FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who has had a hotel meeting which was successful ???

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are many folk on here that have met in hotels successfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, but I'm not a fan of hotel meets on the whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "

I don't get that at all..

I mean I get it if they are there on business anyway and are looking for a cheeky meet but not booking a room in the hope of a speculative meet

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've had a few.

Some were ok. Some were amazing.

One was average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a hotel Virgin.

Well the fab kind anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all of my meets are hotel meets and all successful

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Most of my meets are hotel meets and all have been successful bar one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "

Love yr photos...just saying x

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

It's our preferred way of meeting.

Never had a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.

Love yr photos...just saying x"

Thank you

Mostly taken in hotels

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.

Love yr photos...just saying x

Thank you

Mostly taken in hotels

By the porter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.

Love yr photos...just saying x

Thank you

Mostly taken in hotels

By the porter ?"

Receptionist

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.

Love yr photos...just saying x

Thank you

Mostly taken in hotels

By the porter ?

Receptionist "

They can be more helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet will more than likely be in a hotel or use AirBnB to get an apartment for a night.

Can't wait.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Outside of clubs they are our preference.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Feeling any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone to meet.

Doing it the other way around is much more effective.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone "

do people actually do this?

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this? "

Surely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few good ones but normally involves someone I'd been chatting to for a while. And we'd arranged it together. I'd have the worst luck booking first and looking after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this?

Surely not. "

I've seen it pop up occasionally in local updates, hotel booked who wants afternoon fun...along those lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this?

Surely not.

I've seen it pop up occasionally in local updates, hotel booked who wants afternoon fun...along those lines."

Same here.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this? "

You do see it in the meets section so I guess so, we have put a hotel meet up once but we were there for a gig on the Saturday so put a meet up for the Friday, as we don't meet single guys we didn't get much response.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy? "

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this?

Surely not.

I've seen it pop up occasionally in local updates, hotel booked who wants afternoon fun...along those lines."

I kinda assumed that people did this when they'd been let down or that they were there for another reason and thought they'd see if they could get a meet in too. I didn't realise people actually booked rooms in the hope of arranging a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters. "

Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a hotel meet with my third ex from two years ago count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend most of my life in Hotels. The only people who want to meet are other guys, which I fine flattering, but I'm straight.

Two couples arranged to meet, but never turned up. So little succes for me. But again a single man over 50 have very little chance anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters. "

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a hotel meet but I can imagine it's quite exciting.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"

I have several hotel regulars...but my idea of regular may be different to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this?

I personally wouldn't meet anyone in a hotel who I hadn't got to 'know' via chatting for a while beforehand.

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By *leaser_m69Man
over a year ago

london

"I'm a hotel Virgin.

Well the fab kind anyway

Who wants a hotel meet tonight x

I had a few great hotel meets

Classy hotels not b & b on top of a pub lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Regarding "one offs" If neither accomodate (don't care about reason) then where would you meet outside of a club?

Clubs are fine but there are time implications and others about which doesn't apply to hotels, only restrictions are the ones you want to impose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"

no. Most of mine are repeats. But then the most I'll meet is once a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"

Some do some don't.

I've met someone on a few occasions when they've travelled here for work.

Other times a hotel in town is the mutual 1/2 way point that works for both.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone

do people actually do this?

I personally wouldn't meet anyone in a hotel who I hadn't got to 'know' via chatting for a while beforehand."

Same here, we had the meet up for a few weeks as we knew we were going, amazingly no takers till an influx of offers on the day

Yeah right, bugger off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a hotel because we want some time.. sometimes we get company.. sometimes we dont..whatever its great x

I personally dont like going to meet others in their hotels x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?

I have several hotel regulars...but my idea of regular may be different to others. "

mine is more an irregular regular arrangement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?

Some do some don't.

I've met someone on a few occasions when they've travelled here for work.

Other times a hotel in town is the mutual 1/2 way point that works for both.

mine are usually 1/2 way point meets because of my location. ..I live in a swinging desert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

98% successful

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

Always seemed a great idea.. bar downstairs for meeting socially, clean tidy room a guy hasn't got to worry about cleaning pre-meeting, and as we all know why we have met, great idea everytime

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I haven't had one for a while. I miss my long lunch hotel meets.

I might need to arrange one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh yes. It's my favourite sort of meet. There's just something so sexy about hotels. It's almost a fetish!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'm a hotel Virgin.

Well the fab kind anyway

Who wants a hotel meet tonight x

I had a few great hotel meets

Classy hotels not b & b on top of a pub lol"

I'm beginning to change my mind

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

There is something about hotels that can add a touch of excitement to a meet. I have had quite a few successsful meets that way. Had more at my house though after meeting women socially first and getting to know each other. Meets when they have been invited to mone have been a lot better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some lovely Fab hotel times and am very much looking forward to my next one.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm in a hotel now

Who wants me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house

That's formed an interesting image in my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house

brilliant

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We combined a meet and staying in a hotel ,as we were attending a social event anyway .

Worked well for us,

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has had a hotel meeting which was successful ??? "

if everyone was successful then everyone would have fun i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house

That's formed an interesting image in my mind.

There was a bit too much choice so I panicked and went for a plain pork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it to be the best way to meet. But only with people I've previously arranged to meet, as someone mentioned earlier. I love being able to relax in the other persons company beforehand, it calms the nerves a great deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had two, one was prearranged the other was very last minute, like I had to get out my own bed to meet her, totally worth it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house

That's formed an interesting image in my mind.

There was a bit too much choice so I panicked and went for a plain pork

I panic if there's too much choice. A nice big good quality pork is never disappointing. If it's chipolata then you need a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"

I met one guy regularly in different hotels for about 3 years so they can definitely be repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has had a hotel meeting which was successful ??? "

I can only give one side of the story. But I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.

Love yr photos...just saying x

Thank you

Mostly taken in hotels

They are great shot's... The successful hotel meet ones and the rest. Love the under the desk ones

Madame B

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh

Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?

Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.

I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.

Do they end up being 'one offs' though?

I met one guy regularly in different hotels for about 3 years so they can definitely be repeat meets. "

Lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a hotel now

Who wants me? "

I can only think of one answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll only meet in hotels and am yet to do so

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

I had one on the sat night just gone read my latest veri

Was great she turned up in a black dress hot as fuck

We chatted and flirted for ages then fucked

I love hotel meets there so horny if there's an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll only meet in hotels and am yet to do so

Eh hem.

. I know a posh hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has had a hotel meeting which was successful ???

if everyone was successful then everyone would have fun i think

to be honest most hate hotel meets on here

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"Who has had a hotel meeting which was successful ???

if everyone was successful then everyone would have fun i think

to be honest most hate hotel meets on here

Hate them ? Do they ? Why ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had loads as well as success with them. Like many others, I dislike the hotels where access from the lobby is restricted to room key holders only.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have and they worked well.

But caution is needed.

Are they going to turn up and the booking is wasted?

What if you get there and you don't like each other / one of you doesn't like the other?

So, they can be great fun, but just try to take steps against the potential pitfalls.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the one so far but as with others it was planned in advance and we'd spend a while chatting beforehand.

And it went far far better than I could have dreamed.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

I never had a hotel meet

But love to have one

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