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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've just messaged a lovely girl who replied saying she liked my pics but my verification put her off. Has anyone else had this happen or know why a verification would put someone off? Just a little confused as I thought they were supposed to tell members that you are genuine ect

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"So I've just messaged a lovely girl who replied saying she liked my pics but my verification put her off. Has anyone else had this happen or know why a verification would put someone off? Just a little confused as I thought they were supposed to tell members that you are genuine ect "

It could be the wording of your verification that put her off rather than the fact that you have one...? Have you asked her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't like bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be a bareback thing... no idea but accept and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the content of it? I don't like overly explicit verifications myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people don't like bareback. "

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Some people don't like bareback.

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her "

It's a bit crude in my opinion as well but lots of people don't care about that kind of thing so don't worry too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the content of it? I don't like overly explicit verifications myself."

Yeah that was the reason. But I can't help what people put lol. Next time I will try get a meet to not put up such a graphic verification. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the content of it? I don't like overly explicit verifications myself.

Yeah that was the reason. But I can't help what people put lol. Next time I will try get a meet to not put up such a graphic verification. Thanks for the advice"

You can keep the veris on your profile but not display them.

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"Maybe it's the content of it? I don't like overly explicit verifications myself.

Yeah that was the reason. But I can't help what people put lol. Next time I will try get a meet to not put up such a graphic verification. Thanks for the advice"

Or just don't display the overly detailed ones. They can be a bit off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's a verification, what do you suppose it's verifying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback sex and overly graphic. Your return veri also a bit graphic for me. But others are into that...so display what you want and write what you want and you'll attract the right people for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people don't like bareback.

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her "

Which means the same as not wearing a condom at all.

Your profile should be how you want it. Like attracts like. If you like dirty filthy sex have a dirty filthy profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bareback sex and overly graphic. Your return veri also a bit graphic for me. But others are into that...so display what you want and write what you want and you'll attract the right people for you."

Sorry I should have stated wasn't bareback but I can see how people got that from the verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite graphic- obviously the lady who found it off putting isn't for you. Just find someone who is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people don't like bareback.

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her

Which means the same as not wearing a condom at all.

Your profile should be how you want it. Like attracts like. If you like dirty filthy sex have a dirty filthy profile. "

Not sure how having sex with a condom then taking it off to come on someone's chest is still bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people don't like bareback.

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her

Which means the same as not wearing a condom at all.

Your profile should be how you want it. Like attracts like. If you like dirty filthy sex have a dirty filthy profile.

Not sure how having sex with a condom then taking it off to come on someone's chest is still bareback?

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Well her veri states it was over her pussy which could be risky, that will put a lot of people off.

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"Some people don't like bareback.

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her

Which means the same as not wearing a condom at all.

Your profile should be how you want it. Like attracts like. If you like dirty filthy sex have a dirty filthy profile.

Not sure how having sex with a condom then taking it off to come on someone's chest is still bareback?

"

That's not what your veri says. Finishing on someone's pussy is different than finishing on their chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people don't like bareback.

I did she said sounds a bit crude which I can see her point. But I took condom off to come on her

Which means the same as not wearing a condom at all.

Your profile should be how you want it. Like attracts like. If you like dirty filthy sex have a dirty filthy profile.

Not sure how having sex with a condom then taking it off to come on someone's chest is still bareback?

"

Dude, have you read it?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm personally not a fan of overly crude and explicit verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit that it would put me off.

Cuming on each other equals bareback as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that it would put me off.

Cuming on each other equals bareback as far as I'm concerned."

Why would her pissing on him be considered bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But now hiding that verification may put off the women who want it like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But now hiding that verification may put off the women who want it like that. "

Guess it's up to the Op who he wishes to attract on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is impossible to please everyone on fab but you absolutely have to please yourself. If that's you then that is you.

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