?

Also at times can be quite reserved (until I've had shandy or two!) so I wouldn't want to be stood there is silence dead awkward like!

Surely others guys have been in this position?

Thanks!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Get a wingman (or woman)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".

If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you

Lou

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've been to a few clubs xtasia was my 1st. Best advice is expect nothing don't follow couples around like a little lap dog and no means no. Oh and don't get pissed become you'll end up making a cock of yourself and get booted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".

If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you

Lou "

The type of friends I have would be mortified at the idea lol think I'll just have to skip the clubs and wait for a plus 1! I know now I wouldn't walk around saying hello to everyone haha I'd be awkward making everyone else awkward!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been to a few clubs xtasia was my 1st. Best advice is expect nothing don't follow couples around like a little lap dog and no means no. Oh and don't get pissed become you'll end up making a cock of yourself and get booted."

Did you find it easy to strike up conversations? When you first go in do you just sit and the bar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".

If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you

Lou

The type of friends I have would be mortified at the idea lol think I'll just have to skip the clubs and wait for a plus 1! I know now I wouldn't walk around saying hello to everyone haha I'd be awkward making everyone else awkward!"

We'll I did mean a friend from fab...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".

If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you

Lou

The type of friends I have would be mortified at the idea lol think I'll just have to skip the clubs and wait for a plus 1! I know now I wouldn't walk around saying hello to everyone haha I'd be awkward making everyone else awkward!

We'll I did mean a friend from fab...lol

"

Ahhh I see lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've been to a few clubs xtasia was my 1st. Best advice is expect nothing don't follow couples around like a little lap dog and no means no. Oh and don't get pissed become you'll end up making a cock of yourself and get booted.

Did you find it easy to strike up conversations? When you first go in do you just sit and the bar?"

At 1st I was bricking it as you probably will to but 10/20min in it just seams to go away. Think of it as a night club with a few extras and you'll be fine

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Hell's bells, wait 'till you see Chariots at Vaxhaull on a Saturday night

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Do you go to pubs on your own? It's the same thing.

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